There is no love: quotes, aphorisms, sayings, phrases of great people, motivational impact, list of the best and their authors

Love or pseudo-love

Probably, most people consider love, the relationship between a man and a woman, and family to be the most important thing in life. That’s right - from childhood, a child sees the relationship between mother and father, then he grows up and begins to build his own relationship. The most difficult thing on the path of life is to meet true love, where there is reciprocity, respect, where there is love and understanding.

Many people realize that love is most important only very late. It happens that a person has built his own business, he has friends and relatives, but there is no love, no reciprocity, no one to return to after work. Such individuals either lose faith in real feelings or begin to get carried away by fleeting meetings without commitment.

True love gives an incentive to live, one wants to do more than is possible, he begins to strive for something more, improves living conditions, takes steps towards his soulmate and receives reciprocity. In such situations, stress decreases, and the psychological state becomes better, the person comes to life, and is less bothered by depression. Of course, it is worth remembering that there may be difficulties, for example, dismissal from work, but if there is support, then troubles can be easily overcome, and it is much easier for two people to cope with it than for one. When a person loves, he does not want to replace his beloved with someone else and the thought that there is a better man or woman does not arise, he simply loves, appreciates and enjoys life and love. Love does not tolerate any calculation, there is calculation in pseudo-love, when one loves, but they don’t love him, they just take advantage of him and fray his nerves.

Pseudo-love implies intent when a person needs something from his “beloved,” and when he himself is not ready to give anything in return, he only has the word “need” or “buy.” Living in such a relationship is difficult, because it becomes clear that you are simply being taken advantage of, and if you refuse something, your significant other can immediately break off the relationship. People around you quickly notice such a relationship, and accusations and surprise begin to pour in from all sides that there is no love, that only money is needed. But if in such a couple one loves, then he may not notice much, and in the future this will be a sad experience, after which not many decide to start a new relationship. Since in the future there may be a fear that there will be deception again, and people think that it is impossible to love them just like that, for what they are, and not for anything.

There are those individuals who deliberately start relationships. For example, when they see that a friend has a girlfriend. A person can simply start dating someone so as not to seem “flawed” compared to others. Then, in this case, the other half may suffer if she falls in love with such a person who will take advantage of her. But in reality there will be no love, the relationship will just be like entertainment - this is pseudo-love.

If you want a relationship, then look for real feelings, and you should not get carried away by fleeting relationships that drag on, a person simply changes his partner, does not think about constancy, and it simply ceases to interest him. True love exists, you just have to open your eyes and look around, usually you don’t have to go far, and there is already someone nearby who feels sympathy or has already fallen in love, perhaps this will develop into true love.

I won't stop loving you

An unrequited feeling always leaves a deep wound in the heart, but lovers do not give up and continue to hope that their chosen one will one day reciprocate their feelings. Statuses about unrequited love may have notes of sadness and sadness, but are always full of light and warmth:

My soul is full of you, but yours is empty.
My soul hurts and my heart cries, I love you, even though I’m not a macho man.
It hurts, I can’t hold back my tears.
Love does not exist without sadness, yet it is love...
To fall in love is already a great happiness, for some it is simply never given.
It is impossible to escape the pain of unrequited love, one must hope.
My love gives birth to pain in the soul and tears - my feeling is akin to the cry of the soul.
I can find the strength for you to love me someday.
Unrequited love made me weak, but not helpless.
I will not go with the flow and wait by the sea for weather, I will seek you.
It is impossible to overcome the pain of unrequited love, you just have to get along with it.
Unrequited love is given to those girls. Who will definitely be able to cope with their feelings.
Tears from the fact that your loved one does not love you only corrode the wounds of the heart.
When there is no reciprocity, then it hurts in the soul.
Mom will always reassure you with the words: “Everything will pass, this too will pass,” but for now this is of little comfort.
Only you yourself can ease your pain - both physical and mental - from unrequited love.
My unrequited love does not give me the opportunity to soar above the world and be as happy as possible, but it throws me from side to side.
When you are not loved, it seems that the whole world is against you.
Experienced people say that unrequited love is a waste of time, but I will love, I can’t do it any other way.
Losing the love of a loved one or not finding it at all in him is losing a part of your heart and soul.
If you stop from unrequited love and become depressed, then no one will definitely love you.
You must move on and believe that your lover will still be with you.
The main thing is not to break down and call him, I shouldn’t beg for love, I’m not a beggar….
I will no longer torment you with my love, but I will not stop loving you.
There is no point in drowning out the pain in the soul from unrequited love with vodka; it only intensifies the feeling for your loved one.
I will never forget you - but I will also never declare myself again.
Don’t do anything stupid while you are trying to achieve the love of a loved one - don’t rush him or put pressure on him - everything will be as it should be.

