White lies: when it's okay to lie


Statuses about lies in relationships with meaning

You can hit me with the truth, but never pity me with a lie.

My feelings for you after your deception are filled only with pain, contempt and indignation.

Previously, I perceived your lies as your mistakes and tried to help you correct them. But only the grave will correct a liar...

If you can’t remain yourself, go lie to someone else.

You didn’t come into my life to lie, did you?

You lied so skillfully that I still don’t believe it was a lie.

I decided to say goodbye to you not because you are a loser, but because you are a lying loser.

Your deceitful actions are due to your honor and lack of conscience.

You are an adult and I will not prove to you that lying is bad, go and drown in your lies yourself.

You have no equal in imitating the truth, my dear.

You so actively defend your right to deceive me...

I regarded your lies as care and attention.

If you don't lie, you won't live

It's annoying to feel deceived. But are we always crystal honest with ourselves and others? Life sometimes forces us to resort to cunning.

  1. You must always notice the difference between a lie and a little cunning. The first is a sign of weakness, the second is a vital necessity.
  2. If you don't deceive yourself, you will remain deceived.
  3. Does honesty exist? The whole world is built on lies.
  4. They believe not those who tell the truth, but those who lie truthfully.
  5. Don’t throw lies around left and right, in case you really need them tomorrow!
  6. Don't force me to tell a lie and don't engage in self-deception.
  7. True freedom is not having to lie. But we are all slaves of this world.
  8. I don't know how to pretend, that's my main flaw.
  9. It's bad to deceive others, but it's even worse to deceive yourself.
  10. Lying is a kind of skill that has been honed over the years.
  11. You can’t trust anyone: everyone lies, from young to old.
  12. Any lie has a last name, first name and patronymic.
  13. Your eyes lied from the very beginning, but they were so attractive that I had to deceive my own heart.

Phrases about lying and deceiving people

I’m already afraid to get close to people - as soon as I dig deep, there’s emptiness inside with elements of lies and pretense.

It's disgusting to see how people lie and get pleasure from it.

People can be such deceivers that at first you take them seriously.

If you try to get to the bottom of a person, you risk plunging into his deceitful world.

Trusting people does not lead to good. The law of life says that the strongest survive in it. We are divided into those who deceive and those who are deceived.

Nothing changed. There are crowds of strangers around, and everyone tells you what to do. And everyone is lying.

If you don’t deceive, you won’t live; many people act precisely on this principle.

I used to believe that everyone was telling the truth, just like I did, but it turned out that most people don’t even know what it is.

When fate confronts you with a liar, you should thank her for another experience.

After communicating with a liar, you just want to go to the bathhouse and wash yourself.

Don't look for people who don't lie - they don't exist. Look for those who deceive, but do not betray - you can deal with such people.

Strange people have come: they themselves lie, but they demand the truth from me.

People who say they never lie are lying.

Cheating is not good, we all know from childhood, but sometimes people forget about it.

When you stop trusting your loved one or friend

  1. Love does not forgive false promises.
  2. Dishonesty in a relationship is a sign that it will soon end.
  3. Some people easily forgive lies. But this is not about me.
  4. Friends who constantly lie are worse than enemies who tell the truth.
  5. My whole life is a struggle with an endless stream of lies and betrayal.
  6. Vile lies sweep away even the strongest relationships in their path.
  7. Trust is hard to earn and so easy to lose.
  8. I can’t just swallow a lie and forgive. The sediment still remains.
  9. With each passing year, it becomes harder to trust people.
  10. Liars have no place in my life.
  11. When deceiving your loved one, do not forget that you are deceiving yourself.
  12. Two things destroy relationships: truth and lies.
  13. A liar is the most terrible traitor.
  14. A lie is a dagger that is usually used to stab people in the back.
  15. Lies cause serious wounds that can heal for years.

Quotes about a loved one's lies

Again, comforted by that deception, I believed in your ridiculous story... But I knew there was no more faith, not for the first time..

You said you needed me. Apparently, it’s needed to lie...

Once you swore and deceived. Now I don't believe in your gods.

There is no need for flowers, kneeling or beautiful actions. Just don't lie to me...

It was not the fact that you deceived me, but the fact that I could no longer trust you that shocked me.

You have to tell a liar that he is a liar, and even if you once loved him...

A deceitful person - I would never have thought that I could say that about my loved one.

I always paid attention only to your best qualities, not noticing how you simply lie to me.

When you pour on me again, I think: I would rather choose loneliness than you.

It’s terrible to look into his eyes when he’s pouring, but I know the truth.

Love is not afraid of huge separation, it dies from little lies.

You deceive me so often that I am convinced that you have already begun to believe yourself.

I'm no longer at that age for the noodles to stay firmly on my ears.

I think I understand that you deceived me a little... but I can’t believe it anymore...

With your lies you humiliate me and yourself. And that means our love has no reason.

You are so beautiful that even your lies breathe sincerity!

It’s easy for you to deceive me, because I trust you so unconditionally.

When a loved one deceives, this is already a betrayal.

I'll drink to the lies of betraying lips...

Fool. You lie to me, you dodge... You don’t understand that in your eyes I see your whole life.

The sweeter the speech, the more painful the deception.

The ideology of honesty is the basis of relationships

Relationships are built on the basis of trust. When it is undermined, relationships suffer greatly, and some simply end. Most cultures have an ideology of openness and honesty. Therefore, people inherently expect truthfulness as a fundamental characteristic of all conversations. People do not interact expecting others to lie to them—that would be too much cognitive effort.

