Quotes about raising children (100 quotes)
The main function of the new family should be the function of educating a person and a citizen. The main meaning and purpose of family life is raising children. The main school of raising children is the relationship between husband and wife, father and mother. The topic of raising children is acute and relevant at all times. Many great scientists, writers, and teachers were concerned about this issue. The proof is provided by aphorisms, quotes, phrases, statements and thoughts of great people about education, which were inherited by contemporaries in huge quantities. Just a storehouse of wise advice and educational ideas that young and inexperienced parents so need! You can get acquainted with the heritage of pedagogical thought on this page. The best quotes about raising children are collected in this section.
The best way to make children good is to make them happy."
Oscar Wilde
Children are the most precious of all entertainments. Michaela Yosof
Proper upbringing of children is for children to see their parents as they really are.
George Bernard Shaw
A child has his own special ability to see, think and feel, and there is nothing more stupid than trying to replace this ability with ours.
Jean Jacques Rousseau
Raising a child requires more penetrating thinking, deeper wisdom than governing a state.
William Channing
You will never be able to create wise men if you kill naughty children.
Jean Jacques Rousseau
The main meaning and purpose of family life is raising children. The main school for raising children is the relationship between husband and wife, father and mother.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
Every child is an artist. The difficulty is to remain an artist beyond childhood.
Pablo Picasso
“When a child is frightened, spanked and upset in every possible way, then from a very young age he begins to feel lonely”
Dmitry Pisarev
They learn from mistakes. A man would never wake up his second child just to see him smile at him.
Jen Jensen
Boys are a severe test for human patience, but dealing with girls, God knows, is incomparably more painful.
Louisa May Alcott.
Always act in such a way that your children respect you enough without being afraid. Do not impose on them those virtues that you do not possess yourself. After all, children watch us and draw conclusions.
Andre Maurois
For the education of young minds, the most useful things are the useless.
Georges Duhamel
Life is a struggle, and you need to prepare for it from childhood. Comrades raise much better than parents, because pity is not characteristic of them.
Andre Maurois
Raise your children without reprimanding them. Protect your childhood from comments and reproaches. Parenting without criticism is the best thing you can give your children.
Simon Lvovich Soloveichik
Sooner or later we all start quoting our mothers.
Burn Williams
Those who do not need education respond well to education.
Fazil Iskander
Sooner or later we all start quoting our mothers.
Burn Williams
If raising boys requires more effort, put in more effort.
Margaret Mead
What spoils children is not that we give in to them, but that we give in to them just to avoid conflict.
John Gray
Before you start raising your children, check your own behavior.
A. S. Makarenko
I was born and raised among crocodiles, I had no problems with them. But children... are so unpredictable.
Steve Irwin
We are all born sweet, pure and spontaneous; therefore, we must be educated to become productive members of society.
Judith Martin
I was born and raised among crocodiles, I had no problems with them. But children... are so unpredictable.
Steve Irwin
At first, maternal education is most important, for morality must be instilled in the child as a feeling.
Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel
The best school of discipline is the family.
Smiles S.
Whoever knocks, who whistles, who smacks, who clinks - together we get education.
People and mannequins
The main function of the new family should be the function of educating a person and a citizen.
Gramsci A.
Only a living example educates a child, and not words, even the best ones, but not backed up by deeds.
A. S. Makarenko
The main meaning and purpose of family life is raising children. The main school for raising children is the relationship between husband and wife, father and mother.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
Even a chicken can love children. But to be able to educate them is a great matter of state, requiring talent and broad knowledge of life.
M. Gorky
Not tyranny, not anger, not shouting, not pleading, not begging, but calm, serious and business-like orders - this is what should outwardly express the technique of family discipline. Neither you nor your children should have any doubt that you have the right to such an order as one of the senior authorized members of the team.
Makarenko A. S.
Raising children is about not letting them die before their time.
Cougar Town
Let the child's first lesson be obedience, then the second may be what you consider necessary.
Fuller T.
Many troubles have their roots precisely in the fact that from childhood a person is not taught to control his desires, he is not taught to correctly relate to the concepts of what is possible, what is necessary, and what is not.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
Only that in a person is strong and reliable that was absorbed into his nature in his first period of life.
Komensky Ya.
The main thing in raising children is that they do not notice this.
Do you know what the surest way to make your child unhappy is to teach him not to refuse anything. Rousseau J.-J.
In the name of father, and son, and good education. Belt.
If you yield to the child, he will become your master; and in order to make him obey, you will have to negotiate with him every minute.
Rousseau J.-J.
Parenting... is the hardest thing. You think: well, it’s all over now! No such luck: it’s just beginning!
Lermontov M. Yu.
