Farewell SMS to a guy when breaking up

Farewell SMS to a guy when breaking up, in his own words

By sending this SMS, I will erase you from my life, and, overcoming mental pain, I will look into the future with an open heart. And you go into the night...
Just recently I went crazy from your touch, but today it’s hard for me to remember everything that happened between us. Our dreams are not destined to come true and sadly, this is the end!
I want to plunge into routine everyday life in order to forget you as quickly as possible. Thank you for the wonderful moments you gave me, but my heart cannot give you a second chance.
The wind of change has blown away my addiction called love. The scarlet sail will no longer appear on the horizon, because I choose freedom - freedom from you!
After this SMS, I will put up an invisible wall that will protect me from all the lies in which my love for you drowned. I’d rather say “Goodbye” now than continue to torment my soul.
I am no longer happy with our relationship, in which understanding has disappeared. The game of love ended with this SMS!

What can you write to a guy in the first message to get him hooked?

Starting communication is an important aspect of a good relationship in the future. Use your imagination and follow some tips:

First of all, these should not be banal phrases like “How are you” and “Let’s get acquainted.” To attract a guy’s attention in the first seconds of communication and keep him, carefully study his page on a social network. So you will understand what he does, what music he listens to, where he has traveled. Perhaps you will learn something about his character, actions, taste preferences. Use this information to make connections. For example: “You have visited such beautiful places. Great! You probably have a lot of vivid impressions. Will you share?"
Identify your area of common hobbies. This will fuel his interest: “I, like you, love to play volleyball. Soon our city team will compete with the guests. Maybe we can go to the game?
As if inadvertently, let him know about your good attitude towards him: “I see that you are volunteering. I deeply like such people. Not everyone is ready to spend their energy and time helping those in need. I want to join this movement."
As if by chance, give him a light compliment: “I saw several dessert recipes on your page. Not all men are partial to cooking. I have rare dishes in my arsenal. I can send you the recipe."
Ask him for advice, a man’s opinion about some situation: “Your page has an excellent selection of music. I want to buy good headphones to listen to. Can you tell me which model to choose?”

To write first is not shameful or shameful. But imposing yourself is a completely different matter. Don’t monitor every second whether he answered or not. Don't give him the opportunity to understand that you are looking forward to continuing communication. When he writes, pause and only then answer. If your signal does not work and he does not respond to the first message, you should not continue the correspondence.

Let's consider another vital situation. What can you write to a man in SMS or on a social network to hook him if he has lost his temper?

To captivate him, try to create and maintain intrigue. Change, be unpredictable and contradictory. Try on different images: today you are the embodiment of modesty and gullibility, tomorrow you are pragmatism and rationalism. By unraveling you, he will understand how unusual and multifaceted you are, and will again become interested in you.
A person's most lively interest is in himself. Most of your messages should not be about you, but about him. Show sincere attention to his personality, life events, and hobbies. Don’t talk about what your mood is, but ask him about it.
All men are narcissists to a greater or lesser extent. Throw compliments into the fire of your relationship, but only those that he deserves. All men like to be praised.
Be funny, be positive. If humor is not your thing, stock up on a few funny stories in advance that will help smooth out rough edges and create a feeling of sympathy.

Farewell SMS to your loved one when parting

It’s difficult to come up with farewell SMS messages when breaking up with a loved one on your own, because emotions affect intelligence. Choose ready-made words that are close to your soul...

Let someone else get you, not me. But our flower of love, which until recently was fragrant, was destroyed by envious people. Now we have tickets for different life flights!
I no longer have the feeling of wings behind my back, which means that the waterfall of love has already dried up. Now I am increasingly visited by the desire for loneliness and so be it. Goodbye!
The ball of our love has ended, unraveled to the end. My eyes no longer know the sparkle of life. The flowers of happiness released sharp thorns. I close the door to the world of our relationships, already past.
The dam of our river of love has collapsed. I have no desire to restore anything anymore. Sorry and goodbye!
The field bells no longer ring in my soul and the birds of paradise have stopped singing loudly. It's all over, there is no more “us”!
The branches of our once lush lilac have withered, every single flower. We won't see a rainbow together and won't run towards each other. The colors of love no longer have bright colors!

