How to find your calling if you are not like everyone else?
Realization in the life of a sound artist is always associated with cognition.
Inanimate nature: the laws of physics and mathematics, the mastery of which gave the world incredible IT technologies and the Internet. Plant and living nature: scientists have developed food technologies unique in the history of mankind, and medicine has reached the highest level. Human nature: it is the sound people who strive for psychotherapy and psychiatry, trying to unravel the secrets of the human soul and protect themselves from their native fear - going crazy. How to find yourself in the profession? The range of professions in which a sound engineer can succeed is quite wide: programming, exact sciences, foreign languages, creative writing, music, psychology, psychotherapy, and there are others.
The names of realized sound artists whose lives are a shining example of the great value they brought to society are Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, Steve Jobs, Nikola Tesla and Albert Einstein.
But it is not at all necessary to be born a genius in order to succeed and be happy, because everyone is born with their own amount of desire, which must be realized. And this will be quite enough to feel for sure that life is a success.
Incredible changes occur when you fill the fundamental desires of sound to understand yourself, humanity, the meaning of everything that exists, the cause-and-effect relationships of what is happening around you in particular and in the world in general. When you get to know not only yourself, but also learn to focus on people and understand each person as yourself. And a boss with a huckstering streak, and superficial office colleagues, even the most notorious gossip lovers. Yes, like yourself - completely without irritation and condemnation.
This is possible, and thousands of sound specialists who have completed the System-Vector Psychology training by Yuri Burlan talk about how to find their place in life.
What happens after this?
All your desires are freed from the yoke of the sound vector, and your whole being literally explodes with interest in life and desires - the most unexpected and different. Suddenly, a new reality will appear in front of you - multifaceted and filled with meaning. And you will no longer wonder what it means to find yourself, because you will find both yourself and a new reality.
Well, after getting to know yourself and applying yourself will be very easy. See for yourself - don’t miss the free introductory online lectures on System-Vector Psychology by Yuri Burlan. Register in the form below.
Dream job
The cherished desire of many people is to find a job that will bring them pleasure. It's not that hard to do. Choose an area of activity that you like. Don't have the knowledge required by a specialist in your chosen field? Today there are many courses that offer a person to gain knowledge and experience in a short time. After short-term courses you will not become a good specialist, but you will receive basic knowledge, which you will subsequently expand. Get a job at a company as an assistant specialist. Don't chase a big salary. First you need to gain experience, and only then demand a good salary. There is no point in working solely for money. First of all, you need to develop the potential within you. This is much more important. If you enjoy your profession, you will be truly happy.
How can an emotional person find himself?
For example, if a person has special, sensitive vision, distinguishing a greater number of colors and shades, good artistic taste, and his keyword is “beautiful” - this means that he has a visual vector. His life is filled with emotions - he is sensual, funny, kind, fearful, and his eyes are wet.
If you have a visual vector, you can find yourself in intellectual and creative professions. Culture and art, design, photography, fashion - the viewer will feel good where he can enjoy beauty, create it, expressing emotions, experiencing emotions, conveying emotions to others. Emotions for him are life.
We receive all the kindest and most beautiful things created by people from spectators who realize to the maximum what nature has given them.
Now let’s imagine a viewer who works as an accountant, marketer or salesperson. How to realize yourself here? Where are the emotions here? Where is the beauty? Unfulfilled emotions burst out in the form of hysterical breakdowns, from which loved ones suffer, or he constantly falls in love with someone.
Health related desires
Formulate your desires in the present tense and without the particle “not”. For example, I have excellent health.
Holy spirit prayer
One girl shared a review that she asked to easily get pregnant, carry and give birth to healthy children. And prayer helped her. It is suitable for any desire, including health.
You need to talk at least 3 times. And share with other people, for example, on the Internet.
Dissolve the disease
The essence of the technique is as follows. You need to take salt and pour it into a plate. Write on the salt with your finger what you want to get rid of. Then pour water into the glass. And say the words: “Dissolve my sorrows and dissolve my problems. Happiness, joy and health have settled in my home.” Then you pour water on the salt with the same words. Then stir them with a spoon until completely dissolved. And you repeat those words. Then pour the water into the sink. And thank the Universe.