Sexual attraction or love

There are people who will believe that love depends mainly on sexual attraction to another person. Of course, this is important, but it is not enough. The proof is that most couples today break up because there is nothing else besides sex and physical attraction.

It's important to share your favorite common moments, have the same goal in life, have common interests, or you will get bored. Remember that the person you are going to live with will be paired with you for 24 hours every day for the rest of their years, so you will have to share common desires to develop love in its long term.

What also makes the difference between an ordinary relationship and true love is the contrast of the relationship. Of course, in ordinary relationships there is passion, we feel that life is wonderful, everything is perfect, etc., and then over time the feelings decrease and the feelings become not the same as they were at the very beginning. The quote: “Love has no middle ground” is ideal in this case.

There is no routine in true love. Two people are very attentive to each other and spend time communicating and caring for their other half. It is important to be attentive regardless of the timing of the relationship.

The end of love - quotes

It is not the mind that puts an end to love, but time. Publilius Syrus

If two people whisper, this is the beginning of love. If everyone whispers, that’s the end of it. Vlada Bulatovich Vib

Passions are healed not by reason, but by other passions. Ludwig Börne

A person who has not gone through the hell of his passion will never overcome it. Carl Jung

The surest way to get rid of love for a woman is to sleep with her from time to time. Don't let your imagination run wild. Erich Maria Remarque

The most effective antidote to women is women; True, this means driving out Satan with Beelzebub, and besides, such a medicine is often more harmful than the disease itself. Heinrich Heine

MEDICINES FOR LOVE: 1. Don't meet him, don't call or write to him. 2. The easier way: get to know him better. Wendy Cope

There is no sound louder than the silence of the telephone. Lowis Wise

The best love is the one you soon part with, which never bristles with the thorns of hatred, but quietly fades into the past, leaving not painful stings, but only the fragrant aroma of regret. Richard Aldington

Often you need to break up with the person you love in order to still love him. Etienne Rey

If two people parted in anger, it means they had too close a relationship. Paul Valéry

A man leaves a woman when he notices her shortcomings, and a woman notices a man's shortcomings when he leaves her. Konstantin Melikhan

If a woman says goodbye, there is still hope. But if she says “All the best,” then it’s all over. Roberto Gervaso

If you think women don't explode, try dumping one of them. Gerald Lieberman

A man leaves a woman for another woman; a woman leaves a man because of him. Stephanie Powers

If a woman loves you, then, in essence, the one she loves is not you. But the one she no longer loves is you. Paul Geraldi

A man does not know how to break up; woman - when you need to break up. Helen Rowland

The beauty of the past is that it is the past. And women never notice that the curtain has fallen. Definitely give them the sixth act! Oscar Wilde

To love a person, you need to feel spiritual closeness to him. To stop loving - even more so. Elbert Hubbard

It is easier to part with a person than with illusions about him. Martha Ketro

To meet a woman, a few minutes are enough; it takes years to get to know her better; and to truly know her, you need to break up with her. Horace Safrin

The more beautiful a woman is, the easier it is to part with her without remorse. Murphy's Laws

There is no loss more painful and short-lived than the loss of a beloved woman. Luc de Vauvenargues

In the first year they say: “If you leave, I will commit suicide.” In the second year they say: “If you leave, it will hurt me, but I will survive.” In the third year they say: “If you leave, I will wash it with champagne.” Frederic Beigbeder

The loss of a lover, or a husband, or even two husbands is reparable; but losing a tooth is a real disaster. Hugh Wheeler

Apart from the object of love itself, there is no other medicine against love. Khariton

Passion: the only disease that can be cured by relapse. Gerard de Rohan Chabot

There is no cure for Eros either in drinking, or in food, or in spells, except for one thing - kisses, hugs, and even - lying with your naked bodies pressed against each other. Long