I loved you so much

A farewell SMS to a guy who brings you to tears in your own words can be very touching, heartfelt and romantic - after all, in this case the girl still wants to return everything. But she feels that this relationship has no future. Then she can write the following phrase:

I want to send you away, but I’m just writing - I can’t forget you. I love…
I don’t want to cry at night and dream anymore, you destroyed all my dreams.
Well, it turns out that they just didn’t get along in character.
I really want to not have time for you, I will do everything for this.
Don't try to make a bitch out of me, I will remain the same and move on.
Someone has fallen out of love with someone, and someone still can’t...
I don't need your sick love anymore.
I wanted to say a lot, but you still won’t understand.
I'm starting to forget you...
Thank you for being with us, thank you for the school of life.
I am very happy that I left the list of your fans.
You always said the right thing and did the opposite. When you learn to do what you say, call.
I'm tired of being close to a person - neither this nor that, neither fish nor fowl...
Don't like me? Don't eat, go to a restaurant.
I still touched a nerve, I wanted to kill this living thing, but I won’t allow it...
Everything is so banal and stupid - we met strangely and strangely we will separate.
I will learn to live without you, although you tried to tame me for so long.
If you don't love me, then I don't either.
Don't forget that I don't like it either.
Thank you for the bright moments, but there were very few of them...
My heart is still broken, but I will pick it up piece by piece.
Thank you - I have become wiser and stronger.
Only thanks to you I am no longer that girl with naive eyes, I have become strong.
Goodbye my first love, but not my last.
It hurts, but not fatal.
“Having endured this pain, I will not stop breathing. I’ll still be happy, even if without you.”
Yes, it’s cruel, yes, it hurts, but thank you for the experience.
Be happy without me if you can.
I won’t cry, at least you won’t see my tears anymore.
You were my mistake, I’m starting to work on my mistakes.
They don’t renounce when they love; if you renounce, it means you simply don’t know how to love.
Someday they will step over you in the same way.
It hurts, it hurts, it’s sad, but I can handle it.
Don't feel sorry for me, feel sorry for yourself for not seeing me.
“I’m crying for you, my beloved,” but it will soon pass.
I wish you to find your ideal one, although there are no such things.

Farewell SMS to your loved one when breaking up, in your own words

It would be more correct to say farewell SMS in your own words when breaking up, because your loved one will better understand the feelings that overflow your “scale.”

Don’t come to my doorstep anymore and don’t look for meetings with me. Move on in life your own way, because we are not on the same path.
I will never forget our dates, but I also don’t see a future with you. My train left without waiting for you.
Love is the engine of life on Earth. But our mechanism of eternal feeling is broken and cannot be repaired. Be happy, but without me!

Sublime relationships crashed against the rocks of reality and left us with pain inside, which will echo in our souls for a long time. Thanks for the experience and goodbye!
Our book of love will have to be closed and placed on a shelf to gather dust. The last chapter of the novel has already been written and cannot be changed!
I imagined our love to be completely different. Instead of a paradise oasis, I see an impenetrable jungle. Complete disappointment in you cuts me to the quick. I will extinguish the relationship candle forever and right now!
I’m not looking for beautiful forms of big words - that’s of no use. The hour has come when our relationship has exhausted itself. I hope that my experience with you will help me become happier.

What can you write to your ex-boyfriend after a breakup?

If you are at fault:

My happiness only has your face.
With our parting, all the stars in the sky went out for me. Without you I wander in the dark.
I have only one desire left - to go back to the past and correct what happened. Alas, it will never come true.
By losing you, I lost a part of myself.
There are no ideal people. If you could forgive me, I would prove how strong my feelings are for you.

Do you remember how we... (walked in the park, loved to lie on the sofa together, roller skated). I really miss this.
Separation from you is the worst punishment for my actions. I still hope that you will come back.
I realized that I don't want to do 3 things. 1) to be separated from you; 2) fall asleep without you; 3) drink coffee in the morning alone.

I thought that after parting, the love in my heart for you would fade away. But it's the other way around. The flames grew so hot that it became difficult to breathe without you.

