There are people who like to tell the truth. Everyone. No request. Tell someone that her legs are crooked, someone that she’s a bad cook, someone that she should go to a psychologist. Most often, such people are women; men are more indifferent to details.
There are people who like to tell the truth. Everyone. No request. Tell someone that her legs are crooked, someone that she’s a bad cook, someone that she should go to a psychologist. Most often, such people are women; men are more indifferent to details. Although I know one man who has what is on his mind and on his tongue. And he regularly says to his subordinates:
- You've gotten old somehow
- Your hair is stupid
- You look like you're drunk
- You're kind of fat
- Your dress is terrible
And so on. And everything is in between. First about work - then such a compliment - and then again about work. His employees are, of course, shocked. And who wouldn’t be shocked by this? Although in some ways he is right. In my own way.
Is this kind of truth-telling compatible with femininity? What about harmony? Love? As a person who struggles with truth-telling within himself, I will say - definitely not. Doesn't fit at all.
Telling the truth is important. But the vector should always be directed towards itself. Tell the truth about yourself. Because you don’t know the truth about others and you can’t know. Before you condemn someone, you need to go through his path from beginning to end. To understand and pass through yourself.
About the first poems
I started writing poetry a long time ago, in the sixth grade. In physics class we had desks like lecterns. We climbed under them and drank port there. In my school uniform, who remembers, there was a deep pocket. A 0.5 liter bottle fit neatly into it. And so, before physics, we charged ourselves with port wine, inserted a straw into the neck and went to class. There were three such “best physicists” in the class, including me. The girls looked at us with admiration. What brave heroes we are, we can drink in class! It all ended very sadly... 30 years later. But then we had fun. After one of these lessons, I wrote my first poem.
I wish to be otherworldly, and not hunchbacked, Herd tastes are fraught with hunchbackedness. My indifferent jacket is all brown - Without specks or stripes, like a doctor's sausage.
I don’t want to be like the scum, I turn my careless brains to one side. Problem or not, transistor, diode, The stinking man in the street opens his mouth.
But there’s no time to pull aphorisms out of your fingernails. I curtain the curtains and windows. Get Kozma Prutkov out of the way. Suddenly, from behind the canopy, red legs appear. Rebels, rebels, rebels...
Since then I have been writing poetry. I'm done with port wine. Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh wrote that people live, rolling from the past to the future. We don't know how to live in the present. And the good thing about poetry is that poets record amazing moments that have happened now.
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Russian actor, musician, founder of the underground group “Zvuki Mu” Pyotr Mamonov died at the age of 71 from complications caused by coronavirus. About the life and work of the artist - Izvestia photo gallery
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The rock group “Zvuki Mu” was created in the early 1980s. The first performances took place at apartment buildings. The composition of the group and musical directions changed all the time - Pyotr Mamonov loved experiments. By the mid-1990s, the group broke up. After the collapse of Zvuki Mu, Mamonov was in a state of deep depression, which religion helped him cope with - the musician converted to Orthodoxy
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In the early 1990s, Pyotr Mamonov began to increasingly participate in filming and theatrical productions. Director Pavel Lungin, who was looking for an actor to play the role of the main character for his film, after meeting Mamonov, rewrote the script specifically for him. Taxi Blues wins Best Director at Cannes
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In 2006, Mamonov starred in Lungin’s new film “The Island,” where he played a holy fool. The film received many awards, including six Nick Awards and the same number of Golden Eagles, and the actor received awards for Best Actor
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In the early 2000s, on the basis of two albums “Mice 2002” and “Zelenenky”, the ballet “Mice, Boy Kai and the Snow Queen” was created, where Mamonov performed his songs, and the rest showed pantomime. However, over time this action turned into a one-man show
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In Lungin's next film - "Tsar" - Mamonov played Ivan the Terrible, the role of Metropolitan Philip was played by Oleg Yankovsky
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In 2008, Mamonov began publishing collections of his poetic aphorisms “Squiggles”
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In 2012, after a long break, he returned to the theater stage with a new one-man show, “Grandfather Peter and the Hares.”
