Updated January 19, 2021
Hello, dear readers of the KtoNaNovenkogo.ru blog. The same words can be pronounced in different ways: in each case they will have a different effect.
When someone speaks very emotionally, you involuntarily begin to experience the same emotions as the speaker. In some cases there is nothing wrong with this. For example, a person with leadership qualities can lead a whole crowd with the help of pathos.
Another point is where will he take her? Towards a bright future or committing immoral acts. Pathos used for good intentions - why not? But you should be wary of dirty manipulations of feelings.
Pathos is...
Translated from Greek, the word “pathos” means passion, suffering .
Its more complete definition is the expression of emotions in an elevated manner, with particular drama and excitement, in order to evoke a similar response from the audience. In Ozhegov’s dictionary, pathos has the meaning of inspired enthusiasm, enthusiasm.
As a simple example, a priest from an American movie immediately comes to mind, who shouts various slogans to a crowd of parishioners accompanied by cheerful music. People are charged with his energy, pick up his words, shout back “Hallelujah!”, and the apogee (what is this?) of such a picture is the miraculous healing of one of the people sitting in a wheelchair)).
Aristotle was the first to talk about pathos: he introduced this concept into rhetoric, as a speech technique used to evoke the necessary feelings in listeners , thus making them feel the tragedy of the story. In this case, the speaker does not actually use his emotions to the fullest extent, remaining calm within himself.
Further, Hegel began to use this term to convey not only a tragic mood, but also a solemn one. And even later, they began to distinguish between different types of pathos, to use it not only in oratory, but in literature, films, music, television programs, radio and other areas.
Coolness is a lifestyle
Is it funny to read banality on your friends’ pages? Don’t repeat their mistakes - show off something unusual and put cool statuses for guys on your page:
- I am young, but with rich experience and wise thoughts.
- I have something to share with society, don’t hesitate to ask.
- I don't feel like I'm cool, I just am.
- Coolness is not in demeanor and clothes, but in the head and inner world.
- You shouldn’t say about yourself that you’re cool when others say it - then they confirm your inner state.
- Many young guys grow beards to appear cool and brutal, it’s funny. Coolness is not in the beard, but in your thoughts.
- Anyone can hit him in the face, but to deal a moral blow to the enemy and put him in his place requires strategy and tactics.
- I hit any target accurately.
- Thinking quickly and thinking quickly is my credo, I don’t like slow-witted people.
- Don’t count how old I am, judge by my thoughts and deeds.
- After communicating with me, everyone gives me more years than I actually have. The reason is not that he grew old before his time, he simply grew wiser ahead of his time and comprehended many life sciences.
- I don’t like to scratch my tongue, but to get things done.
- In our country there is someone to chat and promise, I prefer to do something nice for close people without promises.
- Many people don’t perceive me, and who would like to hear the truth about themselves?
Pretentious - what is this?
What is pathos in everyday life, and what does a pathos person look like? As a rule, it differs sharply from the rest in the following characteristics:
- elevates himself against the background of the environment, although in most cases there are no reasons for this. Either having a small merit, a person will inflate it to enormous proportions (he brought his grandmother across the road, imagined himself to be the savior of the Universe);
- pretentious people treat everyone with undisguised condescension , since a priori they consider themselves the “navel of the earth”, and the rest are not suitable to hold a candle to themselves;
- they pretend that they understand literally everything , although this is far from the truth (they are “supposed by status” to be the smartest);
- aggressively to situations in which their ego may be exposed or they may be rejected. In such cases, a person may put on a whole dramatic performance to regain his “former glory” and gain attention.
This shows that in real life, a pretentious person is more of a negative character from whom you want to run away.
Who would like to feel worthless, ugly, hopelessly stupid, etc. next to him? And this is exactly how ordinary people feel with an interlocutor full of pathos.
What can I recommend?:
- If such a “hero” meets you on your life’s path, it is better to immediately retreat and not maintain communication. This is a fully formed personality and nothing can be changed about it. This time.
