About the relationship between daughters and fathers - in statuses

You need to become not a father, but a dad

1. A girl who is raised like a king is more likely to become a princess.
2. Usually dad is not as meticulous and scrupulous as mom. That's why he often acts as a friend.
3. Did your father never manage to tie ponytails either?
4. He is completely different from even the guy he loves - he definitely won’t go anywhere and won’t find another.
5. In our culture, a responsible father is already an irreplaceable luxury.
6. Every daughter needs a dad - she must understand what real man's love is.
7. Remembering how we spent evenings with daddy is priceless.
8. It’s not that he’s perfect: he often swears and teaches life. But I still love him...

But you can do the following for yourself:

1. Realize that your father's unfair treatment of you is not normal and you should not accept it. It will be good if you remember everything that was offensive in childhood and acknowledge your experiences. You will be hampered by a feeling of guilt (being angry with your parents and complaining is bad), but try to allow yourself to let your grievances out.
2. Your feelings, most of which you have had to suppress and deal with on your own, need to be accepted. Give them the right to life. And now let these sensations be your assistant in current life situations and relationships. Trust your feelings when you notice that you are hurt by someone's words and actions. Don't allow people to make derogatory remarks and depreciation towards you. Let them know right away that you don't like it.
3. You can try to “forgive” your father, write him letters of gratitude. These are good practices, but they will not have the desired effect if you cannot express your anger . It is necessary to empty the vessel before filling it with something good. Therefore, first you must throw out your anger, resentment, dissatisfaction, and only then, after living through this storm, try to understand and accept the unfulfilled relationship. There is no point in putting a band-aid on a purulent wound. You can journal regularly and put all your pain on paper.
4. It is important that you work through these grievances with someone who is willing to listen to you and unconditionally support you, to be with you while you go through this painful process. A friend or mother is not suitable for this role, because... are interested parties. Moreover, they will not be able to provide qualified assistance and there is a high probability that some of your feelings will be rationalized and even devalued. It is best to seek professional psychological help . This way you can honor and comfort your inner child. This will be your act of self-care. Your environment, even the most loving ones, may itself be traumatized in the matter of relationships with the father complex and will be unable to provide support at the right time. Moreover, there is a risk of repeated psychological trauma.
5. Fill your mind with images of positive parenthood. Watch men with children, absorb positive associations, stories, find married couples with loving fathers. Create new guidelines “what is good”, this will allow you to build internal boundaries that will not allow dislike from a man into your life.
6. You are worthy of love by birthright. There is no badness or lack in you for which one could not love you as a child. You suffer from a lack of fatherly love, not because you deserve it. Love does not need to be earned , you need to allow yourself and accept the new level of normal that you are focusing on. You have the right to choose new guidelines, freeing yourself from the program imposed in childhood. It is not your fault that you were not loved or that love was not expressed. Don't settle for measly leftovers.
7. Learn to notice the love and attention of men towards you, learn to accept and ask for care from men. Do not refuse help when it is offered to you, even in small things.
8. Respect men . Just because one man betrayed your trust once doesn't mean everyone else will do the same.

Finally - psychological practice. Having done it, you will understand how emotionally charged the topic of the father complex is for you. Try to do it without rushing, create a safe space where nothing and no one will distract you with work, calls or requests. Observe your body carefully and allow yourself any emotions.

What a pity that parents are not getting any younger

Every father shows his care in different ways. From the statuses about dad and daughter you can find out how they do it.

1. It's good when you can talk to your father about your relationship with your boyfriend. You immediately see the truth in full view.
2. Have you noticed that next to good dads, moms are really happy with life.
3. Knowing my father, I’m already afraid for the guy who will offend me.
4. I know my father wanted a son, but that doesn’t make him love me any less.
5. Dad is the person who will stop you from watching lousy TV series and teach you how to watch good films.
6. You won’t get loud congratulations or special tenderness from him. But when necessary, he will hug and say: “I’m here.”
7. A father who cares about his daughter’s problems is not very common.
8. The more fun the father is, the easier it is to introduce him to a new guy.

Quotes about father and daughter

The connection between father and daughter is special, glorified by many artists. Many books have been written about her, hundreds of amazing films have been made and more. This unique form of love is a favorite theme for millions of creative individuals, whose statements you can find on our website.

Beautiful quotes about fathers and their daughters, young and old, can be read to improve your mood in your free time. They are also used as additions to congratulations, as decorations for posts on social networks.

The father is not an anchor to hold, not a sail that will take you where you need to go. It is the guiding light whose love shows the direction.

Dad plays like a child, gives advice like a friend, protects like a bodyguard.

It is true what they say is that when a man has a son, the man becomes a father. Or, at the very least, dad. And when a daughter is born - daddy.

The most important man in my life is you, daddy, and no matter how old I get, I will always remain daddy’s little daughter for you, and you are my main man, no one can replace you.

There are two really useful books for girls. First, her mom's cooking recipes, and second, her dad's checkbook.

Every man approves of sex before marriage... until he has a daughter.

Dads are like a stable, but not sentimental person - the sun in our family sky, which warms and gives life, but which is not thought about much unless it is missing.

Anyone can become a father, but only a special one becomes a father.

It is the daughter who is the subject of dad’s special pride.