I wish I could take back all the pain I caused you. After all, you are the most dear person in the world to me.

Here's what else you can write to a guy to make him understand that you need him.

If your ex-boyfriend is to blame, here’s what you can write to him after the breakup:

Let's start all over again? Without quarrels, tears, insults, omissions and reproaches.
Recently I was going through my things and saw a photo of us together. We are so happy with it. Maybe we should try to find happiness together again?
I saw your favorite candies in the store. I immediately thought of you and bought them. Would you like to pop in for a cup of tea and discuss a truce?
I no longer have the strength to be offended or angry with you. There is only strength for love or friendship. What do you think about that?
It turns out that watching a movie alone on the couch is not as interesting as watching it with you. We urgently need to make peace!
Do you remember how it was when you were a child? Make up, make up, and don’t fight anymore... let’s make up for the last time, and if you mess up, I’ll bite you?
I love myself the way I was next to you: happy and loved. If there is even a slight chance of repeating everything, let me know.
I've prepared a truce dinner! I also bought a bottle of truce wine and truce fruit! I propose to bury the hatchet and move on to negotiations at the table. Agree?

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Comments:

19.10.2017
Victoria:
You need to leave or break up beautifully, and my personal opinion is that if you feel that the end of the relationship is not far off, it is better to put this final point on your own, then it will not hurt as much as if you receive something similar from a former loved one. By the way, I really liked some of the preparations, it’s a pity that this has never happened before and I had to come up with it myself so that I could put an end to it and stab it more painfully.
22.11.2017
Sweetie:
Do you know how I said goodbye to mine? I hate texting, so I just grabbed him by the collar and pulled him down the stairs.
Read also: The only luxury I know is the luxury of human communication (A. de Saint-Exupéry)
22.11.2017
Lydia:
I don’t see the point in writing all these messages beautifully and for a long time. Once they broke up, they broke up, and it didn’t matter whose fault it was. I walked out the door with my things and good riddance, I now have to live for myself, my beloved, and look for a replacement.
27.11.2017
Marina:
But what if the boyfriend is disgusted and I want to blow him off, but blow him off in such a way that he won’t be too offended by me? I’m thinking of doing this via SMS (I don’t know how he will react when communicating “live”). All that remains is to find the words.
28.11.2017
Karina:
I can’t understand who or what these SMS messages are for. If a guy doesn’t care about you, then complaining words won’t influence him. On the contrary, you will make it even more painful for the lover. And in general, I am for live communication. And then we got used to meeting and parting on the Internet. Have you even met in real life???)))) Some kind of kindergarten...
03.12.2017
Rita:
Personally, I react to any quarrel very violently and overly emotionally. It’s hard for me to find words, and sometimes it’s impossible, because... you are in a stressful situation. But when you have cooled down a little and are left alone, you feel the incompleteness of the conversation and want to speak out. And that’s when these SMS messages come in handy. Repeatedly I wrote something similar, a feeling of completeness of the relationship appeared, such a bold and beautiful point. And by the way, she made an impression, so I recommend it.
05.12.2017
Marianne:
Reporting a breakup via SMS if you have had a long and serious relationship is cruelty and cowardice. Well, unless you seriously offended, then you can write something offensive yourself.
15.12.2017
Eka:
But I can’t tell a person about the end of a relationship, even though I know that it’s right... I always somehow feel sorry for the person, and I put off breaking up even in hopeless cases. so SMS is my option.
28.12.2017
Yana:
I broke up with guys twice, to be honest, it hurt. The first time I didn’t write anything at all and didn’t respond to his text messages to me. And the second time, yes, it happened - I wrote it. And I still regret it. Although we parted quite peacefully, in a rage I wrote nasty things. A banal stupid phrase - all men are assholes. And you lead this herd. Still haven't apologized. And I’m not going to, although I feel guilty.
29.12.2017
Ksyusha:
Read also: 10 Conor McGregor quotes that went down in history
If you break up with a guy with a grudge, then I think that you definitely need to talk it out to him or write it to him - this will make it easier to “turn the page” and start a new life. And he, at least, will know that he was probably wrong, cruel, cold with you, etc., and will either try to fix everything, regardless of the text of the message received, or take time to think, and then, if irresistible will be drawn to you, will find a reason to meet. The main thing - if you still hope to restore the relationship - is not to offend with words, as I once did: “Be a man, don’t call again!”, And she herself expected the opposite, but he was simply offended.
18.01.2018
Masha:
It’s better not to break up at all than by SMS!} It’s not serious, we need to tell each other everything we wanted, i.e. sent in an amicable way and everyone went their own way!
16.02.2018
Dina:
I don’t think that when breaking up you need to use any template phrases. You can take them as a basis and come up with something of your own. In general, you need to break up in person, and not via SMS correspondence.
27.03.2018
Kate:
Many of these SMS can be taken as a basis; indeed, the ideas are simply excellent, but you still need to write from yourself. I think it would be inappropriate to break up with a person with some phrase from the Internet. In general, I think that you shouldn’t break up this way, especially if you were in a serious and long-term relationship. So you will not be able to put an end to your relationship.