- Proving to a pretentious person that you are not so lost to society and gaining his respect is unrealistic. Don't waste your energy. That's two.
- It is also not possible to get even a drop of understanding or empathy (what is this?) from him. That's three.
Pathos quotes. Pathetic statuses and phrases
Where can I get to you? It will take a very long time to go down...
I don’t need someone else’s, but I’ll take what’s mine - no matter who it is!
No matter how many bitches moan on you... the hand of your beloved girl on your cheek is always more pleasant...
I live as I should! And I’m entitled to everything!
I have so much of my own stupidity that I save money on alcohol)
Guys, remember the phrase “let's have sex” is not flirting.
I don't have delusions of grandeur. Great people do not suffer from it.
People are often cheaper than their clothes...
Take me to the house where the tequila is on the rocks.
Never hang your nose. Hang people who offend you. More effect.
There are two wise people: me and people, I believe in myself.
When a guy has been waiting for a long time, for him “five more minutes” is a complete mind blower.
Status is like underwear - it needs to be changed... At least sometimes!
My pretentious status was not censored...
You were insulted - forget it... You were humiliated - forgive me... You were hit - fuck it, remember everything and beat the hell up!!!
If you abuse me, you will overdose!
Anyone can offend me... but not everyone has time to apologize...
A man said, a man did, that’s why our men are quiet... and silent...
It is not pathos that builds a person, but a person that builds it for himself!
Get lost in the fog, cover yourself with a cloud!
A true friend is not someone who will come to your aid in trouble, but someone who will be sincerely happy for you when you buy yourself a BMW...
A woman can be compared to her favorite jacket; you love her madly. But why do you need it in Turkey?!
You and I are intelligent people, asshole!
People say you've changed when you simply stop acting the way they want you to.
Each person is right in his own way, but in my opinion he is not! Because I'm always right!
Life is too short to waste it on safely extracting for a flash drive.
Are they digging a hole for you? Don't interfere. Once finished, you’ll make a pool.
Life must be lived in such a way that the pathologist becomes scared!
It's better to die a lone wolf than to be a goat in a herd of sheep.
To go crazy you need to have it...
I ask you to come to your senses and open your heart to me. Now, motherfucker, break off a couple of pieces of ice for my double whiskey!
“Are you pretentious?” - “I’m glamorous!”
There are a lot of harmful things in the world... For example...
Not enough human warmth? Throw more people into the oven!
If you find a horseshoe by the trough, it's not luck, someone threw away the hoof!
I'm sending you to hell, keeping to the schedule! You need to be strict with this - there are many applicants...
Not long ago I was very touchy. He constantly walked around and offended everyone.
Young, handsome, tall, rich, has a car, good salary. I'm not looking for anyone, I just decided to get fucked.
A real man is not the one who tears his shirt, but the one who tears his condom!
If you're good at something, never do it for free.
Girls, don't offend guys! They already have an eternal tragedy in life: sometimes it’s not to their taste, sometimes they’re too tough, sometimes they can’t afford it!
Fuck, I still have to shoot and shoot until the oppressive loneliness...
Everything I have I earned myself. Begging your parents for money is also not an easy job.
We are not afraid of work: if there is no work, we go to bed, if there is work, we also sleep... We do not sit without work!
I’m not pretentious, but a little crazy... I have pornography in my head, war in my heart, champagne in my blood...
If fortune has turned its back on you, bend it over and fuck this bitch so that next time she will think twice before acting so rashly!
Happiness is when everyone envy you, but they can’t spoil you...
Yaroslavl paints - I smelled them and I was in a fairy tale!
I rub, my friend, and you are a bag of shit, when I rub the rhyme, the suckers get shocked.
Born to crawl, disperse - I'm taking off!
We're tired of our “you have to be able to forgive.” God will forgive. And I will remember.
If a person is a jerk, then the relationship with him will be strained...
If you want to be the “king of beasts,” then be sure to be ripe for it! And since in your dreams you are only floating, then do not prevent others from reaching the heights of the “king”!