Many troubles have their roots precisely in the fact that from childhood a person is not taught to control his desires, he is not taught to correctly relate to the concepts of what is possible, what is necessary, and what is not.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
You need to first know how to handle germs, and only then take on children!
You should never talk with children about lofty matters or reason ahead of time. There is nothing more vulgar than the children with whom they reasoned. Reason develops after all other faculties, and to begin with it means to begin from the end. If the reasons and reasons for all things were clear to children, then there would be no point in educating them.
Rousseau J.-J.
Raising children is difficult because nothing human is alien to them.
Precisely those parents who poorly raise their children, and in general those people who are distinguished by a complete lack of pedagogical tact - they all exaggerate the importance of pedagogical conversations.
Makarenko A. S.
Parents no longer raise children - they finance them.
Przekruj
The art of education has the peculiarity that it seems familiar and understandable to almost everyone, and even easy to others, and the more understandable and easier it seems, the less a person is familiar with it theoretically or practically.
Ushinsky K. D.
Anyone who wants to raise a child well is doomed to always adhere to fair views.
O. Balzac
Family education for parents is, first of all, self-education.
Krupskaya N.K.
Education is the bread of the soul.
D. Mazzini
It educates everything: people, things, phenomena, but first of all and for the longest time - people. Of these, parents and teachers come first.
Makarenko A. S.
From flint a spark is born, from a worthy man a worthy son is born.
Chechen proverbs and sayings
Nothing acts in the young souls of children more powerfully than the universal power of example, and yet all other examples of no one else impress them more deeply and firmly than the example of their parents.
Novikov N. I.
Why does a father love his son more than his father's son? Because the son is his creation. Everyone is favorable to what they themselves have created.
Aristotle
The guilt and merit of children falls to a huge extent on the heads and consciences of their parents.
Dzerzhinsky F. E.
Hearing people praise her son makes the mother happier than the day she gave birth to him.
Thiru-Valluvar
Beware of ruining your children with vile behavior, and even more so with inappropriate condescension.
Chaucer D.
“A respectful son is one who only upsets his father and mother with his illness.”
Confucius
If people say bad things about your children, that means they are saying bad things about you.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
It is not surprising that sons who are raised by a wise father are rich in knowledge.
Abulqasim Ferdowsi
Do not think that you are raising a child only when you talk to him, or teach him, or order him. You nurture it in every moment of your life. The child sees or feels the slightest changes in tone, all the turns of your thoughts reach him in invisible ways, you do not notice them.
Makarenko A. S.
A good son can bring only one grief to his parents: grief because he is sick.
Confucius.
Growing and raising children is a big, serious and terribly responsible matter.
Makarenko A. S.
If your son stands up for his wife, be proud, you have raised a real man. And what kind of son you raised - your old age will show.
By raising children, today's parents are raising the future history of our country, and therefore the history of the world.
Makarenko A. S.
What sons have forgotten, grandchildren try to remember.
Eilis Rossi
The well-being of the entire people depends on the proper upbringing of children.
Locke D.
Do not interfere in the affairs of husband and wife, do not interfere in the affairs of father and son.
Ancient India, unknown author
Children are our future! They must be well armed to fight for our ideals.
Krupskaya N.K.
In peacetime, sons bury their fathers, and in war, fathers bury their sons.
Herodotus
Children are our judges of tomorrow, they are critics of our views and actions, they are people who go into the world for the great work of building new forms of life.
Gorky M.
If a son outgrows his father, the father wears his son's old trousers.
Yanina Ipohorskaya
Our children are our old age. Proper upbringing is our happy old age, bad upbringing is our future grief, these are our tears, this is our guilt before other people, before the whole country.
Makarenko A. S.
He who spares his rod hates his son; and whoever loves punishes him from childhood.
King Solomon
Parenting... is the hardest thing. You think: well, it’s all over now! No such luck: it’s just beginning!
Lermontov M. Yu.
From flint a spark is born, from a worthy man a worthy son is born. Chechen proverbs and sayings
Raising a child requires more penetrating thinking, deeper wisdom than governing a state.
Channing W.
Why does a father love his son more than his father's son? Because the son is his creation. Everyone is favorable to what they themselves have created.
Aristotle
Even a chicken can love children. But to be able to educate them is a great matter of state, requiring talent and broad knowledge of life.
Gorky M.
Hearing people praise her son makes the mother happier than the day she gave birth to him. Thiru-Valluvar
Preaching from the pulpit, captivating from the rostrum, teaching from the pulpit is much easier than raising one child.
Herzen A.
A respectful son is one who upsets his father and mother only with his illness.
Confucius
Parents often confuse the concepts of “upbringing” and “education” and think that they have given their child an upbringing when they have forced him to study so many subjects. Hence the frequent disappointment of parents in their children in subsequent years.