You can dissolve disease with salt.
Water spell
This practice can be performed by anyone without special abilities. To create the right atmosphere, it is advisable to retire and light a candle. Pour water into a glass and rub your hands. And, closing your eyes, feel the energy between your palms. Call on the Angels, ask them to help you speak the water. Place your palms around the glass without touching it. And bending over the water, read the “Our Father” prayer 3 times by heart. You can close your eyes.
Then list the internal organs of the person for whom you are speaking water and say that they work correctly and feel good. Imagine his body as if he were glowing inside, especially the suffering organ. Say the person's name. Focus only on him, without being distracted by anyone. Repeat that the person is in good health.
At the end of the plot, be sure to thank the water for listening to you. You can cross it and be sure to thank everyone you called (God, Angels, Archangels, Guardian Angel). Then you need to give this water to a person to drink or yourself (if you spoke it to yourself). After the conspiracy, the glass is drunk to the end, and not divided into several doses.
Victory over fears
I have never had a strong-willed character and adventurism is not my strong point. When I realized that tears are stifled emotions, and the salary does not cause positive outbursts, I decided to leave this job. As a sensible and responsible person, I could not exchange a stable income and social package for an illusory dream. I couldn’t do it on my own, I was afraid. Therefore, I was waiting for a lucrative offer, a chance, a good reason, because of which I could, with a clear conscience, leave a highly paid but unloved job and do what I like. Years passed, nothing changed. It became more and more sad. I'm tired of hoping and waiting, voluntarily giving my life to some chance. Gathering my will into a fist, I made this fateful decision myself. Having devoted more than ten years of my life to the energy industry and calling it a day, I became free and... happy!
But as soon as I did what others secretly dream of, illogical things began to happen. People who had been around me for many years began to rapidly move away. They stopped inviting me to visit because I did not support the generally accepted topics about bosses, bonuses and “who is with whom.” They even stopped calling, because I didn’t want to talk about the eternal lack of money and children’s illnesses. A void has formed. People didn't know what to talk to me about or what to ask. When asked “how are you?”, she invariably answered: “great!” And this became a problem for them. They quietly asked their husband: “What’s wrong with her?” It seemed to them that this was a transitional period, a crisis, a melancholy. I used to be sociable and comfortable, but now everything has changed. In fact, I have long been uncomfortable with monotonous conversations. It’s just cleared up now, because there’s no point in pretending.
My parents and teachers once convinced me that I had to be a good, decent and well-mannered person. I built my adult life taking into account these requirements. In fact, every person has one responsibility - to realize himself. I didn’t come into this world to meet anyone’s expectations or create comfort for others. Recognizing the fact that she was living someone else’s life was another victory over her fears.
Looking back, I can say that the most difficult thing was making a decision. Having conquered the first stage, you want to go to the end. Further changes occur on their own and are completely positive. Now I understand what it’s like to enjoy every day. Notice the colors of autumn, breathe in the fresh air of winter, write articles. I am happy because by believing in myself, I was able to change my life. If it worked for me, it will definitely work for you too.
Are you unhappy with your job? Why don't you quit? The answer will be the program for future actions.
- Determine the advantages that your work gives you today.
- Identify the downsides of this job. For example, what is she depriving you of?
- Divide the sheet in half, make a detailed list in the “plus” column and in the “minus” column, draw a line and summarize which points there were more.
This method may be somewhat primitive, but effective. You will see a picture of your life as if from the outside. And the more you don’t like it, the more it frightens you, the sooner you decide to make changes.
Standard techniques for fulfilling wishes
The ways to achieve desires are different and universal. You can choose the technique that is closest to you.
Letter to the Universe
You formulate your dream to the Universe so that it will fulfill it. To do this, write your wishes on paper in the present tense and without the particle “not”.
