Beautiful phrases about sunset
Sunset is perhaps the only time when I can take my melancholy by the hand and sit with it...
In sunsets - the divine wisdom of the sky and the sun
A sunset is like a wedding, just a few moments.
After the bright sun sets, it is impossible to see dark eyes.
Sunset is the end of the day.
Sunset and dawn are the two most important moments, and a person usually yawns...
If you want to feel younger, go and watch the sunset.
Sunset gives us time to think, even if there is no time left.
About sunset and love
Have you ever noticed that the sunset is much more beautiful if you admire it with someone special to you?
The most beautiful things in the world are the sea, sunset and love.
Why can you never confuse whether the sun is rising or setting when you see it over the sea?
From sunset to sunrise, Love will break anyone.
Summer evening, seashore, enchanting sunset - this is happiness!
Real lovers are like sunsets and sunrises - they are more often written about than observed in person.
“Men can cheat and go beautifully into the sunset”
“Can betrayal be forgiven?” — women often ask this question. Men - no, never. They will almost never forgive you for a knife in your back and heart. What about women? They call psychologists live on Instagram and ask, “Is it possible to forgive betrayal?”
That is, they seem to be asking society for permission to do this. After all, in fact, no loving woman wants to forgive this. No man wants the same thing, but we women are forced and pushed in every possible way to forgive, endure and forgive. Be merciful, gentle, kind, “you’re a girl.”
Moreover, forgive anything. And beatings, and betrayal, and humiliation.
This is such a humiliation!..
You know, I’ll say about equality: men are brought up with such a spirit of solidarity that if a man tries to fight off a job, he somehow more often faces condemnation from men. Such behavior is not according to the concepts of their male brotherhood.
And women in our society are encouraged to compete with each other. And if she dates a married man, they often empathize with her, as if she were taking part in a tough tournament. Or as if this married man had handcuffed her to the radiator and wouldn’t let her go. Well, or she became a victim of a serial rapist and it’s not all her fault.
M and F say that “Men cheat,” and “female” cheating is an absolute disaster.
But the more women adhere to the principle of solidarity and do not destroy other people’s relationships, other people’s families, the more difficult it will be for men to cheat.
I also think that male infidelity is highly normalized - just like swearing. And no one thinks about the pain the betrayal of a loved one can bring...
Yes, it is also painful for men to accept betrayal. And they trumpet this at every opportunity as if it were a knife in the heart!
Just remember the cult film “What Men Talk About” (first part). They don’t even want to think about it, it’s so scary.
And this is true not only in our patriarchal society.
When I was dating an overseas prince, he told me the same patriarchal cliché: “Biologically, we men have a harder time with infidelity and all that.”
Yes, it really is a knife in the heart, only for every person, and not exclusively for men. I believe there is no male or female betrayal, betrayal is betrayal. Deception is deception.
And you need to think a hundred times whether you are ready to put up with the consequences. Yes, there are many better people in the world than your partner, but you chose him.
You don’t run to change jobs or business partners, or place of residence every time something doesn’t suit you, do you? No, you're trying to clarify the situation.
And one more thing: women are to blame for cheating. Women are generally to blame for everything, if you listen to society. The husband cheated - the wife is to blame for not giving him something. My wife cheated - who is to blame? That's right, the wife was mad again.
Women agree that the wife is to blame, because it’s easier to justify their unsightly act: it’s not my fault that I’m dating a married man, but she, his wife! Men also agree to relieve themselves of responsibility.
I know a lot of men who cheat on their women, and I can say from my observations: no, their wives are not to blame. Most of those women are absolutely normal, ordinary women who are no different from other women. Their husbands are to blame for cheating. Who don’t know what they want and put three people in an unpleasant position at once: themselves, their woman and the other woman.
Maybe it’s finally time to admit that both are to blame, or at least the one who did the wrong thing?
If we finally stop agreeing that some people can cheat and others can’t... If we women finally learn solidarity, learn to put ourselves in that woman’s shoes, stop communicating with married/busy men, maybe then there will be less cheating?
I believe that there are no accidental betrayals, casual relationships, or drunken betrayals. If you are interested in another person besides your partner, your priorities may have changed.
Yes, of course, female infidelity is very dangerous for society and family. After all, a woman, having fallen in love, can leave and leave her children, but children growing up without a mother is very difficult. A man usually has no idea how to cook, run a household, raise children, or how to interact with them. And he doesn’t bother to understand or find out.
What if the husband leaves the family? That is OK. It’s not much pleasant, of course, but nothing.
Then the woman begins to work for two people, earn money and raise children.
At least a woman most often knows how to earn money, how to serve as a breadwinner and protector.
And the most surprising thing against the backdrop of all this is that the stereotype “forgive him, don’t leave the children without a father” is downright scary and still tenacious. Women do not divorce deceivers, rapists, tyrants, because “how will children grow up without a father.”
Although half of the planet's population ends up growing up without fathers and somehow copes with this, because men can cheat and beautifully go somewhere into the sunset.
Statuses about sunsets with meaning
Look at the sunset. Beautiful. The one above is a real painter.
Sunset is such a beautiful natural phenomenon that sometimes it’s hard to believe that it’s happening in reality.
One sunset is not like another, the colors of the sky are not the same.
Sunsets are saturated with sadness. Because every time you see him off, you think: no matter how successful or unsuccessful, the day is my day, and it goes away forever.