The daughter is the only woman in front of whom dad should not try to look smart, strong, and courageous. For a daughter, her dad is already the best.

Dad won't give you bad advice

The status about a husband and daughter is very necessary for that woman who is lucky enough to know the joy of motherhood and marriage. But is everything really that smooth?

1. Once upon a time it made my knees tremble, but now I hold our little miracle on them.
2. I love my daughter and husband so much that I’m afraid to wake up and realize that it was just a dream.
3. Yes, we are not that young, but we managed to convey youth to our little happiness.
4. As soon as I feel that the bustle is consuming me, I urgently need to talk to either my husband or my daughter. Then I understand what all this is for.
5. Lifetime achievements? The daughter looks like her father.
6. Love is when your child is asked who he loves more. And you’re afraid that he won’t call you and your significant other will be upset.
7. There is almost no romance in everyday life. But there are children in it, and that is much more important.
8. Mutual support is when you and your daughter take turns doing homework.

How to make up for the lack of fatherly love?

Even if the father is still alive, trying to get from him what was missing in childhood is doomed to failure. Because the desire to demand love does not mean that an adult will miraculously change his attitude and behavior towards his, albeit already an adult, child. You cannot change another person.

Here it is necessary to work with the internal image of the father, the introject that has formed in the psyche. At its core, it is a collective image of what a “father” is: all beliefs and experiences, both positive and negative. I won’t lie and assure you that reading books and completing marathons will heal mental wounds - you will need the help of a specialist.

Dad can do anything

Beautiful statuses about your daughter and dad can touch you to the depths of your soul. Particularly sentimental be careful!

1. So many years have passed, but I still remember your big palm, in which my childhood hand was drowning.
2. My father told me that I needed to be feminine, but sometimes he taught me that I needed to be strong. Yes, just in case.
3. For dad's sake, you don't need to put on makeup and pick out clothes. It’s not even necessary to develop your inner peace!
4. For happiness, it would be enough to know that his heart will never stop...
5. I can no longer climb into your lap, but I can still come and ask for advice. And that's great...
6. I hug my father and understand that no one will hurt me with him.
7. You don’t choose your parents, I was just lucky.
8. Father, of course, cannot replace mother. But no one can replace such a father either...

In relationships with their father, women could be injured:

• o coldness, neglect, constant criticism and inability to meet inflated demands;
• conditional love: for grades at school, for beauty or achievements, for helping parents or unquestioning fulfillment of their will;
• trauma of rejection;
• shame about my father's drunkenness;
• his aggression towards the mother and family members, including the daughter herself;
• guilt for one’s “badness”;
• shame about one’s sexuality and expression of feminine traits;
• discrepancy with the father's expectations - a girl was born, but they were expecting a boy, or a tomboyish girl;
• “emotionally dead father”, when the relationship with him is only formal;
• indifference to the child's life;
• devaluation of her personality as such, as well as devaluation of femininity;
• beatings, violence, seduction.

These women did not receive stability, security, predictability, trust, tenderness, affection, acceptance, admiration, the loving gaze of a parent, or recognition of her feminine side in their relationship with their dad.

And then they begin to fight for the love of men or compete with them in the professional sphere, as well as in everyday life. They spend a lot of internal strength trying to prove that they are worthy of love.

Everlasting memory

If you often think about him, choose a status about daughter and dad. Share only the most important things with your friends!

1. I believe you look from there and protect from everything bad.
2. You can’t be brought back, but I believe when you can no longer believe.
3. A quitter and a quitter are two different things.
4. Years passed, and time healed, but I never forgave fate for its cruelty.
5. All I have is a yellowed photograph and a couple of childhood memories. But this is enough to love you with all my soul.
6. Talk, communicate, even quarrel. Take care of moms and dads while they are alive!
7. I learned to live without you, father. But sometimes I just need you.
8. It’s probably too early for me to rush, but I’m really looking forward to meeting you.

Aphorisms about dad - the right dad!

Use aphorisms about fathers and their roles in a child’s life to prepare congratulations to dad for the holiday of February 23!

I think only about him... About dad, I think only about her... About mom! I only think... About them, about the family!

A man is looking for a woman who looks like his mother; and finds a mother-in-law who looks like dad!

And in this world you can’t trust anyone except mom and dad, believe me.

Meeting a prince on a white horse is my dream, but meeting dad on a white horse is my 3rd wish.

For mom with a mountain, for dad with a wall, for a friend with a brick, and for yourself with yourself!!!

- Dad, meet me, this is Alexander. - Come in, Alexander, have lunch with us. - Dad, Alexander is full! - Alexander, don’t piss, come in!

I wanted to tell him that he would soon become a dad, but he beat me to it by saying that we were breaking up...

The most important contribution to raising a child is the right dad.

Mom is super, dad is great, whoever doesn’t believe him in the eye!

- Dad, do you have any friends? - No, son, this is fantastic!

No matter how important dad is, when mom is not in the mood, everyone follows a thread.

I remember how my mother took me to first grade and I remember how my father carried me from graduation!

I really want understanding and declarations of love from a man... I’ll call dad!

Family vacation. Dad wants to go to the Alps, and mom wants to go to the sea. Mom found a compromise - the whole family goes to the sea, but dad is allowed to take skis with him.