To complete the ritual, place the letter in an envelope and then send it to the recipient. For example, put a letter in a bottle and send it by river or to any address. Your imagination will decide everything. Believe that the letter will reach its goal and your wishes will come true. On the envelope you can write:
– To whom – My beloved Universe
- From whom - proper name.
Formulate your dream to the Universe.
It is advisable to perform this practice once a month.
Glass of water
This technique uses water, which has unique properties. Thanks to its special structure, the liquid retains various information received from the source. Both positive and negative. Therefore, you need to use melted or distilled water, not from the tap.
The wish must be written in the present tense. Place the piece of paper with the dream under a glass of water. Then bring your palms a short distance closer to each other and imagine the resulting clot of energy in them. Mentally make the ball denser and think about your desire written on the piece of paper. Then move your palms so that the glass is located between them, but do not touch its walls. And transfer the energy of your desire into this water. Then drink it. This practice can be repeated every day.
Wish card
The card speeds up the fulfillment of desires. The technique is that you select pictures that show what you want. And stick them on a large sheet, for example, A3 format, which will be in your sight all the time.
You can choose a photo with your favorite country that you have long dreamed of visiting. Or pictures showing a luxury car, a couple of loving people, children, the best job, money, etc. You can divide your card into special segments, for example: family, self-development, creativity, travel, career, etc.
The wish map speeds up their fulfillment.
In addition, the wish card comes in the form of a notepad or book. It should evoke joy, a feeling of magic. On the first sheet of paper, paste a photo of yourself that shows you looking attractive and happy. And by sector (starting with the wealth segment), fill out your book. Each page contains 1 wish. Color the background to match the colors of the sectors.
An equally effective version of the map is to draw what you want to see in your life. Label each picture. You can partially draw and supplement with pictures. After creating this creation, spend a few minutes every day contemplating the images. This way you will bring your dreams closer to reality.
Remember that in addition to creating a map, you yourself need to work on realizing your desires, on your beliefs, blocks, and energy. And the map is a great helper.
Notebook for 100 days
Keep a notebook where you write down your wish list. However, this should be done not on the very first page, but on the hundredth and last page. And from the first, mark the steps leading to your goal. Every day – 1 page. And even if nothing special happened during the day, still write something. It is important to feel that you are achieving results. And on the hundredth day you will feel how close you are to your dream or have already fulfilled it. If not all plans come true, this technique can be repeated again.
tomorrow I want
This technique helps you fulfill small everyday desires. It is not suitable for global goals, for example, “I’m getting married tomorrow.” And it would be suitable, for example, for the following: “I’m meeting an attractive man.” Make plans, wishes for tomorrow, think about what awaits you.
The “Tomorrow I want” technique fulfills everyday desires.
Make a wish for events to come true in a successful manner. For example, the meeting will go well, the doctor said that everything is fine, the exam was successfully passed, you won the competition in which you participated, the interview went well, you are in a great mood and the weather is good. You can make plans that depend on you. And the next day, be sure to celebrate what has come true.
It is also important to keep a gratitude diary, noting in it the good things that happened during the day. It helps you focus on the positive, gives you new energy, and makes you happier.
Visualization of desires
This practice works thanks to the power of thought. You visually, in colors, imagine your life after the fulfillment of your goals and desires. Fill the images with energy so that the pictures come to life. Feel yourself in the new car of your dreams or like you are lying under a palm tree on the beach near the sea and enjoying the atmosphere. Or maybe you are next to a cozy fireplace in a beautiful country villa. Or you have a loving family.
Feel how happy you are, how grateful you are for what you have. Your concentration is like a ray of light for the Universe, which illuminates your cherished dream.
Celestial 911
Relax completely and use your imagination. Imagine a door - behind it is the amazing and beautiful world of your dreams. You go up to it and open it, the room is filled with bright light. Outside the door you can see all sorts of pictures drawn by a rich imagination: a picturesque town located on the seashore, or amazing mountains, in a word, everything that you like.
Celestial 911 helps your dreams come true.
There you can go to the bank, which will give you the necessary amount of money. Or meet the right people who will help you. Whatever you ask, you will get results. To do this practice more effectively, read Robert Stone’s book “Heavenly 911.”