Rubinstein A. G.
It is not surprising that sons who are raised by a wise father are rich in knowledge.
Abulqasim Ferdowsi
All thinkers, I think, have come to the conclusion that education must begin from the cradle.
Pirogov N. I.
A good son can bring only one grief to his parents: grief because he is sick.
Confucius.
The upbringing of a person begins with his birth; He doesn’t speak yet, doesn’t listen yet, but he’s already learning. Experience precedes learning.
Rousseau J.-J.
If your son stands up for his wife, be proud, you have raised a real man. And what kind of son you raised - your old age will show.
A habit is strongest when it begins in youth; This is what we call education, which is, in essence, nothing more than early formed habits.
Bacon F.
What sons have forgotten, grandchildren try to remember.
Eilis Rossi
The principles laid down in a person’s childhood are like letters carved on the bark of a young tree, growing and unfolding with him, constituting an integral part of him.
Hugo V.
Do not interfere in the affairs of husband and wife, do not interfere in the affairs of father and son.
Ancient India, unknown author
We need to instill in children a love for people, and not for oneself. And for this, the parents themselves need to love people.
Dzerzhinsky F. E.
In peacetime, sons bury their fathers, and in war, fathers bury their sons.
Herodotus
It is usually our will to give our children our knowledge; and even more, give them our passions.
Montesquieu S.
If a son outgrows his father, the father wears his son's old trousers.
Yanina Ipohorskaya
It is necessary - for a full sense of life, that is, for happiness - to teach children “great love” - for the homeland, for the nation, for humanity, trust in the power of the mind, surprise at the beauty of the human soul, only all this is capable of creating organic respect for man, to the individual.
Gorky M.
He who spares his rod hates his son; and whoever loves punishes him from childhood. King Solomon
Childhood should not be a constant holiday - if there is no labor stress that is feasible for children, the happiness of work will remain inaccessible to the child.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
From childhood to 5 years old, your son needs to be looked after like a dawn, from five to fifteen years old, like a servant, and all other years, like a friend.
Ancient India
If children were not forced to work, they would not learn literacy, music, gymnastics, or that which most strengthens virtue—shame. For it is primarily from these activities that shame is usually born.
Democritus
A man envies everyone except his son and his student.
Sages of the Talmud
Pay your attention not so much to the destruction of shortcomings and vices in children, but to filling them with life-giving love: if there is love, there will be no vices. The destruction of the bad without filling it with the good is fruitless: this produces emptiness, and the emptiness is constantly filled with emptiness; drive one out, another will appear.
Belinsky V. G.
There is only one moral lesson that is suitable for childhood and extremely important for any age - this is not to do harm to anyone.
Rousseau J.-J.
Sons understand their fathers when they become grandfathers.
Initial education is most important, and this initial education undoubtedly belongs to women.
Rousseau J.-J.
Your son lives his own life. It's time to love yours.
At first, maternal education is most important, for morality must be instilled in the child as a feeling.
Hegel G.
The only man I would die for would be my son!
A woman who, having children, is capable of experiencing boredom is worthy of contempt.
Jean Paul
The worst thing that can happen to a little man is to be the son of a great father.
Austin O'Malley
The mother must receive appropriate education in order for her behavior to be moral towards the child. An ignorant mother will be a very bad teacher, despite all her good will and love.
Mechnikov I. I.
Sons leave the parental home one by one, and usually return pair by pair.
A real mother, educating, giving an example, arousing love, admiration, and a desire to imitate, will only be that mother who herself lives a real, full human civil life. A mother who limits her responsibilities to simply serving her children is already a slave to her children, and not a mother raising,
Makarenko A. S.
The husband is responsible for the wife, and the son is responsible for the mother.
The best mother is the one who can replace the father for her children when he is gone.
Goethe I.
It is not surprising that the son is intelligent, because his father was distinguished by great wisdom.
Abulkasim Ferdowsi.
Parents love their children with an anxious and condescending love that spoils them. There is another love, attentive and calm, which makes them honest, And this is the true love of a father,
Diderot D.
When I have a son, there will be someone better than me.
He is the father who educates, not the one who gives birth.
Menander
A father loves his son, and a son loves his son.
Sages of the Talmud
A father's prudence is the most effective instruction for children.
Democritus
First, the father is for the son in everything, then the son is for the father in everything.
By producing and feeding children, the father fulfills only the third part of his task. He must give people to the human race, public people to society, and citizens to the state. Every person who can pay this triple debt and does not do so is guilty, and perhaps more guilty if he pays it in half. He who cannot fulfill the duties of a father has no right to be one,
Rousseau J.-J.