Love passes with hunger, and if you are unable to starve, a noose around your neck, and that’s the end. Cratet

A change of scenery is a traditional delusion on which doomed love and incurable consumption pin their hopes. Vladimir Nabokov

It is not reason that saves us from love affairs, but rather being too busy. To give yourself completely to love, first of all, time is needed. Remember the lovers of the past - Werther, Romeo, Tristan - all these are idle people. Akutagawa Ryunosuke

Myopic people fall in love. Sometimes stronger glasses are enough to heal a lover; and whoever had sufficient imaginative power to imagine the face and figure of a beloved twenty years older would, perhaps, spend his life very calmly. Friedrich Nietzsche,

Age is the best cure for love. Mikhail Genin

The cure for love: marriage. Anthony Unehovsky

The one who is cured of love first is always cured more completely. Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Love is born from nothing and dies from everything. Alphonse Carr

Love is easier to lose than to find. Italian saying

The same can be said about love as about pointed peaks; As soon as you go up, you have to go down. Gaston de Levis

All good things come to an end soon. Our love, alas, has no end. Fabio Fazio

The beginning and end of love have the same sign: those who love are uncomfortable being alone. Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Love begins with great feelings and ends in petty quarrels. Andre Maurois

A man first looks for a woman, and then hides from her. Konstantin Melikhan

What motivates us to love a woman is how she differs from other women; and what she has in common with them cures us of love. Jacques Deval

Love kills the melancholy of everyday life, and everyday life kills love in revenge. Roberto Gervaso

If two people cannot agree on where to spend the evening, then love is dead. Roberto Gervaso

If you come back at nine in the evening instead of seven, and he hasn’t called the police yet, it means the love is already over. Marlene Dietrich

Those who love very much do not notice for a long time that they are no longer loved. Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Paradise can only be lost once. Urszula Zybura

Even if love turns into loss, something will still remain - an image, a reflection, even if clouded by resentment or hatred - the negative of love will remain. Erich Maria Remarque

Love is a risky endeavor that invariably ends in bankruptcy; whoever is ruined by it is also disgraced. Nicola Chamfort

When you stop loving, you don't cry. You cry when someone stops loving you. Carla Lane

The man is loudly indignant at the woman who stopped loving him, and is quickly consoled; a woman does not express her feelings so violently when she is abandoned, but remains inconsolable for a long time. Jean de La Bruyère

Love is a flight to heaven, but you notice it only when you fall to the ground. Luigi Accetta

All our failures are ultimately love failures. Iris Murdoch

Anyone who seeks consolation after the loss of a beloved object is already more than half consoled. Marie d'Arconville

It's better to love and be out of love than to wash three baskets of laundry every week. Lawrence Peter

If your beloved no longer loves you, her new lover will be the first to notice. Roberto Gervaso

When we start talking about a loved one with those who do not love him, the end of love is already near. Minion McLaughlin

He no longer loves this woman he loved ten years ago. Still would! And she is not the same, and he is not the same. He was young and so was she; now she is completely different. He might still love the old one. Blaise Pascal

The most interesting thing about him was my love, now - nothing special. Martha Ketro

If you think you already know the person you love, that's the end of love. Max Frisch

You can reproach your lover, but is it appropriate to reproach your husband when he is not guilty of anything other than the fact that his love has faded away? Madeleine de Lafayette

If a man once loved a woman, he will do anything for her. Except for only one thing: continue to love her. Oscar Wilde

Falling out of love is highly educational. For some time you see the world with completely different eyes. Iris Murdoch

Love is temporary and ends in marriage. Ralph Waldo Emerson

A champagne cork that flies up noisily and falls just as quickly - that’s a pretty picture of love! Kozma Prutkov

When love is over, alimony fills the void. Marlene Dietrich

Sad quotes about love with meaning

Love lies in those unsent drafts in your inbox. Sometimes you wonder if things would have been different if you had clicked “Send.”

Faraaz Kazi

I will wait for you until the day when I can forget you or until the day when you realize that you cannot forget me.

Herryicm

There is a distinct, terrible pain that comes with loving someone more than they love you.

Steve Maraboli

Walking alone is not difficult, but when we have gone a thousand years with someone and then come back alone, it is difficult.

Faraaz Kazi

Life goes on with or without you.