New life
This method was invented by readers of S. Kuleshova’s book “Journey to a New Life.” The tradition was started by a girl who put a note with a dream in this work and everything came true. Other readers followed and had the same positive experience. This book contains effective exercises to help you achieve what you want, and successful examples from people's lives. The book helps you overcome subconscious blocks that prevent you from achieving your goals.
To find your purpose
In order to better understand what your path is, ask the Universe a question about the meaning of your own destiny. And carefully expect answers in the form of various signs, new information, and sensations.
There is one interesting tool that helps you better understand yourself, realize your feelings, experiences, put things in order in your head, and cope with emotions. These are Morning Pages, a kind of stream of consciousness that helps to identify what is important.
The bottom line is that you need to write 3 pages of any text every morning - everything that comes to mind.
108 oranges
This unusual practice originates from China. The number 108 symbolizes infinity and luck, and oranges symbolize powerful solar energy, filling the home with joy and happiness.
For this action it is not necessary to use all 108 fruits; you can choose a quantity that is a multiple of 9, for example: 9, 18,27,36, etc. The ritual is carried out both on the first day of the New Year and on the Chinese New Year, in February.
108 oranges symbolize good luck.
When you brought oranges home, from the very threshold you need to roll them into the house, saying what you want to attract. For example, one orange was rolled into the house with the word “health”, another, saying “love”, a third - “luck”, etc. You need to roll them into every room and kitchen, with the exception of the toilet with a bath, the corridor and the balcony.
After this, do not touch the oranges for 3 days. And then you can eat them with pleasure and treat your friends.
New Year's letter
Before the New Year, think about how you would like to spend the next year. Maybe you dream of traveling a lot or meeting a loved one, or making a career, learning several languages, starting your own business or building a house. Imagine anything.
Now choose a convenient time, tune in, get inspired and write an essay: how I spent the next year. Describe this time in detail as if what you wanted came true. Place the letter in the envelope and seal it. And then at the end of the year, open this essay and be pleasantly surprised that a lot has been realized.
Doors of Desire
This is a fun ritual that needs to be performed with humor. Positive energy is important here. This little Simoron magic happens as follows.
Doors of Wishes - a ritual that will make you smile.
First, make your wish according to all the rules: in the present tense and without negation (particles “not”). Then write it on a piece of paper and stick it, for example, on an interior door. And then the funniest moment begins. Read your wish loudly and expressively, open the door and step over the threshold with enthusiasm (as if your dream has already come true). Then come back and repeat the procedure again: and so on 27 times.
During this activity, you can smile, joyfully jump on one leg, etc. The main thing is to capture the feeling of lightness, a joyful mood that brings you closer to what you want. And now, when you step through any door, remember your goal.
Confrontation
This practice helps to cope with negative thoughts. Because sometimes they are the only things that prevent you from concentrating on your goals and desires. And pay attention to the positive aspects. It's hard to force yourself not to think about something. Instead, it is better to replace such an attitude with a positive one.
If a negative thought appears, you need to write it down on a piece of paper and come up with a replacement. For example: I can’t get a job. Replacement: I gratefully accept a job that suits me in all respects. Or: I can’t pay off the debt. Instead: I have enough finances for all my expenses. Money comes to me easily.
Our consciousness cannot concentrate on the positive and the negative at the same time. Therefore, this practice will have the desired effect.
What if nothing is interesting? How to find yourself in the profession?
There are eight vectors, and every modern person has several of them. In different circumstances of life we can use our different abilities, properties and talents. The skin vector, for example, gives a person a rational mind and pragmatism, dexterity and entrepreneurial spirit. The anal vector allows you to become a professional in any industry, gaining experience and knowledge in your field.
But there is one vector that makes its owner different from everyone else.
It is this vector that makes you think more than others about how to find yourself in life. This is a sound vector. It is thanks to him that you think about things that mean nothing to others. For example, about the meaning of life, space, some energies, about a state of altered consciousness, about knowing oneself.