Where are you from so impudent? – And that insolence has a special area of residence?
If a man is good, then it doesn’t matter what color his BMW is.
A man is like an expensive dress: it looks good and fits me... But I’ve already seen it on some bitch!
- You need to live in such a way that your parents are proud of you, your friends hold on to you, your significant other loves you, your enemies die of envy, and everyone else stupidly admires you!
- My joy, I am not one of your dolls. I am from a unique Barbie series!
- How sometimes you want to roar, yell, fight, beat anything and destroy everything around, but there is nothing left to do but put on a mask of indifference...
- The princess’s heart cannot understand: “Why does she need one when she has five at once?!”
- “...we spend our whole lives at the party, the years fly by without stopping, at night with someone, alone during the day, we are the generation of coke and vodka...”
- Let the cute girls bat their eyes, shedding tears on the books... let different princes from fairy tales gallop towards them, but I would prefer a Lamborghini...
- Patience and hard work don't suit me
- Why does everyone say that women love money? We don't love them! Look how fast we are getting rid of them
- No longer a baby, but already a princess. Time has flown by, I have grown out of childhood. I lost my heart, changed my principles and now I only hang out with princes...
- From cosmetics, I prefer powder for male brains!
- You are a fake doll, you behave intrusively, pretentiously and stupidly! So perfect and you think everything is cool, but in life everything is DG, Expensive and Stupid!
- Thanks to those who love me - you make me better. Thanks to those who hate me - you make me stronger. Thanks to those who don’t care at all - you are needed for extras!
- A woman seems much taller if she has a man under her heel
- I ask you to come to your senses and open your heart to me. Now, motherfucker, break off a couple of pieces of ice for my double whiskey.
- Money keeps her dear love, she feeds on the currency of fat wallets, no need for sweet words - give her warmth... a mink coat and the Caribbean islands!
- The reason for my insomnia can only be a nightclub, and not you.
- The most pleasant acquaintance in my life began with the words “Beauty, let me give you a mirror, you can admire yourself.”
- A Lady is a woman who behaves in such a way that a man has no choice but to be a Gentleman...
- Proud - because they have already humiliated!!! Eternal - because she died in soul... Bitch - because she was once abandoned! I swore not to love ANYONE EVER!!!
- A man is like an expensive dress: it looks good and fits me... But I’ve already seen it on some bitch!
- Girl, maybe I’m pretentious, too self-confident and have inflated self-esteem! If you think so, then you are very far from me, because... you don’t dress with taste, you’re not confident and don’t consider yourself beautiful. It turns out you're nobody!
- Dull thoughts, cigarettes, clubs... I wish I could find time to put on lipstick... I wish I could find time to admit to myself... That's all. The End. Time to change.
- To achieve his love, you don’t need to pretend that you feel good... just become a pretentious bitch and he will come running to you
- The girl is the one curse word you asshole can't live without. So love, appreciate and enjoy.
- Something tells me that I went nuts... it seems to be my conscience
A real man is not the one who tears his shirt, but the one who tears his condom!
I am not in your format, not your picture, not your desires...
Dull thoughts, cigarettes, clubs... I wish I could find time to put on lipstick... I wish I could find time to admit to myself... That's all. The End. Time to change.
I don't need your pathos and glamor. I need a simple young man with whom we will have mutual love.
If you abuse me, you will overdose!
To hell with smart people, smart statements... I'll just pretend to be a fool who loves Lazarev and glamor.
Do you think I'm a pretentious bitch? Then note that I communicate normally with normal people!
Hmm, lately I’ve been kind of strange, no one likes me, I don’t even have the desire to fall in love. Now I think either the princes are over, or I’m already completely greedy.
I’m sitting drinking coffee, glamorous bitch, and all I need is “Prado” and “Guсsi”.
The best contraceptive is brains!
If a man is good, then it doesn’t matter what color his BMW is.
Look at me, I'm happy... And blame yourself for fucking up!
I was cute when I was 5 years old... and now I’m just awesome!