Faraaz Kazi

Some people are going to leave, but that's not the end of your story. This is the end of their part in your story.

Faraaz Kazi

Part of me hurts at the thought of her being so close, yet so untouchable.

Nicholas Sparks

Sometimes your eyes aren't the only place where tears flow.

Faraaz Kazi

There is no disguise that can long hide love where it exists, or imitate it where it does not exist.

La Rochefoucauld

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost.

Samuel Butler

For all the sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are: “Perhaps it was.”

John Greenleaf Whittier

Some of us think that holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it lets go.

Hermann Hesse

Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by a little water.

Christopher Morley

The walls we build around us to keep sadness in also keep us out of joy.

Jim Rohn

Sometimes I wish I was a little kid, leather knees are easier to mend than broken hearts.

Unknown

Sadness flies away on the wings of time.

Jean de La Fontaine

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than to try to hurt yourself by putting them together.

Unknown

Love is a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit, but when your heart breaks, it takes time to put everything back together.

Unknown

You flew away with the wings of my heart and left me without flight.

Terry Guillemets

Quotes “There is no love” and about loneliness

People who can't be alone tend to be the worst company.

Albert Guino

The best part about being single is that you don't really have to answer to anyone. You do what you want.

Justin Timberlake

Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much.

Helen Keller

Look at the sky. We are not alone. The entire universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work.

Abdul Kalam

It's better to be alone than in bad company.

George Washington

I think it's nice for a person to spend time alone. This gives them the opportunity to discover who they are and find out why they are always alone.

Amy Sedaris

I don't want to be alone, I want to be left alone.

Audrey Hepburn

Sometimes life is too hard to be alone and sometimes life is too good to be alone.

Elizabeth Gilbert

And if you cannot be loved, then the best thing to do would be to leave yourself alone.

L.M. Montgomery

We are born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion of a moment when we are not alone.

Orson Welles

The worst poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved.

Mother Teresa

Pray that your loneliness might push you to find something to live for, big enough to die.

Dag Hammarskjöld

Sometimes you just need to be alone to make sure you still can.

Unknown author

Quotes “there is no love” should not always be taken literally. There are people who are used to being alone, because it makes their life more comfortable, and there are those who cannot live without love.

I can not forget you

Sad statuses about unrequited love for a guy are posted by girls who are in love, but the guys do not reciprocate their feelings:

It hurts me so much that you are not with me, but I believe that my time will come.
My love for you will conquer all separations, partings and disappointments, it is so strong that it is enough for both of us.
My heart hurts not from resentment that you are not with me, but from a wild desire to be with you.
No one will know that I love you very much and am waiting, my experiences will remain only with me - I don’t want to be pitied.
I will suffer from my love alone, but these sufferings will not be able to break me, because I have faith that you will still be mine.
You have never felt sorry for me, but I feel sorry for you - you are wasting your time on the wrong girls.
I will definitely cure my soul of sick love for you, but I will never forget this feeling.
I am strong, and my unrequited love will not make me cry and beg for love - I can live positively and optimistically with it.
You can spend your whole life running around with your love, which no one needs yet, and talking about it on every corner. I prefer to just live with her - fully and positively.
My one-winged love has not forgotten how to fly, I still dream and let my soul harden.
Don’t shout about your love, especially to someone who is generally deaf to it.
You can’t order your heart - so I love you - that’s all!
I won't show you that I love you very much.
You hang around some more and you’ll come back anyway.
I love you so much that you can't help but fall in love with me.
I will smile, even loving you alone.
My love with a spiritual wound - but my feeling will not break me, but on the contrary, it will strengthen my vital immunity.
Smile even if it hurts that he doesn’t notice you.
My love remains only mine for now, I cannot share it with you - you are busy.
I feel bad without you, but I won’t cry, I won’t stop loving you, I won’t forget you.

Sayings and quotes from Russian authors

Love is an amazing counterfeiter, constantly turning not only coppers into gold, but often gold into coppers.

O. Balzac

Every love is true and beautiful in its own way, as long as it is in the heart and not in the head.

V. Belinsky

Love has its own laws of development, its own ages, just like human life. It has its own luxurious spring, its hot summer, and finally, autumn, which for some is warm, bright and fruitful, for others cold, rotten and barren.