Dr. Timothy Levine has dedicated his life to the study of deception and its detection. His research was funded by the National Science Foundation, the US Department of Defense and the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI)! Dr. Levine's Truth Default Theory explains how honesty is adaptive and enables effective communication. However, the presumption of honesty makes us vulnerable and limits our ability to detect deception.

Although we hope that our friends and family are honest with us, research shows that people resort to deception in relationships quite regularly. But it is not always only these obvious cases of intense falsification of the truth that are considered deceptive. And they can’t always be interpreted as something bad; there are other options.

Statuses about lying people

It takes a lot of time to trust a person and only a moment to be disappointed in him

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I never lie to anyone because I am not afraid of anyone. You only lie when you are afraid.

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When you see how others, despite obvious lies, continue to consider themselves right, you involuntarily relieve yourself of the responsibility to be fair to them.

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Deceiving yourself is stupid and useless; it is enough that others are constantly deceiving.

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In a fight with the most bitter truth, our people are invincible. Lying about ourselves is unacceptable. We don’t want to listen to the truth.

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The fear of being misunderstood pushes one to lie. But lies are the shortest path to misunderstanding.

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When some people say they will never get married, I want to take a receipt from them.

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We no longer accuse anyone of lying; we are already accustomed to the fact that almost no one tells us the truth.

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For a lie to slip through, you need to be convincing, and for the truth to prevail, you need to be honest.

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A sharp knife won’t hurt you like a lie will hurt you, And only later will you discover that it was the one you’re friends with who did it.

White lies: arguments FOR and AGAINST

Each of us communicates with the people around us: at work, at home, among friends, moms on the playground, in the store...
At the same time, we are constantly faced with issues of trust and deception, lies and truth, friendship and mistrust. Often we see outright and blatant lies that are invented on purpose.

But even here, not everything is so simple. Sometimes they resort to lying in order to avoid trouble, so as not to injure their family and friends, and so on.

Distorting the truth, hiding certain events and actions, presenting oneself in the best light is the norm these days. Adults often scold children “for lying,” and they themselves often dissemble and embellish. So this is completely normal? This is confirmed by experts. In our age, it is unrealistic to fit into society without the ability to hide a lot and “present” yourself in the best light.

Lies, or rather the suppression of certain facts and concealment of the truth, are constantly present in our lives. There are no squeaky clean people, just as there are no “total liars.”

Types of deception

Deception is any statement that someone makes to another person that knowingly and intentionally distorts the truth. Dr. Levine's work highlights how deception is communicated in a variety of ways. From strategic ambiguity and wild fabrications to more subtle and mundane disguises of truthful information. There are several forms of deceptive communication.

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More ambiguous forms of deception, such as omission or evasion, are actually also the types of lies that are most common in relationships. That is, to keep silent about something is also to lie. However, most people automatically associate the word “lying” with many negative characteristics and believe that deception is a dark phenomenon that interferes with and destroys our relationships.

I was upset not because you deceived, but because

The status about love and deception is especially sad. They say correctly that you cannot love two women at the same time, but you can cheat.

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Statuses about deception when there is no point in coming up with excuses. And if this happened between you and your loved one, we wish you to find the strength to move on!

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The first opinion can be deceptive, but it’s worse when all subsequent ones become deceptive.

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Life is like some kind of bazaar. Everyone wants to deceive each other: give less, take more.

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I love to look into your eyes and listen to how you lie And you don’t even realize that I know the truth

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I understood everything from your eyes, I understood everything from your lips, it hurts, but deceiving myself is even more painful, I’m leaving.

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My dreams have long been broken, the pieces can no longer be collected, goodness has long been forgotten for everyone, only deception and lies remain.

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But I said: “Don’t get used to me! I'll leave anyway. “And you laughed back and said that I was still small and stupid. So why now these cries about betrayed trust?!

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“You can’t live without deception,” people say. Whether this is true or not, judge for yourself.

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If you trust, you will definitely be deceived, so I prefer to trust only myself.

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If you are trying to lie, looking into my eyes, do not flatter yourself, I am already deceiving you, pretending that I believe you!

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If you ever deceive me. know that you are not deceiving me, you are deceiving my faith in you.

That's when lying is useful

Sometimes your elderly parents don't need to know the details of your entire life. Hiding some information from them is not a bad idea. Parents do not need to know about your quarrels with your spouse, health or money problems. Everything here, of course, is individual, but it’s better not to worry your loved ones again, especially if they can’t help.

Sometimes deception can be useful in getting someone to comply. Take, for example, the situation of someone who is suffering from addiction or needs surgery or just a doctor's visit. Potentially, lying to get someone to intervene could save their life.

The Hidden Side of Deception

Many people don't realize that deception can sometimes be useful. The founders of the study of the hidden side, Dr. Brian Spitzberg and Dr. William Kupach, developed this view to shed light on the paradoxical nature of certain types of communication, such as deception.

Some studies show that in relationships we lie 1-2 times a day. Things are even worse with strangers. About 77% of the time we lie to people we don't know! Ask yourself, did you exaggerate the story to make it more exciting? Have you ever told someone you had a great week when in fact it was a terrible week? Have you made up an excuse that wasn't actually true? Have you told your child that the Tooth Fairy is real? Did your friends help you hide a surprise party?

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If you said “yes” to any of these statements, you are also a liar. But, for example, participating in organizing a surprise party, is that bad? And that’s the whole point: deception is not always evil. It can also be beneficial. Sometimes honesty is not the best policy.

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