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In 2015, the film “Priest-san. Confession of a Samurai" directed by Yegor Baranov and written by Ivan Okhlobystin and Roman Vladykin. The main role in it was played by the American actor of Japanese origin Cary-Hiroyuki Tagawa, and Mamonov played Shatun
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In 2015, Pyotr Mamonov announced the formation of the group “Brand New Sounds of Mu”, and a year later a musical performance by the group called “The Adventures of Dunno” appeared.
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In 2019, after two heart surgeries, the artist continued his concert activities.
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About vodka
We called “Stolichnaya” 0.75 l “Druzheskaya”. A half-liter bottle was not enough, two 0.5 bottles were a lot. And 0.75 is just right for me and my friends.
Until the age of 45, I had one piercing thought - pleasure. I got up in the morning and thought: “What is today? I'll go to Pushkinskaya. They're all ours there. Then to National, then to Truba. There are friends and kents there.”
And when I turned 45, I suddenly felt that I simply had no reason to get up in the morning. The pleasures were over, vodka brought pure torment. Some kind of slavery. I began to look for what I really needed. And God revealed himself to me. Gradually everything made sense.
Today I’m 70, what a waste of money! Young people, if anyone hears me, if you like to take a walk, my dears, be careful. It's better to die for the truth than from vodka.
Refutations, excuses and short answers
Researchers from the Department of Communication at Michigan State University studied how often the typical American lies. They conducted a national survey of 1,000 adults and asked them to report the number of lies they told over a 24-hour period. The results were as follows: 60% of subjects reported that they did not lie at all. So 40% are liars.
People who lie automatically deny any charges, even if they have not yet been accused. They also try to explain why they acted a certain way without being asked. Liars speak in short sentences to hide what really happened.
In addition to these 5 phrases that liars use to make you believe them, they have several other nonverbal cues. They spontaneously use them in conversation. These are signals such as:
– frequent touching of the face and twirling of hair; – steady eye contact, without looking away, while they speak; – excited and nervous appearance; – feet pointing towards the door or away from you.
About prospects
1961 I am 10 years old. There was a cafe on the corner of Tverskaya and Tverskoy Boulevards, where the Armenia store is now. There was a doorman in front of the glass door, and behind it sat the “beatniks.” These are such bearded dirty people. They sat in gloomy dark heaps at the tables. And for some reason they were not kicked out. Maybe that’s why there was a “thaw”. And I had a clear thought: “That’s how I will be.” Well, it came true.
God gave me a lot: talent, strength, abilities. Unfortunately, most of it was wasted. All this has been thrown into the dust, trampled into the dirt by me. Sadly. But by the grace of God and the good upbringing of my parents, I somehow began to think about it at the age of 55.
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Pyotr Mamonov during a creative meeting dedicated to his 70th birthday in Moscow, 2021
“To part with sin, you must hate it. I hate the topic of drinking and drugs now.”
Pyotr Mamonov - about his new performance, old friends, foolishness and age
Reasons for deviation.
Most scientists agree that this type of personality arises as a result of a psychiatric illness or extremely low self-esteem. Often a pathological liar tries to make some kind of impression on others, but gets too used to the role.
Often, such a syndrome occurs in people who received psychological trauma in childhood. Here are just a few possible reasons for the formation of mythomania during growing up: problems communicating with the opposite sex, lack of attention from parents, constant criticism from other people, unrequited love, etc.
Quite often, such a disorder occurs already at a conscious age as a result of traumatic brain injury.
About Moscow
They say that Moscow is a tough city. Not really. There are individual people, the simplest ones, in transport or in a pharmacy. Looking at them, you realize that there is still something real in life.
My wife was driving past Vnukovo airport. And at that moment the plane made an emergency landing. It drives and burns. The entire route stopped. Men, women, old people, children - everyone ran into the fire to save people. Moments like these pierce. And so many amazing, good things are happening around us. You just need to be able to look.
Syutkin called the deceased Mamonov a deep man with ironic music
What is pathological deceit?
In the medical and psychological literature, the term “pathological deceit” was described at the beginning of the twentieth century. Ingoda, such a mental deviation is called “mythomania” (the term was coined by the French psychologist Ernest Dupre) or “Munchausen syndrome.”
For the average person, a lie is a deliberately stated statement that is not true. But, no matter how strange it may sound, a pathological liar lies for no reason, just like that. A lie is usually easy to expose, but this does not bother the liar, because he is firmly confident in the veracity of the information said.