Many sons would follow in the footsteps of their fathers if they were not afraid that they would be caught doing this.
When raising a child, you need to think about his upcoming old age.
Joubert J.
If your son likes to paint on the walls, ask him where the paint comes from. Perhaps it’s ketchup, but what if the pattern is brown? It’s scary to think about.
Parents' love should not be blind. Satisfying a child’s every desire, constantly stuffing children with candies and other delicacies is nothing more than deforming the child’s soul.
Dzerzhinsky F. E.
When parents are smart and virtuously modest, then their sons are also well-behaved.
Sebastian Brant
Paternal and filial feelings are different: the father has love for his son; the son cherishes the memory of his father.
Quotes from Russian classics with the phrase “lend a helping hand”
The meaning of the phrase “to give (or extend) a hand (of help)”
Give (or extend) a hand (of help) to someone - help someone.
See also hand. All meanings of the phrase “to give (or extend) a hand (of help)”
The meaning of the phrase “give a hand (help)”
Give a hand (help) to someone - translation. help. Why, seeing a person helpless, do I not have the right to give him a helping hand? Saltykov-Shchedrin. I am grateful to him for being the first to give me his hand in misfortune. See also hand.
All meanings of the phrase “give a hand (help)”
The meaning of the phrase “to lend a hand”
Extend a hand (colloquial obsolete) - transl. start begging, live on alms. In his old age, the servant had to extend his hand. See also hand.
All meanings of the phrase “extend a hand”
The meaning of the word "stretch"
STRETCH, -pull, -pull; prib. suffering past
extended, -nut, -a, -o;
sov., trans.
(
nons.
to stretch).
1. ( nons.
also pull).
Stretch, stretch for some distance. distance, in smb. direction. All meanings of the word "stretch"
The meaning of the word "hand"
HAND, -i, wine.
hand,
plural
hands,
dat.
hands,
w.
1. Each of the two upper limbs of a person from the shoulder joint to the fingertips.
Place your hands behind your back.
Cross your arms over your chest. All meanings of the word "hand"
Sentences containing the phrase “lend a helping hand”
- Drinking wine in a dream is a sign that you will soon have very reliable and loyal friends who will not abandon you in difficult times, but always lend a helping hand
in any situation.
- This is a house in which life is in full swing and at any moment anyone can lend a helping hand
, even if they don’t ask.
- And who, if not me, lend a helping hand
in need of support?
- (all offers)
Synonyms for the phrase “lend a helping hand”
- help out
- help
- give a hand
- give a helping hand
- support
- (more synonyms...)
Associations to the phrase “helping hand”
- help
- help
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Associations to the word “stretch”
- petition
- cable
- (more associations...)
Associations to the word “hand”
- gesture
- finger
- fingers
- hands
- palm
- (more associations...)
Associations to the word “help”
- services
- to help
- reinforcement
- helplessness
- Friend
- (more associations...)
Associations to the word "extend"
- the girl extended
- the woman extended
- lend a hand
- reach out to someone
- (full compatibility table...)
Associations to the word "hand"
- right hand
- hands-legs
- fingers
- my hands were shaking
- take someone's hand
- (full compatibility table...)
Associations to the word "help"
- ambulance
- human help
- Giving help
- needed help
- help
- (full compatibility table...)
Morphology
- Analysis of the composition of the word “stretch”
- Analysis of the composition of the word “hand”
- Analysis of the composition of the word “help”
Spelling
- How to spell the word "extend"
- How to spell the word "hand" correctly
- How to spell "help" correctly
In difficult times, support is always more valuable than gold. Georgy Alexandrov
Yes, that's it, no other way. You yourself gave me this rhythm, so allow yourself to give me your hand, and into a new frequency. Well, those who have never fallen from anywhere are unlikely to know about real heights. Katya Tsoilik
When a person is depressed, do not ask him to “pull himself together,” but admire his endurance. Mikhail Litvak.
Even strong people need a strong shoulder. I'm talking about women and men. Angelina Jolie
When you agree to help, it does not mean that you have given up. This means that you are not alone in this world. "Life as it is"
When the ground disappears from under your feet and there is nothing to rely on, there is only one thing left to do - hold on to the stars. Sergey Vedenyo
We need support. We need friends. If they are not nearby, we have to turn loneliness into our main weapon. And then what surrounds us can help us move towards the main goal. Paulo Coelho. Magician's Diary
In difficult times, you can always safely count on the help of kind people. Especially to the help of the kindest of them - yourself. Yuri Tatarkin
The Almighty helps only those who are able to help themselves - he only provides moral support. Neyah
The only way to help yourself is to help others. Kahlil Gibran Gibran
If you need a helping hand, know that you have it - your own. As you get older, you will realize that you have two hands: one to help yourself, the other to help others. Audrey Hepburn
Sometimes one word from a person who believes in you is enough to bring you back to the world. Alessandro D'Avenia.
