To understand how one person treats another, you need to be able to look into the mirror of his soul, and this can be done with the help of a glance. Special look
can say a lot: about hatred, hostility, disrespect, or vice versa, with a glance you can thank, support and reassure.
A woman can, like a cat, instantly change her gaze - with a man it is languid and attractive, but with a rival it is cunning and alarming. A special look
is one that reveals intimate thoughts hidden from everyone. Even if a person does not utter a single word, then just by his look you can understand what he is thinking. Therefore, it is not necessary to use tricks and tricks to extract some careless words from your interlocutor; it is enough to look carefully into his gaze and then it will become clear whether he is an enemy or a friend.
Powerful and direct gaze
During business negotiations, the direct, authoritative gaze of a business lady, directed straight to the soul, disarms men. Using that special look
, the woman shows men that she is also not timid, and is well versed in financial matters. In psychology, the power gaze is called the central gaze; it is used by women when they need to win over a business partner. In order to successfully carry out the intended business cooperation, a woman must arm herself with a direct look, which will show her interlocutor that she is interested in him and is respected. A person who skillfully uses this look is confident in himself and openly declares his intentions. This was the direct view of the great woman Margaret Thatcher, who achieved success in politics thanks to her strong-willed character, strong personality and direct view.
Excessive care
The girl has barely met her new acquaintance, and he is already bombarding her with questions like: “Aren’t you cold?”, “Will these shoes be comfortable to walk in?”, “Do you like this restaurant?” etc. There can be almost a million questions.
It's one of two things. Either this guy suffers from low self-esteem and therefore strives to please others, or he is so afraid of making a mistake in front of the girl he likes that he would prefer to clarify everything in advance.
It is important that such an over-caring guy gets an understanding girl who has nothing against such hyper-protectiveness.
However, sometimes this behavior is irritable and intrusive. But this must be said delicately, without harshness. There are not very many caring and sensitive people in our world anyway. There is no need to hurt them.
Sexy and mysterious look
Special look
, which reveals the sexuality of nature and gives a woman a certain mystery, can be easily acquired by practicing a little in front of the mirror. To let a man know that he has shocked a woman’s imagination, you need to learn how to constrict and dilate your pupil. To automatically change the size of the pupil, you first need to look into the distance, and then at the man standing nearby, and this will be a sign of female excitement. This is how you begin to master the basics of female coquetry. Sometimes myopia can be of great service to a girl, creating the effect of a mysterious look. All myopic people who have never worn glasses have pupils that are slightly dilated, so the gaze does not focus on the interlocutor, but looks through him. From the outside, it seems as if the girl is immersed in beautiful, alluring, mysterious dreams.
Desire to touch
Did your potential partner stealthily touch your hand or approach you? This is a good sign. A delicate invasion of personal space indicates sympathy.
This is also a kind of contact check. A guy can lightly touch a girl and look at her reaction: if she pretends that she didn’t notice, or even pulled away altogether, it means there’s unlikely to be a second date. But this could also indicate her shyness.
Frozen unblinking gaze
A frozen, unblinking gaze is a special look
who deceives the interlocutor. You might think that the person was scared or thinking about something and that’s why his gaze froze at one point. But in fact, it may turn out that the interlocutor simply forgot his glasses at home, because nearsighted or farsighted people make blinking eye movements much less often than a person with normal vision. It is best to amaze your interlocutor with such a look than to look at him through glasses. After all, a person who takes off his glasses during a conversation makes it clear that he trusts the person standing next to him and generally carries only a positive and open attitude towards everything around him.
Laws of the crushing female gaze
Do you want to become the chosen one of the most worthy man? Of course, worthy in your opinion, from your point of view, because our spiritual vision is different, and our gaze itself is not always sharp. But the happy life of a man and woman can depend on the first seconds of visual contact. So, the first rule of success: sympathy between two people arises in the first moments of meeting.