If you have a sound vector, it is the most important in your psyche. His desires are very voluminous, and if they are not realized, your condition becomes grave. You withdraw into yourself, and the desires of other vectors seem to be blocked. Other people become uninteresting, stupid, annoying.
And then, no matter what you do in life, you feel that it is not yours. Life turns into a search for yourself and your path. Everything is empty, uninteresting, painful, everything is not worth doing. Working as an executive assistant, for example, you hate your skinny boss and secretly despise his huckstering streak. Office life with its bustle and gossip seems unbearably disgusting.
How can you be so down to earth? Surely your dream job is remote work. Locking yourself at home and being alone with yourself is your constant desire. But in this there is no realization, no fulfillment of the innate desire for sound - self-knowledge.
Techniques for material and monetary desires
In order for you to have more money, you must first of all change your thinking, get rid of the “psychology of poverty”, habits that prevent you from getting rich. For example, this is constant saving on everything, fear of leaving your comfort zone, fear of changing jobs, envy of more successful people, lack of initiative, low self-esteem, dislike of yourself, lack of self-confidence, shifting responsibility to someone else, etc. A number of people have prejudices that they do not deserve success, expensive things, a high standard of living, since being rich is inconvenient.
There are a number of techniques that help you tune in to wealth.
Money House
By performing this technique, you create a beautiful house for money. For these purposes, it is good to use a box in which you can cut out doors and windows. The process of creation itself is uplifting. Or you can buy a ready-made house and then make furniture for it. After that, put coins or bills there to attract money. People who applied this practice shared positive results and noted an increase in their income.
A money house lifts your spirits.
Money mat
To perform this effective technique, you need a nice new red mat. On its bottom side, sign “Wealth and Success” and place it at the entrance to the hallway, and under it put a piece of paper with the words: “My monthly income is such and such an amount. I am successful and rich." Whenever you go out of the house, linger on this mat. Relax on it and imagine how it fills with money and your wealth energy grows.
Money magnet
There is 1 effective affirmation for attracting money (from the popular movie “The Secret”). Repeat it daily to tune into wealth.
- I am a money magnet.
- Everything I touch turns to gold.
- I have more wealth than King Solomon's mines.
- Money falls from the sky on me.
- Now even more money is being printed for me.
- Ideas that bring money come to me every day.
- I get unexpected checks in the mail.
- I have more than enough money for everything I want.
- I have the house of my dreams.
- I have the best.
- I am grateful for every day and celebrate it.
- I know when I ask for what I want, no matter what it is, no matter how impossible it may seem, if I believe and know that it is mine, the answer must be... “I listen and obey.”
A money magnet is an effective affirmation.
A wish list
Write down 10 wishes on a blank sheet of paper in order of their importance, and then re-read this list at least 3 times every day. Think more often about the items from this plan. To make the process go faster, rewrite this list every day.
When drawing up a plan, specify your wishes, indicate realistic amounts and clear dates. Be positive. In this case, you will get what you want faster. If it is difficult for you to immediately change your thoughts, then you must first change your behavior, and after it, your inner attitude will transform, which will lead you to success.
25 wishes
The essence of this technique is this. Write 25 wishes and treat yourself to nice things. For example, during the first 10 days. Treat yourself to delicious chocolate, flowers or a trip to the cinema. To start the process of fulfilling desires, the first goal must be easily achievable. After some time, your wishes will begin to come true. After each accomplishment, thank the Universe and add new dreams to the list.
Place of power in the home
In fact, for a person, the Place of Power can be his apartment, cottage, dacha, etc. That is, using
principles and patterns, you can get the same result of life fullness at home.
“Your own” space can provide complete rest and restoration of energy balance after a hard day. However, only if you choose the right design solution, lighting system, and color scheme in the family nest, you can feel like in a natural Place of Power, where fatigue recedes and “wings appear” behind your back.
Your home will become a healing place that will bring joy, rest to the soul and body, silence, and be conducive to creativity if you treat it with care, love it, put things in order, and maintain cleanliness. No one requires a person to become a slave to his home, but it is worth respecting and devoting enough time to improvement, cleansing and creating home comfort. This is the only way it will adequately reward its efforts and become a real Place of Power for its owner.