If at least one person needs my support, smile or help, then I do not work and live in vain. Oksana Mikhailovna Marchenko
Having experienced misfortune, I learned to help those who suffer. Virgil Maro Publius
You will always have everything you want in life if you help other people get what they want. Zig Ziglar
If you are unable to support another, then grow and grow with all your might. “Unheard of Game”
Light your fire - someone really needs it! Stepan Balakin
If you have nothing to give to someone in need, give something to their heart. One word of encouragement can bring a person out of the darkness of despair.
Sometimes, to help a person, you just need to be near him. “Chrono's Crusade”
A good friend will support you in difficult times, a great friend will pretend not to notice anything. "Desperate Housewives"
The most effective philanthropy is that which helps people help themselves and maintain self-respect. Eugene S. Dorsey
An understanding heart, Strengthens those who love Those who believe, very soon, Will call with them on the road. The understanding heart will forgive us and judge. DDT - Understanding Heart
When you want to cry, Call me... I don't promise to make you laugh, But I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away. Call me... I don't promise to persuade you to stay... But I can run away with you.
If one day you don’t want to hear anyone at all, Call me... I promise to come for you. And I promise to be quiet. Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Just don’t lose heart, Look ahead, And your loved ones will support you And will always understand.
Mutual support is the foundation of marriage.
The most important thing is your home, What matters is your family and those with whom you are surrounded, Your friends, not those who will turn away When the clouds cover the sun. Ritmo, Under Myriad Stars
When you ask a man for support and don't push away his refusal, he will be more willing to respond to your request next time. John Gray.
It is accepted that people become attached to those they have helped. This speaks of the kindness of nature: the ability to love is a truly deserved reward for a good deed. Nicola Sebastian Chamfort
You know, when I look back at what our family has gone through, what each of us has gone through, I see all the pain... I understand that we survived all this by supporting each other. "Supernatural"
If it is commendable to do good to friends, then there is no shame in accepting help from friends. Plutarch
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- How nice it is to help decent people: there are so few of them! A.V. Ivanov
- Thinking about the importance of other people helps you determine your importance in small facts, rather than in big illusions. Elena Ermolova
- By helping lazy people, you help them sit on your neck. Stas Yankovsky
- If people do not learn to help each other, then the human race will disappear from the face of the earth. Walter Scott
- Don't open your arms to people - don't help them crucify you. Stanislav Jerzy Lec
- Thanks to my profession, I get the opportunity to help people - and myself. It makes my life richer and fills it with meaning. Helen Hayes
- When, while doing good, you do not think about yourself or others, a handful of grains will give mercy for a thousand pounds of bread. When, while helping others, you boast of your generosity and demand gratitude from people, then a hundred gold coins will not bring you even half a copper’s worth. Hong Zichen
- You must be constantly confident in everything you say, think and do. This creates the right impression of you among others. People believe you, want you to succeed and help you. Wally Amos
- Practicing medicine allows me to improve the world at the most basic level and help people. I approach my work with a passion for humanity and hope that I can make the world a better place. Carl A. Hammerschlag
- I lived most of my life homeless. I swore to the Lord that I would help other people, and I love what I do. Bea Gaddy
- Every person is sent by God to earth to help other people. James Gibbons Huenecker
- Only those people are truly rich who help their neighbors in need. Tamil Quatrain
- The purpose of human life is service, compassion and a willingness to help people. Albert Schweitzer
- Help everyone you can help. Do it selflessly. Do it because you love people and see the potential they have. Help people and you will always have friends. Norman Peel
- Our main goal in this life is to help other people. If you are not able to help them, then at least do not harm. Tenzin Gyatso
- Deep down, wise men know this truth: the only way to help yourself is to help other people. Elbert G. Hubbard
- If you are looking for a way to make your life meaningful, start serving and helping other people. And then the real meaning of life will be revealed to you. Wally Amos
- Charity literally means love, a love that is capable of understanding, that does not simply share property, but with true sympathy and wisdom helps people help themselves. Franklin Roosevelt
- If you care too much about your reputation, you won't be able to help people. Hong Zichen
- People who also make mistakes, but know how to overcome problems and learn from their mistakes, do not criticize, but help others not to make more mistakes. Vladimir Borisov
Hello, lovers of quotes and aphorisms!
Today I have prepared for you a selection of quotes about help. Perhaps these vital and wise sayings will tell you when to help others and when to accept help from others.