Since there are much fewer men who correspond to women’s ideas of attractiveness and reliability for building long-term relationships than women who can arouse male interest, female competition is a completely natural phenomenon.
As a matter of fact, female coquetry begins with this - with playful eye contact. And this is no coincidence. “The eyes are the windows of the soul,” as they say in China. These are not just mirrors reflecting the infinite universe of human individuality, but also openings that send information to the outside world. Despite the simplicity and naturalness of this action, it remains the most difficult - from the moment of acquaintance to farewell, no matter how long the relationship turned out to be. The art of looking is especially valued in the East, because the highest degree of mastery of martial arts comes down not even to the mastery of contact combat, but to the so-called war of looks. The strongest opponents only need to engage in a “battle” at a distance of 30 meters to measure the power of energy emanating from the eyes.
The great master Wang Xiang Zhai, whose peak of fame occurred in the 30s of the last century, perfectly mastered the art of defeating the enemy with one glance. But this skill was supported by unprecedented skill in hand-to-hand combat, and according to Wang Xiang Zhai himself, among the thousand best fighters there were only three whom he could not defeat. A master's gaze is a reflection of the strength of his fighting spirit, and one is inseparable from the other. Such outstanding people can demonstrate amazing masculine qualities when communicating with their beloved.
As for love, the laws of war are meaningless. If there is a women’s war for the best chosen one, then the battle is only a second, and destinies are decided in peacetime. Women's wisdom lies in the understanding that you cannot defeat the man you love. If the beloved does not show reciprocity, then female cunning can only become a false way of attracting his reciprocal feelings. Sooner or later, any manipulation can turn into a mistake, and the love battle will still be lost. If the novel is not written the first time, then it is better to find another character.
But if you feel at least minimal male interest, you need to act subtly and gracefully, but direct your “charms” not at the object of interest itself, but at those who can compete with you. To be the best woman for the chosen man is the slogan of the queen, who not only never loses, but does not even compete.
So, the rules of the devastating female gaze. The first, paradoxically, is your health. If there are problems in the body, the overall amount of energy decreases, and this inevitably affects the strength of the gaze. The two most important internal organs responsible for the energy and charm of the eyes are the kidneys and liver. In the event of even minor malfunctions in the functioning of these “blocks” of the body, the gaze loses its assertiveness and the ability to concentrate effectively on one subject for a long time. In addition, a barely noticeable dullness appears in it, which is not always noticeable to a person who knows you little, but already affects your contact with the interlocutor.
Supporters of imbuilding believe that the rhythmic contraction of intimate muscles causes a special sparkle in the eyes, attracting a partner and transmitting special exciting information about the woman. From the point of view of Tao, this effect is caused by the active activity of the kidneys, which are closely connected with the reproductive system of the body. By itself, mechanical tension in the muscles cannot cause shine in the eyes. But without what this mysterious brilliance is impossible is the activity of the brain, all life experience and the spiritual wealth of the individual. The depth of a woman’s gaze and its almost mystical impact on a man’s consciousness is the result of his entire life with all its victories and mistakes.
The second important condition is the vector of gaze direction. If your relationship with a man is at the very beginning, it is most appropriate to look between the eyebrows, that is, the location of the “third eye”. This makes the conversation more comfortable for your counterpart. If you are listening to your new acquaintance, you can direct your gaze to the middle dantian, one of the three main energy centers, which is located in the middle of the chest between the nipples. This way you can send your love energy straight to the heart of your chosen one. At the same time, your gaze can radiate calm, and your energy can flow smoothly and slowly, because peace and pleasure are the most important state that a man wants to receive from the woman he loves.
The third condition of the game is absolute sincerity. Don't try to play the goddess of love if you don't feel like it. Be yourself - this is the best recipe for attracting a man into your life. If your behavior matches your inner world, your gaze will be attractive to men. The Taoist principle of radiating a loving gaze is this: it should be pure and transparent, like water.