Pathological deceit should be considered as part of a basic psychological personality disorder, rather than as a separate disease. It should be noted that this disorder is one of the most controversial subjects in the modern world of psychology.
About disbelief
Until I was 45, I said: “What priests. They put on gold hats. It would be better if everything was given to people. They're fattening." I was a rabid atheist. And now in our time the existence of God is a scientific fact. There is plenty of evidence of this. One day I started talking to my English friend, who has lived in Russia for 40 years and loves our country very much. And I began to tell him how God loves me. How everything that happened in my life was illuminated by His love. He listened to me carefully. But when I began to give him examples of evidence of the existence of the Lord, he refused to listen.
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During a speech at the awards ceremony for the Kandinsky Prize winners in Moscow, 2012
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The Lord is jealous. He wants everything, the whole heart of a person. And it opens only when we desperately need it. 95% of the people in the temples came there out of grief. And I had such a state - even in a loop. I couldn't live anymore. Nothing can get through us except grief. It would be good if you came to God out of love for him.
Over the 25 years that I have been in the Church, I have had several moments for which I was ready to give my life. You can't tell the taste of pineapple, you have to try it. Therefore, whoever wants to, goes.
Director Lungin spoke about the incredible scale of Mamonov’s personality
People who always tell the truth. Good or bad?
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Why does every person think that he is better than everyone else?
Well, I'll tell you! He does this for his mother! Mom convinced this every person that only the best is worthy of her love.
Only out of fear.
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What trait or ability in people really scares you?
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How do you feel about people who lie a lot?
Of course, if desired, a person can begin to work on the tendency of his mind to generate lies all day long, and, at least partially, remove lies from his life, but this requires the desire for awareness and dedication.
Because the truth is destructive.
It's very difficult to stop lying. And therefore I am not inclined to condemn those who lie.
About Americans
I lived in America for many years. Americans are good guys. State of Colorado. Desert. Gophers are standing in the field. And the son comes running to his mother: “Mother, I got it!” - "What? Is it the same?” - "Yes. The same thing." And they put on the tape, and there is a recording of the 1957 races in Monte Carlo. And the roar of engines. And mother and son sit and get high.
What about my favorite performers, simple guys? Sometimes you lie there, dream, listen to Muddy Waters sing the blues, and think: “Oh, my golden one. How good.”
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At the premiere of the play “Grandfather Peter and the Hares” in Moscow, 2012
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Musician Alexander Sklyar commented on the message about Mamonov’s death
About love
My wife and I had everything. But I know for sure that love is not when people look at each other, but when they look in the same direction. And my wife and I live like this. We must try to maintain peace. And follow a simple algorithm - don’t do to others what you don’t want for yourself.
Married life is difficult. But if we are already married, then a man must protect his wife: dress her, give her money, fix her car, if she wants something useless, explain to her that it is better not to do this. Again - work. If I am not happy in my family, then I will not find happiness anywhere. As in a criminal song they sang about a wife: “So that she can eat like a bird and run like an electric train.” My Olya is like that.
REN TV will show the film “Tsar” with Pyotr Mamonov on July 16
Health, astrology, tests, relationships, psychology, poetry
Chronic liars often use the same phrases to deceive others. If you are armed with a list of these words, you will not become another victim of deception, writes Marketium. None of us always tell the truth, but white lies that serve to save someone from pain are one thing, but deception with the intent to hide important information is another. Lying can lead to broken relationships, loss of trust, and even financial problems. But how can you tell a liar from an honest person?
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Knowing these 5 phrases will help you protect yourself and avoid being scammed.
About heart attack
I recently had a heart attack. And when I went for the operation, I thought that many of my comrades died during such relatively simple operations. And got ready. In general, I went to die. Well, on this occasion, I distributed all my vinyl records - to whom after my death. And since I am a believer, I believe in a future life, where there is light and God loves us, I began to imagine what miracles awaited me there.