Glamorous, independent, unbearable, jealous, with a lousy character and a stupid sense of humor... It's all about me... But despite everything, for you I'm the best? Is it true?
There are too many causes of death in the world to die from modesty...
For blondes, everything that is not pink is purple!
Your life will always smell like my perfume... No matter what you do, no matter who you are with...
I'm going to become kind and good. Don't bother me, bastards, don't bother me!
Farewell, farewell my love! There are a ton of people like you (even better) here. You'll never find someone like me. Even if you destroy the whole world!
There are Lamborghini guys - they are pretentious, impressive, but you are afraid that they will steal them, and there are Zhiguli guys - they are not pretentious, not spectacular, but you leave them where you want.
I'm not asking you to love me. I ask you to dislike with reason!
A man is like an expensive dress: it looks good and fits me... But I’ve already seen it on some bitch!
Press your buttocks tighter to your stomach so that you forget this, and that, and the previous one: burn out everyone who came before me, screaming, pressing a pillow to your mouth!
Well, we broke up, so what? Are you waiting for cute statuses? Are you waiting for an SMS from me? Do you expect me to regret? A-ha-ha, dear, go galloping and get the hell out of here!
While you and your friends are discussing how depraved and vulgar I am, your boyfriend is shitting on my photo...
The best friend is the one with whom you think: how good it is that we are both beauties!
When you wake up from your pride and pathos, it will already be too late. I will kill my love for you... And then you will understand what you have lost, but it will be too late...
Baby, life is a game... Burn it while you're alive!
All men are divided into three categories: 1. Smart. 2. Rich. 3. Smart and rich, but blue.
It wasn’t me who became pretentious, it was you who became very raised, and I just learned to shut your mouth...
The sun is on vacation, today I am for him!!!
I'm so fashionable that it's not profitable for you!
I will run my heel over your heart so that it creaks. What the hell does it hurt? Be patient, creature, this is just the beginning.
I love black lingerie, I hate the rules of glamour! And sometimes I’m defenseless... (about fifteen minutes after the manicure).
I changed all my friends to guys, communication and friendship with them is much better!
I can’t be the second... And even the first... I can only be the only...
Do you love freedom so much?! No problem free!
Something tells me that I'm crazy... I think it's my conscience
Guys are all goats, and our task, girls, is to turn them into red deer!
I don’t have delusions of grandeur or star fever at all, it’s just hard to be modest when I’m the most fucking one here!
Be happy that girl I see in the mirror every day...
The girl is the bitch you can't live without, you asshole. So love, appreciate and enjoy.
There are a lot of harmful things in the world... For example...
From cosmetics, I prefer powder for male brains!
To achieve his love, you don’t need to pretend that you feel good... Just become a pretentious bitch and he will come running to you!
Pathos and literature
Literary pathos is those feelings that the author put into his work in order to evoke similar emotions in the reader. This is the mood in which the reader finds himself after reading the work.
several types of pathos in literature :
- sentimental - emotions from the family and everyday sphere (description of the birth of a child, a wedding celebration, the experience of a meeting or separation, etc.);
- heroic - a demonstration of the inspiration, high spirits of the main character fighting for good (I will save this world!);
- romantic - reveals to the reader the conflict (what is this?) of the ideal and unfair reality (she waited for him for 33 years and three days while he was at war);
- humanistic pathos is the protagonist’s pursuit of the highest ideals, despite any obstacles (I will save the planet even at the cost of my own life!);
- dramatic - a description of the psychological, mental suffering of the characters as a state (how painful, bitter, offensive I am).
Thus, poets and writers use this technique to emotionally involve the reader in their work.
If you think back to several books you have read, you will definitely find that you received vivid impressions from some of them (and maybe all of them).
Be a man
Cool male statuses are the privilege of men of different ages who have strong character and willpower, as well as a rich inner world. They are also fully characterized by compassion and kindness, which does not make them weaker. Statuses can be like this:
- If you cry from grief, this is not weakness, this is a manifestation of the soul.