If a person is constantly living in chaos, then he has the same state inside. But our body is not comfortable with such conditions, it stops functioning properly. There must be a certain balance, order and harmony around us. And the energy exchange will be correct. The vibrations of a person and the surrounding world must correspond to each other. What surrounds a person, the space where he lives, influence social success and material well-being. To get yourself a Place of Power that is so close, of course you need to make an effort. But it's definitely worth it.
Rules for formulating a wish
Often people’s dreams sound vague, for example: “I want a lot of money” or “I want to find my love.” However, for the Universe, you need to accurately formulate your request; vague dreams can be postponed indefinitely.
Formulate your wishes in the present tense. For example, instead of “I want to travel a lot,” write: “I travel around the world,” and you can list your favorite places. Or I earn such and such amount.
A desire should not harm anyone or impose the will of other people. There is no need to touch other people when formulating a request. Dreams work for themselves.
The resources of the Universe are unlimited, it is abundant. Don't restrain yourself from your desires. Maybe you are dreaming of a picturesque villa on the seashore with a yacht, a snow house in the Alps, a large family or numerous trips. Goals must be realistic and achievable.
Checking desire for reality of fulfillment
Determine your desire for the near future and test it for truth. To do this, answer the following questions on a piece of paper:
- What good will happen if it comes true.
- What bad will happen if it comes true.
- What problems may arise.
Define your desire and test it for reality.
For example. If I lose weight, the following positive changes await me:
- I can be more attractive, dress beautifully, and not be ashamed to go to the beach;
- physical activity will improve, ease of movement will appear;
- health status, reproductive function, etc. will improve.
Possible difficulties:
- you will have to follow the principles of proper nutrition and limit yourself to tasty food for a long period;
- you need to update your wardrobe, which entails financial costs;
- there will be no culprit (excess weight) on whom you can blame failures in your personal life and in other areas;
- someone will be jealous;
- In some professions it is important to look presentable, and a thin person is not taken seriously.
Now you can think and decide whether you really want to fulfill your dream. Perhaps you are satisfied with everything.
Correct condition
To materialize a desire, you need to create a special mood.
Often people use a rational approach, logically explaining why they can't get it. For example, how can I buy an apartment if I don’t have enough money? Or how I will meet the man of my dreams if I don’t know what to do for this. However, this approach does not always help.
A special attitude will help materialize your desire.
Connect your subconscious, and it will help you find a path to a dream that you have no idea about. Mentally imagine yourself in the future, when your wish has practically come true. And feel confident that it will definitely come true, and you will very soon get what you want. Feel calm, happiness, gratitude, satisfaction that everything happened in the best possible way. This state helps to realize desires.
What words should not be used
For the technique of wish fulfillment to bring greater effect, do not use the particle “not” and formulate the request in the present tense. For example, instead of “I never want to get sick,” write “I have excellent health,” or instead of “I don’t want to be fat,” write “I have a slim figure and an attractive appearance.”
Life according to instructions
Our ability to live by someone else's rules is truly amazing. We forget about our interests and obey the laws of the society in which we find ourselves. We study where we are assigned, we work where we are assigned. We are gradually becoming a kind of “robots”, looped in the cycle of identical days. We lose the habit of rejoicing, being surprised, taking risks and choosing. We devote more time to work than family and consider this normal. We work without interest in our work and slowly destroy ourselves.
We understand this, but we cannot correct the situation. Or we don't want to. We want to, but we can’t. Because we got used to it and even accepted it. The fire went out, the shoulders hunched, the attitude towards the proposed circumstances changed. Habit is a strong and stable thing, it holds you stronger than any thought about internal harmony and development of potential. Time passes and goes. The days fly by, unnoticed. We remain in the same place, dissatisfied with ourselves in particular and life in general. We complain, look for benefits, get used to living like everyone else.
But one day, as we see off another year, we suddenly clearly realize that our lives are only in our hands. And suddenly we decide to change everything.