I drove in this direction, tried, but nothing came of it. It turned out that I ended up with one of the best surgeons. And no one cut me anything. An operation was performed through the artery, there was no particular pain. An hour later I was already in the ward, and three days later I was driving home with my wife in a car. I’m driving and thinking: “This is it all again. Get up again in the morning." And I am so disappointed. I cry: “Lord, forgive me!” And he says to me: “Well, Petya...”
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Concert of Pyotr Mamonov and the group “Brand New Sounds of Mu” in Moscow, 2021
Now I’m 70. Yes, I just turned 30 yesterday! I was running around all dressed up, going to the Cinema House, hanging out. Life is a short moment.
Zolotovitsky and Parshin spoke about working together with Mamonov
About death
Isaac the Syrian writes: “Our path is long, our road is difficult. But the benefits promised to us are inexpressible.” There will be death, there will be eternal life, there will be standing before God, you will have to answer to him. And for this it is worth living, so that later you can forever be in the light. After all, God is not bows and candles. It's like a ball of sunshine. The light is always on, and sometimes we move away from it.
He who believes in chance does not believe in God. Only he controls life and death. And it takes a person only in two cases: if correction is no longer possible or the person is ready, and this is the best moment in his life. I visited Father Dimitry Smirnov a month before his death. He was already taken on a gurney; his legs gave out. And I told him: “Yes, you are shining all over.” And he responded to me: “Health is a gift from God. Illness is a priceless gift.” So wisely he left.
My friend Sasha Lipnitsky, with whom we started “Sounds of Mu,” has left. Tragically: he fell through the ice. If God took him too, then the time has come. It's not for us to judge. We can only help through prayer. God has no dead. It seems to us that our life is so long, responsible, important. But it is important only because of its preparation for eternity. There, when each of us dies, you will be settled with people like you. Sometimes you quarrel with your wife and think: “I’m going to die and never see her again.” No, bro. You will be forced to live together. Therefore, we must put up with it here.
I promise you that I will be on stage until my last days. I have so many plans, so many ideas. We'll meet Again.
What do you call a person who only tells the truth?
Problems about knights and knaves - Problems about knights and knaves are a type of olympiad mathematical problems in which the characters appear: A liar is a person (or other creature) who always tells a lie.
and his antagonist the Knight, who always tells the truth. Solving similar... ... Wikipedia Knight (mathematics) - Problems about knights and liars are a type of olympiad mathematical problems in which the characters appear: A liar is a person (or other creature) who always tells a lie. and his antagonist the Knight, who always tells the truth. The solution to such problems is usually... ... Wikipedia
DHARMA - [Skt. ; Pali dhamma], religious and philosophical category ind. culture, untranslatable into European. languages due to their polysemy. In a general sense, D. means “paradigm”, “order”, “norm” of the existence and development of both the cosmos and society... Orthodox Encyclopedia
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Truthful - adj. 1. Inclined, striving for the truth [truth I 1.], speaking the truth. Ott. Realistically depicting life phenomena (about a writer, artist). 2. Containing truth; corresponding to reality. Ephraim's explanatory dictionary. T.F.... ...Modern explanatory dictionary of the Russian language by Efremova
truthful - aya, oh; marvel, ah, oh. 1. Striving for truth, speaking the truth (about a person); characteristic of such a person. P. character. // Expressing a penchant for truth. P. look. P y eyes. Facial expression. // Realistically expressing life phenomena in... ... Encyclopedic Dictionary
truthful - aya, oh; di/v, a, o. see also truthfully, truthfulness 1) a) Striving for truth, speaking the truth (about a person); characteristic of such a person. Truthful character. b) ott. Expressing a penchant for truth. True... Dictionary of many expressions
TRUTHFUL - TRUTHFUL, and, husband. and wives (simple). A truthful person who always speaks the truth. Well-known item. Ozhegov's Explanatory Dictionary. S.I. Ozhegov, N.Yu. Shvedova. 1949 1992 ... Ozhegov's Explanatory Dictionary
THAT SAME MUNCHAUSEN - “THE SAME MUNCHAUSEN”, USSR, Mosfilm, 1979, color, 142 min. Parable. Based on the play “The Most Truthful” by G. Gorin, written based on the book “The Adventures of Baron Munchgau” by Rudolf Erich Raspe. Screenwriter G. Gorin and director M. Zakharov call the picture... ... Encyclopedia of Cinema
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