The fourth important thought is that a flirting woman’s direct and open gaze into a man’s eyes should be very short, but enormous power should be concentrated in it. And this is a matter of mastering your energy and the ability to manage it for the benefit of relationships. This is exactly that second of the battle for a man’s heart, which sometimes decides fate.
Such meaningful and piercing eye contact can last 3-7 seconds, no more. The image of a woman should resemble a high-quality video, when plans alternate dynamically. Please note that when in a film or video one of the pictures drags on, it is difficult for the viewer to maintain concentration. And it’s always interesting to watch a woman you like, like a majestic natural phenomenon. By the way, Taoist practices aimed at developing visual abilities use observation of the sun and moon. In much the same way a man contemplates a woman. (By the way, in one of the first seminars of the “Oriental series”: “Oriental secrets of intimate relationships” we just talked about how a charming female gaze can become your weapon for all time)
It is important to remember that a man is not an insensitive creature who succumbs to female charms; he also conveys energy to his interlocutor with his gaze. From the point of view of Tao, a man is a lion who wants to gain power over a woman. All that is appropriate for a woman to do is to receive masculine energy and process it. This is how earth and sky “make love” when it rains. The sky gives moisture to the earth, and the earth obediently accepts it and gratefully returns it.
Speaking about the Taoist “magic of the gaze,” I would like to add one more important detail. In order for a woman’s caressing gaze to serve the development of a love relationship, the energies of a man and a woman must coincide. That is why any violence over the situation and any artificiality in the development of events can lead to dire consequences. If a man does not have a special feeling for a woman, there is no point in trying to win his favor by hook or by crook. A simple and convincing image born of the national tradition of China - tea drinking. A man gives energy to a woman just like water pours from a teapot into a cup. No one would think of pouring tea from a cup into a spout. In the same way, female activity looks ridiculous if “tea drinking does not correspond to the canon,” that is, the man does not show interest in the woman.
Well, this is Taoist wisdom. Be wise and stay loved!
Ji Xiaogang, Tao master, hereditary healer, Lisa Piterkina, writer
Eyes on a diet
To avoid eye diseases such as glaucoma, night blindness, that is, the inability to see in the dark, as well as conjunctivitis, you need to eat more foods with carotene. Carotene is a precursor to vitamin A, which is necessary for the eyes, and therefore it is worth eating more often in red and orange fruits and vegetables. Moreover, in this case, you can kill two birds with one stone - maintain excellent eyesight and a great figure into old age. You can replenish your daily requirement of vitamin A with carrot juice, rosehip decoction, a plate of green borscht with sorrel leaves, a salad of tomatoes and sweet red peppers, and for dessert - apricots and blueberries.
Personal quality languor3
It has long been quite rightly believed that not a single man’s languid gaze can leave a woman indifferent. Associated with a feeling of tired tenderness, the eyes are capable of penetrating through the heart in a split second and leaving an indelible mark there.
So what causes such an incredible action from a seemingly ordinary look? Everything here is incredibly simple. He expresses in himself not a daring impulse of animal passion, but a voluptuous feeling that promises long minutes of all-consuming bliss. Who will deny that this is exactly what all women, without exception, and a greater number of men dream of.
Depending on certain components of a person’s character, languor in his gaze may accompany him throughout his entire adult life, or may manifest itself only in certain cases.
Light power of sight
Depending on the person, the power of his gaze can also radiate positive energy, which can lift the mood, bring joy, warmth and light, give activity, and in rare cases, even heal. Thanks to the long gaze, women establish contact with men, attracting and winning them over, as well as with their child, before he learns to speak. Thus, according to telepathy, through gaze one can transmit thought-images at a distance. This feature is evidenced by such a habit in a conversation between a teacher and a student, in which the latter, as a rule, constantly looks into the eyes, due to which he “opens up” to the telepathic transmission of information and receives a more complete understanding of what is being discussed. Therefore, in order to better understand someone or correctly convey your thought, you need eye to eye contact.