V. Belinsky

There is no crime to love several times in life, and there is no merit to love only once: reproaching yourself for the first and boasting about the second is equally absurd.

V. Belinsky

In love there is despotism and slavery. And the most despotic is female love, which demands everything for itself!

N. Berdyaev

There is an incommensurability between female and male love, an incommensurability of demands and expectations. Man's love is partial, it does not capture the whole being. Women's love is more holistic. The woman becomes obsessed. This is the mortal danger of female love. There is magic in a woman's love, but it is despotic. And there is always a discrepancy with the ideal female images.

N. Berdyaev

Love is an intimate and personal sphere of life, in which society does not dare to interfere... When it comes to love between two, then every third person is superfluous... Love is always illegal. Legal love is dead love. Legality exists only for everyday life, but love comes out of everyday life. The world should not know that two beings love each other. In the institution of marriage there is the shamelessness of revealing to society what should be hidden, protected from prying eyes.

N. Berdyaev

Reciprocity

There is no reciprocity - in fact, there is no love. No, unrequited love does happen. But in a holistic sense, no longer. There are simply TWO people, one of whom loves, the other does not. Mutual feeling is already TWO. It should also be understood that if a person suffering from unhappy love goes for a love spell, there will still not be TWO. And the action itself sooner or later turns out to be bewitching, because no one gave him the right to control the feelings of another person. Imposed feelings are a kind of hypnosis. And they wake up from hypnosis.

Still this is love

VK statuses about unrequited love can be both serious and with a bit of irony:

Strong people cope with their feelings more easily, and I am strong.
My smile on my face is a reflection of the inner sadness caused by unrequited love for you.
“My unloved one is waiting for me at the window...” - this is about me. I no longer want to share my strong feeling with someone who cannot appreciate it.
Love doesn't kill, it makes me stronger and bitchier.
Love sometimes hurts - especially when it is unrequited.
Pain in the heart from love is tears and joy at the same time.
You met me a year later, I walked and smiled. You were speechless and squeezed out: “I see you’re doing great!” “Already yes,” I said, without stopping and without looking into his eyes - it’s no longer interesting.
Love cannot be a punishment; it is a bright feeling that not everyone can experience.
Unrequited love only hits the one who loves hard, the other doesn’t care.
Even if your love contains more than pleasure and joy, do not exchange it for joy without love.
It is impossible to escape from love, Cupid has already planted an arrow in the heart. You just need to somehow carefully and slowly remove it.
My one-winged love is not filled with light and warmth, it is full of pain and suffering. Why do I need it?..
An unrequited feeling is a journey of torment, but sooner or later it ends.
Change your perspective on your feelings and understand that it is unlikely that the one you love unrequitedly will understand you completely, and why do you need a person who does not understand?
My feeling is healed by time, it has already lost its attractiveness.
Don't love someone who can't reciprocate, it's a waste of time.
Do not torment your soul with a one-winged feeling - there are so many worthy people around who know how to love.
I love him, and he only loves himself, but his love is mutual.
Love is evil, if you fall in love, you will be tormented to forget...
Why do you girls love unworthy people? They are not worth your tears, your music, or your strength.
Now I remember my unrequited love - and it becomes funny - such a fool! I also feel sorry for wasted precious time. But I had to get over it - I became smarter, wiser and kinder.

Harmony

The concept is intangible and elusive. It just feels and that's all. People are comfortable in each other's company. It must be said that the harmony in the love of a mother and a child is much clearer than in the love between a man and a woman. After all, the love of mother and child is much stronger due to its unconditionality - after all, it was given not just initially, but even before the birth of the child. The connection between them appears from the moment of conception. They are really strongly connected. This means that such love is more harmonious.

Friendship

Love is first and foremost a relationship. And they should be positioned as friendship. Even in the love of a man and a woman there is friendship, because they talk, watch and discuss films, eat together, laugh, etc.

Concepts such as passion and attraction are incoming, and they stem from the evil one. Yes, and they relate only to carnal love, and from the general understanding of love as a whole they simply fall out.

All of the above is eternal and is the solid basis of any love.

In conclusion, it is worth noting that there is one interesting quote: “No love means no soul.” Everyone has their own understanding and vision on this matter. For some, love is the highest feeling, while for others it is just chemistry.