My father always taught me that if you do good and help others, God will give it back to you double. That's what happened to me. I tried to help those in need, and God helped me much more. Cristiano Ronaldo
Lending a helping hand to someone is the bravest act. Daniel Radcliffe
The very people who refuse your help are often the ones who need it most. Joanne Harris "Peaches for Monsieur Cure"
The best and most rewarding thing a person can do in his life is to help another. Alexandra Marinina “Tiger Fight in the Valley”
When you hit rock bottom, you need someone who is willing to give you a helping hand. Jodi Picoult "Cruel Intentions"
True help always comes from someone who is stronger than you and whom you respect. And the sympathy of such people is especially effective... Francis Scott Fitzgerald “The Costs of Good Education”
One of the most important skills thanks to which you can achieve any difficult goal is to ask for help in time and accept it. Heidi Halvorson "The Psychology of Achievement"
Sometimes the best way to help someone is to simply be there. Veronica Roth "Divergent"
Sometimes we all need help, even if we don't want to admit it. Sarah Dessen "Lock and Key"
I never helped anyone out of good intentions - I helped because I couldn’t do otherwise. Henry Miller "Tropic of Capricorn"
Not only a person can lend a helping hand. A book can also lend you a page. To do this you just need to open it. Nadeya Yasminska
Help that comes unexpectedly is doubly blessed! John Ronald Reuel Tolkien "The Lord of the Rings"
By helping lazy people, you help them sit on your neck. Han Xiangzi
If you are looking for someone to give you a helping hand, remember that you already have two hands. Nossrat Pezeshkian
I can't help everyone. But this is not a reason not to help one. Mikhail Weller "The Adventures of Major Zvyagin"
If you feel bad or difficult, find someone who is worse and more difficult than you and help him. Oleg Roy “Web of Lies”
Do not forget the services rendered to you, but forget about those that you yourself provided. Publius Syrus
If you can help, help. If not, at least do no harm. Dalai Lama XIV
The opportunity to help your neighbor is a reward in itself, and you should not expect gratitude for it. A person who does good for selfish purposes will live a very unhappy life. Terry Goodkind "Ancestor's Debt"
Help cannot be forced. And you cannot provide it unless you are asked to do so. Alexandra Marinina “Everyone for himself”
Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, friend. James Clemens "Storm of the Witch"
“You can’t help everyone!” says the heartless one, “and he doesn’t help anyone.” Maria von Ebner-Eschenbach
My mother always said: “If you have even a small opportunity to help others, help.” Sarah Michelle Gellar
*** You can’t count on help if you don’t believe, but it’s hard to start believing until you feel help.
*** Never offer help that deprives a person of his own capabilities. Never insist on providing help that you think is necessary.
*** Someone who once did you good will be more willing to help you again than someone whom you yourself helped.
*** “Every person fights alone with the whole world, and if he is lucky, someone will lend him a helping hand, but you can’t count on help.”
*** You have a thousand reasons to ask God, but he does not have a single reason to help you.
*** If you want to help your friend, then do it in such a way as not to take on his burden.
*** They don’t call friends in grief, they don’t pay for help, they don’t consider them obligated to themselves...
*** To isolate yourself means to tie yourself to your problem and not accept help, which can be very useful!
*** You will achieve everything in life if you help others achieve the same.
*** Today you helped a person, and tomorrow he... did not help you.
*** We need to help during life, not posthumously praise!
*** I also help my wife with cleaning the house - when she vacuums, I raise my legs...)))
*** Those who try to help everyone have ensured hell for themselves during their lifetime.
*** It seems like you want to help a person... you help... and then you understand... but maybe this help will only bring him harm...
*** How I want to help you all! May you all be happy and loved))))
*** I always gave you two hands, while you didn’t deserve even one.
*** Help breeds laziness.
*** Sometimes you need to be able to let go of the past, no matter how painful it may be. Because it’s just the past - it won’t help you in any way.
*** Is it worth lending a helping hand? It’s worth it, but only to good people, and the bad ones don’t appreciate it, but will find even more extreme ones...
*** But don’t feel sorry for me. I can do this myself. Better help financially!
*** And here is the feeling of horror and helplessness, when you help everyone around you, answer complex life questions, but at the same time you cannot help and answer these same questions for yourself.
*** There is no point in trying to help people who do not help themselves. It is impossible to force a person to climb stairs if he himself does not want to climb.
*** When you are on the edge, do not grab the first hand that comes out - perhaps this hand will push you off the edge.
*** You look too much for help from others. Don't you notice that this help is not real?
*** In the name of saving a person, you can cause him pain.
*** The only way to help yourself is to help others.
*** You are not a bird of such flight that you can count on someone else’s help. All by myself, all by myself. Well, I can only help - with advice, nothing more...