Car
Have you heard the phrase from your friends: I want to buy a car? Many young people who have not yet saved up for their own vehicle have a similar desire. A similar dream lives in the hearts of people who love to travel. To buy a car, you don't have to save up for it all your life. You can choose a used car, for which you can get a loan from any bank. You need to fulfill your dreams, and not wait for the right opportunity. Does your salary not allow you to buy a car? Then you need to change your job. There is no need to expect that your salary will be raised in 10 years. If you understand that there is no career growth, change your place of work. Improve your skills and become a good specialist.
Do you often have the thought “I want to buy a car” in your head? Go to a car dealership and take a closer look at the cars. Until your dream takes a concrete form, it will not become a reality. You need to know exactly what kind of car you want to buy and how much it costs. Once you understand how much you need to save per month to achieve your dreams, you can start saving.
What prevents us from finding our “I”
You need to go into a new life lightly, so that nothing pulls you back or brings you to the ground. Therefore, the first thing you need to do is get rid of unnecessary baggage. Get ready to cleanse your soul of the trash that has accumulated over the years of living a life that was not yours.
Remember what you need to get rid of first.
Regrets about the past
Let's agree to consider today as the starting point of your new life, and leave the past behind. What happened cannot be changed, no matter how much you sprinkle ashes on your head. Regrets will only waste time and energy, preventing you from moving forward.
Blaming yourself and others
If you think that you did something wrong, missed opportunities, did not take advantage of the chances given by fate, forgive yourself for this. Take this heavy burden off your shoulders and take a deep breath. None of us are perfect, and there is no point in beating yourself up about it.
Blaming circumstances and other people for your failures is also counterproductive. In this way, we literally acknowledge our own powerlessness. In addition, the most dear and close people - parents, relatives, friends - are most often in the dock. Stop the investigation and stop looking for someone to blame. Case is closed.
Stereotypes
Stereotypes are the main reason why people do not live their lives. If you follow them blindly, drowning out the voice of your Self, sooner or later you will find yourself in a dead end. Or in a hole - depending on your luck. If you hear one of the following phrases, you know that you are dealing with a stereotype. Don't let him ruin your plans and dreams.
- “You can’t make a living by dancing (music, drawing).”
- “It’s all not serious.”
- “After 30 years it is impossible to change profession.”
- “You can’t get big money honestly.”
- “It’s too late to do this, we should have started in childhood.”
- “You can’t get anywhere without connections.”
Techniques for fulfilling love desires
Love desires can be difficult because they involve strong emotions. And your state of mind depends on them. Therefore, approach the execution of such techniques carefully.
Attracting destiny
This ritual puts you in a special mood, helping you create the love relationship you want. To carry it out, you need to create the appropriate mood, feel confident in your strength, calm and joy. Turn on melodious music and wear light clothes, and let no one come to you for half an hour.
Attracting fate is a special ritual that will bring joy.
Then, in the twilight, light a candle, the flame of which will illuminate your reflection in the mirror. Think only about the good, your desire to meet your beloved half. Taking a deep breath and exhaling, let go of your worries about your appearance. Then draw on pink paper the image of the lover you dream of. And sign the words you want. For example: tenderness, love, kindness, harmony, etc.
Then tie your photo, in which you like yourself, and this drawing with a red or pink ribbon. And attach these 2 sheets to the mirror so that their reflection can be seen. Then read:
All my doubts have flown away, My heart is open to you, come, Future happiness is opening now, Joy and love are ahead.
Then use your fingers to extinguish the candle. Look in the mirror for a few minutes. And then you need to put the tied up photo and drawing in the southwestern part or in your love sector. After that, go to bed and wait for the result.
A break up
If you are experiencing difficulties in a relationship or a breakup or divorce, then you can perform the “Morning Pages” exercise, which was described above. This practice helps you release emotions, organize your thoughts, and overcome difficult times in your life.
Love wishes
No matter how much you want to be happy with this or that person, it is better to wish for success in love only for yourself, without specifying anyone. And after that, be distracted by ordinary life, useful things, without getting hung up on your desire, finding your soulmate. Then your dream will come true faster.