Sometimes I get the impression that someone is painting these sunsets...
The sunset flared and died out - every moment seemed eternal, but the transition from scarlet to ashen took no more than a few demonic moments.
Explaining the sunset does not take away from its beauty...
A beautiful sunset is like flower petals right in the sky.
Don't waste your life in a hurry. Just stop and look at how beautiful the sunset is...
Gone into the sunset and never returned
I am an ordinary girl. I was raised well. And they taught me how to politely say “no,” how to convey my refusal so as not to offend or offend the interlocutor, including on the personal front.
But this thing bothers me - many men cannot end relationships politely and with dignity. I have had a number of romantic relationships throughout my life. Some of them were more serious, others less, well, and a very small part were just flirting.
So, in every “category” of relationships I met men who fit the definition of “cowardly lout.” The situation developed approximately this way: after confirming the fact of mutual sympathy and a certain number of dates, the man disappeared. Without any explanation. He just dissolved. The man did not inform me about his plans, did not say that he was sick, left, wanted to be alone, to work, he had problems of any nature, where I would be out of place, etc. He simply disappeared, “dissolved in the fog,” “went into sunset"…
As a decent and modest person, I take a break of 3-4 days - you never know what he has to do. But there is concern for the guy I care about. That's why I'm calling. The man doesn't answer. I think: “Well, he probably can’t answer the phone. Can't speak." They don't call me back either in the evening or the next day. I am writing a message or e-mail. Silence. I'm just really worried as a human being. After some time I call again. And... there are two options for the development of events. Or silence again. In this case, I conclude that my friend did not have the courage to tell me to my face that his interest in me had dried up. Therefore, I stop trying to get in touch with him, since you won’t be nice by force, and my experiences no longer bother him. Or the man with whom I thought we had a romantic relationship picks up the phone and starts throwing mud at me: “Don’t you understand the first time?” I also find out how fed up he is with everything and our relationship, including that I’m “terribly ugly, and even a fat nerd won’t set his sights on me,” that I can’t do it, like this one from a porn movie, and he wants a big chandelier with his teeth theater And so on…
And this is what bothered me. Yes, I don’t understand when they just disappear without explaining the reason. In the midst of complete calm and after the phrase “Let’s call.” If everything bothers you, just tell me, don’t yell at me. I didn’t give you any reason to doubt my adequacy. I’m an adult and I understand if you haven’t found common ground between our interests. Don’t insult me, since you’re ugly, why did you start dating me? Yes, I can’t, like that one from porn. Porn films are still films, not instruction manuals. I’m not a puritan, but some things are unpleasant for me, and I don’t want to try others, because I’m simply afraid (nobody has yet canceled the instinct of self-preservation).
Please answer me, what's wrong with me? I don’t overbear with my calls and messages, I don’t impose my opinion, I don’t ask for gifts, I don’t eat my brain out with empty chatter, I don’t demand sexual exploits, I don’t starve my partner with sexual hunger, I don’t blackmail him with my behavior. Just tell me what's wrong?
Why men can't break up
Mainly because of the fear of taking responsibility, admitting the problem and calmly explaining to your partner. Guys end relationships quickly, without hesitation. Today your chosen one writes romantic text messages, and tomorrow there is no trace of him. What's going on in the minds of such fugitives?
Comes from childhood
Perhaps his relationship with his mother was difficult. The boy felt unloved or constantly felt under total control. He carried all his complexes into adulthood. The lack of a harmonious relationship with his mother causes the guy to have mixed emotions towards her. This is love, and apathy, and irritation. Subsequently, the man is not able to recognize his feelings and cannot empathize with loved ones.
This is why incomplete relationships become the norm for him. The image of a mother who does not understand and does not love is always before my eyes. Some psychologists believe that when a man decides to run away from his lover, he is, first of all, running away from himself and his childhood nightmares.
Fear of admitting guilt
If a crisis occurs in a couple, responsibility lies with both partners. But most often girls rush into the breach to save their feelings. Even in destructive relationships, they take on the role of victim. Sometimes a man, although he understands his responsibility, prefers to evade the debriefing in time. He is afraid of appearing weak, afraid that the image of a strong and self-confident “macho” will evaporate.
He is a skilled manipulator
A very dangerous guy. He goes into nowhere, leaving you with hope that he will return someday. You remain in limbo. For example, he says that he wants to live alone. At the same time, as if nothing had happened, he writes messages and calls you. Why do men stay in relationships they don't want? Because in this way they cherish their resentment and stroke their pride.
The manipulator does not care about love; he needs to feed off the energy of the victim. He is capable of leaving completely only in one case. If a woman stops dancing to his tune. Then the man leaves in disgrace, cutting off all ties once and for all.
Infancy
Infantile men do not know how to make decisions even on small things. Since childhood, they have become accustomed to their parents deciding everything for them. Then the beloved or legal spouse does this. Even if the relationship does not bring joy, the man does not know how to let the person go. He is unable to put an end to it. Therefore, he deliberately makes sure that the woman herself arranges the separation. He uses different methods: he’s rude, doesn’t work, doesn’t care. So much so that his beloved is just right to become a radical feminist.
Of course, sometimes an infantile man can leave. But he still has nothing to say. In advanced cases, his mother does this for him. Just like in childhood, she takes him away from the playground where the boy was offended by taking away his toy. Alas, such a person is not capable of healthy, honest relationships.