*** To help, sometimes you just have to not interfere. Or this: to help, you just have to not help, so as not to interfere with your help.
*** To my friends, I am Mother Teresa 24/7!
*** People!!! Let's all pray together at least once a day so that on this earth there will be no orphans, sick children, starving children... only together we are POWER!!! Thank you for your prayers!!!
*** Time teaches you to adapt to mental pain...
*** Every person has the ability to forget friends and remember only when they need help!
*** To the question: “Do I need help?” many answer: “Thanks, no need” even in a critical situation, so it’s better not to ask, but to help...
*** “Charity consists not only in material help, but in spiritual support of one’s neighbor. Spiritual support, first of all, does not lie in condemning one’s neighbor, but in respecting his human dignity.”
*** If you don’t see a way out of the situation, act illogically, this will be the way out.
*** By helping lazy people, you help them sit on your neck.
*** To help another person, you don’t have to be strong and rich - it’s enough to be kind.
*** If you have even a small opportunity to help others, help.
*** It is better to become a victim of ingratitude than to refuse to help the unfortunate.
*** You need to help people very carefully and in doses - because thoughtless help is worse than indifference...
*** Life is not easy, and we all have to help each other get through it.
*** He who wants to pull his neighbor out of the mud must plunge into the mud himself in order to give a helping hand.
*** The best help is the one that comes at the wrong time. Prudent and preliminary assistance provided before it became needed.
*** Sometimes, the most real and effective help is to simply not interfere.
*** Do you also take leaflets from the metro, not to find out what’s there, but to help the person distributing them?
*** If it costs you nothing to help a person, this is not yet an action. It’s another matter when by providing help you sacrifice something.
*** Break the law of meanness - help people!
*** When a person feels bad, sometimes it’s enough to just be silent next to him.
*** How nice it is to help decent people: there are so few of them!
*** Instead of taking the hand and climbing out of the hole, people look for something valuable in the hand and, not finding anything there, push it away.
*** It also happens: whoever loves, destroys, and whoever despises, saves.
*** Before you call me and ask for help, learn to call to find out how I'm doing.
*** - I can’t help everyone. This is not a reason not to help one.
*** It’s so nice to realize that you are doing something very important for others, to feel needed, and the biggest reward is the happy faces of the people you helped...
*** If you need a helping hand, don't forget that you have two of them.
*** There are so many who advise and so few who can help.
*** If we live to help others, then why do others live?
*** If you fall and cannot get up on your own, then it is very important to understand: they forgot to provide you with help or they simply ignored you?
*** I have only one drawback... I don’t have enough money... I pray to God to help me fix it))
*** The path to church is through suffering, when it seems that no one and nothing can help you...
*** Once you lend money to some people, they begin to see you as a bank.
*** When you slip and fall, remember that for every one person who is ready to extend a hand, there are ten who are ready to step on their back...
*** Happiness cannot be found in owning and acquiring something for yourself. It lies in the ability to give and help others.
*** Know that to save a person, just hugging him is enough.
*** They held hands, emerging to the surface. A good thing is the hand of a friend. It does not oblige the one who holds it out to anything, and is very comforting to the one who shakes it...
*** A friend is not just someone who helps you out. And the one you WANT to help out at any moment.
*** There is such invaluable help that it would be better not to provide it...
*** If you can help a person, help. And who knows, maybe when you need help, there will be at least one person who can give it to you.
*** When extending a helping hand, do not clench it into a fist.
*** There is no need to try to help all of humanity at once, it’s enough to just look around and see someone who is feeling bad. If each of us warms up an abandoned dog, comforts an offended child, or helps a lonely old man, there will be no unhappy people left in the world.
*** I am my only helper, you won’t get help from others!
*** Do not think about how your help will be rewarded and never flaunt your nobility by listing your good deeds and complaining about the ingratitude of those you helped.
*** The best help is help provided SILENTLY!!!)))
*** Where is the world going?! We not only forget to selflessly help people, but we also forget how to accept help! There seems to be some kind of catch or calculation in everything. Sadly…
*** The helping hand must be clean.
*** Never complain to anyone about anything - they are unlikely to help you, and they will stop respecting you...
*** Six do not remember those who helped them before: a student - a teacher, a married son - a mother, a husband who has fallen out of love - a wife, an assistant who has achieved a goal, a guide who has got out of the thicket, a sick person - a doctor.
*** When we help others, we help ourselves, and don’t expect that anyone will ever appreciate it!
*** I unscrew the legs of the nightstand with a screwdriver. The husband comes up, takes the screwdriver, and leaves. Well, I think now he’ll do everything himself! He comes back and hands me a screwdriver: “It’s easier this way!”