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1 signs of men falling in love
1Z is an unlucky number, but not when it comes to a man’s falling in love. It is by these 13 signs that you can find out whether a man you like is experiencing tender feelings. Expand text... Despite the fact that most of the stronger sex prefers their own It’s quite possible to hide feelings and find out a man’s attitude towards a woman. All you need for this is observation.
The first sign of a man falling in love is loss of control. A strong, self-confident guy gets lost when he sees a girl and behaves in the most stupid way. This behavior is characterized by stuttering, confusion in words, shyness, shyness, problems with the selection of words, and physical awkwardness. A person experiences a lot of emotions, naturally, the brain stops coping with the load and the above incidents happen. It is curious that the man tries to take the situation into his own hands, and before the meeting he promises himself to remain calm, but at the meeting he again becomes helpless.
The second sign of a man in love is a brave heart. Falling in love makes real heroes out of ordinary guys. It comes to crazy actions - driving fast or traveling along the ledge to the window of your beloved. There is often bragging - in general, a man does everything to appear as a valiant knight.
The third sign is a romantic relationship. This includes any romantic deeds - serenades under the window, a gorgeous bouquet of roses delivered by courier to the office or home, poems dedicated to the lady. dtsa. This is one of the most striking signs of falling in love, indicating that a person is trying to make something pleasant by any means.
The fourth sign of a man falling in love is increased attention. Does the guy show a constant desire to be together? He's definitely in love! The chosen one of his heart awaits invitations to a walk, to a cafe, to the theater, and even to trips to places he hates: art galleries, concerts of symphony orchestras, ballets. But he will endure, just to be near his beloved. Many representatives of the strong half of humanity do not decide to take such steps right away - they are afraid of refusal. But when he received consent, his joy knew no bounds - the world became brighter and kinder. While waiting for the appointed meeting, the man constantly calls the girl and has long conversations. He will always find time to call, even if he is constantly busy. In some cases, the manifestation of attention takes other forms: the guy can mock, make offensive remarks, criticize. This sign confidently indicates existing feelings.
The third sign is a romantic relationship. This includes any romantic deeds - serenades under the window, a gorgeous bouquet of roses delivered by courier to the office or home, poems dedicated to the lady. dtsa. This is one of the most striking signs of falling in love, indicating that a person is trying to make something pleasant by any means.
The fourth sign of a man falling in love is increased attention. Does the guy show a constant desire to be together? He's definitely in love! The chosen one of his heart awaits invitations to a walk, to a cafe, to the theater, and even to trips to places he hates: art galleries, concerts of symphony orchestras, ballets. But he will endure, just to be near his beloved. Many representatives of the strong half of humanity do not decide to take such steps right away - they are afraid of refusal. But when he received consent, his joy knew no bounds - the world became brighter and kinder. While waiting for the appointed meeting, the man constantly calls the girl and has long conversations. He will always find time to call, even if he is constantly busy. In some cases, the manifestation of attention takes other forms: the guy can mock, make offensive remarks, criticize. This sign confidently indicates existing feelings.
The fifth sign of a man in love is awareness. This point is manifested not only by stories about oneself in the present. This includes stories from childhood, plans for the future, meeting friends and parents. In the latter case, by the way, you will be presented as a girlfriend or future wife.
The sixth sign of falling in love is presence and help. A guy in love tries to provide help, including if the girl doesn’t ask him about it. He regrets wasted time, money and other resources. He always strives to be there to help at any moment. The most ardent ones refuse to spend time with friends, bad habits and activities that take up the lion's share of time - everything in order to spend leisure time with the lady of their heart.
The seventh is thorough self-care. An early and obvious sign that someone dear to him has appeared in a person’s life. A man begins to monitor his weight, muscle condition, hairstyle and clothes. He wants to look perfect in the eyes of his passion, so that she will pay attention to him.