- Don’t be shy about small weaknesses - your loved ones will understand, but others won’t care.
- A sign of masculinity is not verbosity, talk less, do more.
- The strong should help the weak and simply close people.
- I loved Stallone since childhood, grew up and realized that you don’t have to create an idol for yourself, but take from his character the traits you need.
- Don't envy people, learn from the successful.
- A man is made up of contradictions, but he must have the main thing - not to change his principles.
- Courage is not to lie and not to deceive others, but not every man is ready to do this.
- Listening to gossip about loved ones and not punching the gossiper in the face is probably wrong.
- Every blow of fate makes a real man out of a guy.
- Real men don’t put masks on themselves - depending on the circumstances, they are always natural.
- Remembering your family and parents means remaining decent and not disgracing those who always believed in you.
- It is very difficult to preserve your individuality in our difficult world; everyone strives to break you or tries to adjust you to their own way. But real men won’t break, it’s easier for them to slam the door and send everyone far, far away...
- Listen to yourself more often, your inner instinct will not deceive you.
- Sometimes it's worth retreating a little to win the battle. This is not a weakness, this is a tactic.
- Build your life brick by brick and don’t moan – let the weaklings moan.
- I’m not used to retreating from my intended goals, and not because I’m so stubborn, I just “took the tug, don’t say it’s not strong.”
- Only forward is my guide to action.
- I prefer to act and not complain about fate.
- Manifestations of the mind are not words, words are worthless, they are deeds and masculine actions.
- When life hits you hard, don’t soften or become weak, concentrate and overcome pain while passing obstacles.
- The man is not getting smaller, there are simply fewer and fewer real men.
How pathos affects our lives
To understand the real influence of pathos, remember how many decisions you made under the pressure of emotions? In moments of intense joy, you can promise anything to anyone.
When you are very sad and sad, you may accidentally offend a loved one by refusing to communicate with him. When angry, the picture of the world is distorted, and people say a lot of things that they later regret.
Manipulators of other people's feelings are well aware of these moments and successfully use pathos to achieve their goals. For example, a politician from the rostrum seeks the favor of the people - potential voters.
Writers thus gain their audience. A business coach recruits a team of students, and a participant in a competition wins the favor of the jury and spectators.
Author of the article: Liliya Sergeevna Kovalenko (psychologist)
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At least I'm not a star, but that's it for now
Pretentious statuses on VK are often posted by girls, young ones at that, to emphasize how happy, wealthy and successful they are:
- Don't stare at my photo for those who are simply being strangled by a toad, I'm sorry if it does strangle you.
- You shouldn’t write to me as a dirty and loser - first wash yourself off and learn how to make money.
- Under my photo I read a lot of reviews of chickens from a common chicken coop - what, today you were released into the wild to nibble some autumn grass?
- In general, the opinion of those who are themselves - zero without a stick - is not interesting.
- If you don’t know how to live and work, you get a ridiculous salary, but what does that have to do with me?
- Only funny people have funny salaries - they all go to work, and the employer, along with the salary, still laughs at them.
- I won’t be like you and comment on your stupid words - it’s not interesting at all.
- How I earned money for the car is none of your business; I see you are horseless.
- Here they are trying to teach me about life - why are you so poor if you are so smart?
- Classmates, I see, they’ve appeared on my page - you can’t erase them - what, my excellent students, it’s hard to live on one salary and with an alcoholic husband?
- I’m ready to give money just so I don’t have to see your faces and comments.
- Oh, so many comments after my harmless phrase: “Please do not disturb poor people.” All the poor people perked up and began preparing a revolution.
- Ex-boyfriends - well, what do you want from me now - bask in the rays of my glory?
- I saw my ex and asked to add him on VKontakte - dear. I don't give to beggars.
- Where were all of you boyfriends when I was walking around the world, and now, of course, friendship, candy wrappers, badges...
- I won’t help anyone, because no one helped me either.
- What kind of generosity of soul are you counting on, little souls?