*** My Guardian Angel... I’m tired again... Give me your hand, please, and hug me with your wing... Hold me tight so that I don’t fall... And if I stumble, You lift me up...
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Helping people is discovering a new self
Today, the phrase “help a person” is often associated with material assistance, money, and connections. But is this the only way a person can help his neighbor? Certainly not. After all, many of us have had situations when they helped us out with a word, advice, simply listened to us in difficult times, or helped us in doing some necessary task. And this is much more important than simply closing the issue with money. Help is a unique way of communication between people, sometimes with kind words, sometimes with deeds or actions.
Everyone at least once in their life has felt the joy and warmth that arises when, out of sincere and good intentions, you help out, support or save someone. Psychologists have proven in practice that after helping someone, a person feels a huge surge of strength . He gains a desire to live, the strength to resist his obsessive thoughts, and a reason to be in such an inspiring state of positivity and goodness more often. That is why helping others helps a person get out of a seemingly hopeless situation and direct his thoughts in a creative direction.
How and who can you help? The answer to this question is very simple. Just think about what you can do here and now, with what you already have. After all, one idea of a good deed can lead to a chain of positive situations and distract from obsessive thoughts.
There are a huge number of ways to help people: Firstly, today the Internet opens up great scope for helping our neighbors. To take advantage of this opportunity, first of all, it is worth remembering that you , like every person, have your own specific experience and talents . So, for example, someone knows a foreign language, someone is well versed in certain computer programs, and someone has been able to easily solve mathematical problems since childhood. All this seemingly simple knowledge can be shared with someone on the Internet. Today there are many Question and Answer sites where people ask each other all sorts of things. You can regularly follow the questions for updates and help find the answers! Your knowledge and skills can be life-saving for a person.
Everyone can use their talents for the benefit of people by getting involved in social work, including through the Internet. For example, by going to the website of the public organization “Lagoda”, you can find information about various social projects. For example, anyone who wants to discover new talents can take part in creating websites, motivators, writing articles, or even get involved in the creation of social videos, submitting ideas and scripts. The desire to do something for people can change a person’s thinking for the better. Such an activity has a very positive effect on the development of the individual, since it stimulates its creative development, fills it with good emotions, the desire to live, and the desire to acquire more knowledge about the world and about oneself.
On the Internet, among other things, you can help foreigners learning Russian if you speak some language. You can send supportive cards to sick children or correspond on abstract topics with lonely people living far away. You can create pictures and comics that improve people's mood and post them on various sites.
As for helping people via the Internet in general, the main thing here is precisely unselfish activity that comes from the heart. After all, by helping others, you are thereby filled with creative thoughts that carry a positive charge, and bring meaning to your life!
Secondly , you should turn your gaze to your immediate environment: relatives, close neighbors. You can start by sincerely seeing their best qualities, sharing this discovery with the person himself. Because, as a rule, people feel that they are thought well of, and they really try to live up to this image of a good person. Such a change in thinking is also useful for you, as a person who has managed to change his opinion about his neighbor for the better. After all, thanks to this, we begin to look at the world differently, learn to restrain our negative thoughts and switch our attention to the positive.
Look around you, do your lonely elderly neighbors need help? Even if these people are not completely alone, and sometimes relatives come to visit them, it is still worth being attentive to people: what if this person cannot cope with something on his own. Don't be afraid to offer him your assistance. Of course, perhaps out of modesty the neighbor will refuse at first, but if he really needs it, then, seeing your sincere intentions, he will accept help.
With words and deeds you can help strangers on the streets, in shops, on public transport. Your kind word can not only improve someone’s mood, but also fill someone’s life with meaning!
And finally, thirdly , it is worth remembering that all cities have orphanages and nursing homes. In these places live people who are always happy when something new comes into their lives: a new person, a new story, a new hope. As practice shows, children in orphanages are most happy not with gifts or things, but with the people themselves who visited them. You can make a game for children, delight them with a story or fairy tale. People of any age are united and happy by joint creativity. Such a simple activity is actually very entertaining and brings a lot of positive emotions. Having visited an orphanage at least once, you will understand how important your words, attention, and kindness are to children! Such moments fill life with meaning .
By benefiting people nearby, or by providing remote assistance via the Internet or through letters, you improve someone's life and change your thinking in a positive way. Helping people allows us to realize our best qualities, the real power of our own good intentions. For a person who has discovered new spaces of creative thoughts within himself, any situations that seemed problematic turn into useful lessons, life experiences that he can share and help others.
By helping people, we help ourselves to become who we are in our spiritual essence. We learn to listen to our soul, ignore obsessive thoughts, and see joy in doing good for others. And most importantly, in helping people we release our enormous potential of unique talents and good intentions, which create conditions for our bright future and the future of all humanity.
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