You need to make love wishes for yourself.
Ho'oponopono
This popular practice is suitable for solving difficult situations and helps improve relationships. It is otherwise called the Hawaiian Cleansing Method. To achieve the effect, perform the technique daily. The cleansing process starts with the repetition of phrases:
- I'm sorry;
- I'm sorry;
- thank you, thank you;
- I love you.
This practice helps to improve relationships with loved ones, colleagues and other people.
Mental conversation
There are many types of this technique. If you think that you have been treated unfairly and you are offended by some person, then have a conversation between your two higher selves. Relax and do this before bed. You mentally talk to the person, calmly explain why he is wrong. And convey your position. And after that, tell him what to do correctly, show him where he is mistaken.
Mental conversation has many types of execution.
And in your notebook you formulate the desired result every day. For example, this person apologized for his action, stopped pestering him, paid his salary, relationships improved and harmonized. This practice must be continued until the situation improves. The main thing is not to be nervous and be calm. In this case, the situation will be resolved in a positive way.
Develop abilities
What is your deepest wish? Many people dream of realizing their talent. But not everyone succeeds. Why? People are afraid to follow their dreams. Some people think that it is stupid to spend time on an activity, for example, music, if this activity does not generate income. Don't be afraid to do things that don't make you money. A person’s hobby is an outlet that helps relieve stress and recharge with energy. What abilities can you develop:
- learn to play a musical instrument;
- learn to dance;
- take a makeup course;
- master the art of hairdressing;
- learn to draw;
- learn to sing;
- learn to sculpt;
- take a nail art course;
- learn to cut wood;
- learn to mint;
- master the art of stained glass;
- master the art of pottery;
- try yourself as a photographer;
- try your hand at being a speaker.
Any desire can be fulfilled. And remember that you can always turn your hobby into your profession. But at the initial stage, you should not worry if your activity does not bring in money. You should develop your talents for fun. First you have to spend time and money on acquiring skills, only then can you expect dividends.
Lose weight
Are you unhappy with your body? The situation urgently needs to change. You need to love your reflection in the mirror. If you realize that you have recently gained extra pounds, then now is the time to get rid of them. And the wish list will help you with this. Only those people who know exactly what they want will find opportunities and ways to realize their dreams. You need to set your goals correctly. Losing weight is an abstract desire. But losing 10 kg is already a real goal. You must be clear about all the changes you want to make to your body. For example, write a list of 100 wishes related to your transformation. Let's look at what you can write below:
- lose weight by 10 kg;
- pump up your butt;
- pump up your abs;
- do 50 push-ups daily;
- pull up on the horizontal bar;
- run 3 km every day;
- drink 1.5 liters of water;
- stretch for an hour a day;
- sign up for group yoga classes;
- exercise with a jump rope 10 minutes a day.
Write what is relevant to you now. You can write a list of 100 wishes, guided by this article, or come up with your own goals. Don't show your plans to anyone. Let them be a secret to others. The less you talk about your plans and desires, the more energy you have left to realize your goals. Start implementing your list today, don’t wait for a magical tomorrow. Remember, it will never come if you don't start working now.
Learn a foreign language
Today it is difficult to imagine the life of a person who does not know at least one foreign language. Many people dream of traveling, but when traveling you will have to communicate with the local population. So start learning a foreign language. The first step is to master international English. It is not difficult to save money for specialized courses. You just have to want and save a third of your salary every month. But before you do this, go to any language club and find out its prices. When you know how much tuition costs, it will be easier for you to save. Many language schools have a system of loans and deferred payments. Therefore, you can start classes today.
Don't have the desire or time to enroll in courses? You can learn a language while sitting at home. Thanks to free lessons and live communication with foreigners in chats and Skype, you can improve your speaking level well. Don't be afraid to make a mistake. No one will laugh at your attempts to become a better person. Don't stop there. Having learned one language, proceed to the second, and then to the third. Experts say that when you can master three languages, you will not have problems learning the fourth and fifth.