The eighth sign of a man in love is material security. Many guys strive for material wealth. In front of their woman, they want to appear self-sufficient and wealthy. The desire for security and steps towards achieving it are a clear sign of a person’s serious intentions.
The ninth sign of falling in love is manifestations of jealousy. Jealousy is the most obvious sign of caring. The guy perceives any male persons as potential rivals and shows aggression towards them. Experienced representatives of the stronger sex often hide manifestations of jealousy, so this criterion is more suitable for young people.
Tenth - avoiding contact There is a category of males who avoid meeting their beloved. They treat her coldly, trying not to look into the girl’s eyes or in the direction of the girl. This happens for one reason - the guy is afraid to show his feelings, going to extremes that betray him. A girl can start communicating with a person herself by carefully observing him. Is the man in love? His gaze and body language gestures will certainly give him away.
The eleventh sign of falling in love in men is body language. This is one of the most interesting areas in the psychology of communication. Obvious signs of his interest: · toes of shoes turned towards the girl. At the same time, when the lady moves, the socks, as a rule, move after her; · hands that are constantly in motion, for example, adjusting a belt or other items of clothing. This means that the man is nervous and is attracted to the lady; · desire is closer, reducing the distance. Usually this happens unconsciously; · embroidering: the guy is constantly trying to remove non-existent trash from his clothes, straighten his hair or tie; · a pose in which a man puts his hand behind the lady’s back, as if hugging her; · repetition of the girl’s movements and gestures.
The twelfth sign of men falling in love is the gaze. The gaze can be attributed to body language. The eyes reflect the whole gamut of emotions experienced by lovers. Usually, manifestations of tender feelings are determined by a glance wandering over a woman’s silhouette, even if this is a conversation on serious topics.
The thirteenth, important sign of falling in love is recognition of feelings. The most important sign. There are no standards by which everything should happen - time and words depend on the personality and character of the person. This will not necessarily happen in a romantic setting. The explanation may consist of three words. But even then it is a great stress for the lover. If the feelings are mutual, the girl will understand the meaning of the words spoken and will allow the guy to be himself.
If a woman notices most of the listed signs, and the man is attractive to her, it is better to give him a chance. A smile and a gentle look work wonders with representatives of the stronger half - he can decide to declare his love.
Timely noticed manifestations of falling in love and steps towards can become the beginning of a new, strong relationship, which later ends in the desired marriage.
Source: vk.com
View in the struggle for leadership
Gaze is the most powerful non-verbal method of influence. It can subjugate a person and determine the nature of your further communication. However, can it be called a tool - something that we can consciously use for our own purposes? Can a person’s will break the instinctive desire to avert his eyes under a persistent and unbending gaze?
In nature, the strongest male will also have the most persistent gaze. You can often see how a large animal, having met the gaze of a smaller representative of its own species, turns away, as if yielding and submitting to it. Body size, muscle mass, jaw size and other traits certainly influence the non-bloody determination of a dominant male. However, this is not enough.
A look is a sure sign of real strength, vital energy, the ability to fight to the end, the readiness to die in battle.
Man is a social being, so he is influenced not only by natural factors. This includes morality, ethics, and social status. Thus, a long gaze in culture may simply be regarded as incorrect behavior, and that is why a shy desire to look away will arise in us. However, the main factor influencing the persistence of the gaze is will. This is what can make your gaze your greatest psychological weapon.
The influence of people with piercing eyes
We often wonder why some people have a strong influence on others. If they are endowed with power, wealth or strength, then everything is clear - they rely on things that are obvious to everyone. But often people listen to the opinions of those on whom absolutely no one and nothing depends on the issue under discussion. Sometimes even those who have the right to make decisions fall under their influence. But if you take a close look at everyone who attracts the attention of others, you will see that they all have one thing in common - a piercing gaze. A person’s eyes are the first thing the interlocutor pays attention to; they inspire trust or hostility, and nothing can change this impression.