Parting in prose

Goodbye. I don’t want to say a lot of unnecessary words, they won’t make anyone feel any better anyway. Just know that you will forever remain that special person who managed to touch the most intimate thing - my soul. Do I love you? I will answer, without thinking for a minute, that yes, and even very much so. But the problem is that my love is not enough to save our relationship. It always seemed to me that two people should fight for the strength of an alliance, but apparently, the opinion turned out to be wrong. Remember, all the best things are connected exclusively with you, and if you suddenly find yourself in trouble, I will undoubtedly come to the rescue. Only as a good friend, just an acquaintance, but nothing more. You are in my heart forever, and this is perhaps the saddest thing. After all, I can’t love anyone the way I love you. I sincerely believe that everything will be fine for you, that you will find your happiness. I'm sorry that everything turned out so that mutual dreams remained the sweet dreams of those who were once one.

You go... “with a bag, on foot, along the sleepers, barefoot, fool”

A farewell SMS to a loved one in your own words can also have a humorous overtone, if you understand that everything is for the best and you have already been let go of your past relationship:

And it’s easy and good for me, because you’re finally gone!
Do you think I'm suffering? No, I'm starting to live.
Who wants a ride on the ears and empty words? Wait - then he comes to you!
You showed me which men I definitely don’t need.
Why did you leave me so late? We should have done this much earlier, so many days were lost!
I sympathize with your new beloved - she received a brick that is very difficult to carry.
I myself haven’t wanted to be with you for a long time, I was just somehow embarrassed to say so.
I do not regret, do not call, do not cry…
But life is getting better.
Enjoying life without you turned out to be much cooler than with you.
After the breakup I wanted to cry, get drunk or fall in love, I chose the third option.
When there is no love, then separation will be without sadness.
You are my transit passenger.
Freedom greets you joyfully at the entrance.
I no longer love the donut hole you always offered me.
But I believed everything, and like a rose, I blossomed, because I loved him. But I fell out of love.
Have you found out what true love is? I think not, you are simply incapable of feelings.
Our commodity-money relations have ended - I am the sponsor, you are the consumer. Look for a new donor, depressed region.
He left unexpectedly, but as long as he didn’t come back.
What kind of love is just an illusion.
I forgave you a long time ago and let you go, fly, eagle with chicken feathers.
You are my anti-hero, thanks to you I understood what I will definitely never need in my life.

It hurts, but I'll survive

A farewell SMS to a guy in your own words can also be impudent and a little cynical, because there is pain and resentment in your soul:

For your dislike - my thanks, there will definitely never be more of those in my life.
Get rid of it, bad life, get attached to the good one.
Please go in all four directions.
Start biting your elbow.
Go to a psychologist, they will tell you what is right and what is disgusting.
Go to the mirror - look carefully and you will see - a narcissistic cretin.
Your ideal is flexible and stupid.
Thank you and goodbye, or rather goodbye.
Our separation gave me the confidence that I need to step over the bugs.
Remember the boomerang - it's on its way.
Yes, it still hurts, but I’m glad of this pain - only through it will I see real values, and you will continue to flounder in the discount market.
You are so cool only with young children, with normal girls you are nothing.
It's good that I didn't have time to fall in love with you.
I won’t remember you, I just don’t need it.
Even if I don’t forget you, these memories will be bitter and disgusting.
It wasn’t you who screwed me and abandoned me, it was I who left you because I was completely disappointed.
The road with you is a dead end, without you the whole world is at my feet.
I don’t know who has lost more now, I think it’s you.
I don’t wish you the same pain that I have in my soul, I just feel very sorry for your future girls.
You are my biggest mistake, and I will definitely cross it out.
I won't beg for your love, why? You made the right choice.
Only a weakling would choose a problem-free life with a stupid, useless blonde.
Didn't understand me? Well, the flag is in your hands.
Who are you come bye!
Sometimes we lost more...

I miss you

But there are SMS saying goodbye to your loved one in your own words and with the hope that everything can be changed, you can return your loved one and start all over again:

You left without any explanation - are you really that soulless?
I feel hurt and sorry for myself.
I will shout, and in response there will be silence...
I didn’t expect gratitude for my love, but I didn’t expect indifference either.
While I can’t pull myself together, I continue to wait for you.
I don't understand why this happened.
“I’m crying for you, my love, I’m crying!”
The soul continues to hurt, and this pain is unbearable.
I miss you.
I just can’t get used to the fact that you’re no longer around, I constantly want to call.
There is love, but you are not.
I just can’t heal the wounds from the fact that you left, what should I do?

Never try to return someone who once abandoned you.

Short quotes and aphorisms about parting with meaning

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The consequences of separation depend on how long and sincere the feelings were.

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A person leaves not because of a lack of feelings, but because of a lack of reciprocity or betrayal.

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Never try to return someone who once abandoned you.

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If you are leaving someone... don't look back, otherwise you will see something that will make you stay...

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It is easier to part with a person than with illusions about him.

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I hate the feeling when a person leaves, but the feeling is that he is inside you to the last drop.

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Sometimes they leave not to leave, but to return different.

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The best thing to do when breaking up is to leave. Erich M. Remarque

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They parted to finally meet. Janusz Leon Wisniewski

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Parting is a great thing. It always seems to give more than it takes away.

Every parting is a harbinger of the last separation. Charles Dickens

Go, wander

But a farewell SMS to your beloved man in your own words can be not only touching, but also with a dose of irony, sarcasm, jokes or caustic, offensive words. This phrase comes from resentment, from powerlessness and a feeling of impasse, but it can also confirm the strength of a woman when she pulls herself together and gets rid of a sick relationship, choose yours:

Finally, freedom! Thank you for freeing me from the web of my sick relationship.
I have one question - did I give it to him?
Weakness is not a vice, but being a weak man is very weak.
Continue to rest on your laurels, I have no time.
Good luck, loser!
Change your perspective, maybe then you will begin to understand people.
Everything is fine with me again - because you are not around.
I fell out of love - I didn’t really want to.
Continue to love only yourself - the one and only, only this love can be mutual.
I feel sorry for all those who will meet further on your life’s path.
Well, what can I tell you - you have very bad taste.
Thank you for the school, I will no longer fall for empty words and promises.
It is not at all interesting for every cockroach to be liked.
If you don’t like me, it doesn’t matter, there are many friends who save me from people like you.
I don’t want to please those who cannot see and understand me.
I just don't like you - it wasn't love.
You don't understand people at all. Go find a new victim.
Thank you very much, you inspired me to new achievements.
I understood what your problem is - you are just above the plinth, and your criteria are the same.
The farther away you are, the more interesting my life is.
You've lost a lot.
I certainly won’t worry; I will survive our parting with joy and relief.
It's good that I'm not like you.
To return to you is to disrespect yourself.
With you, something pathological appeared in me, I left on time.
Freedom - I’ll go take a shower, wash myself and clean myself.
Do you think I loved you, no, I was just waiting for feelings, but they never came.
I'm not happy with you either.
You are a sweet, refined gingerbread that has already set my teeth on edge.
After meeting people like you, there is a new zest for life and increased optimism - thank you, dear.
You're just not my person, and my people are enough for me.
Go... to the bathhouse or through the forest.
I just want to get rid of you already.