Statuses about difficulties
Strong woman
A strong woman has feelings in herself, Strong means she is the master of fate. Strong woman with a fiery look, Strong woman with a new outfit.
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A strong woman has pain in her chest, A strong woman believes that everything is ahead. A strong woman is success, Tears in the soul, and laughter in public.
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In difficult life situations, people from whom you would not expect support often come to your aid. And loved ones find themselves on the sidelines.
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They say that problems make us strong and smart. God, how I want to become weak and stupid!
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- Even in the most critical situation, do not give up! That's not why they're built higher than their asses
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Difficulties are sent to us as much as we are able to survive and overcome them. And if it is really difficult for us, then God sends good and kind people to help us
Quotes about problems in life
There is, in essence, only one problem in the world. How to break through? How to get released? How to break a chrysalis and become a butterfly? 10
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- If problems are perceived calmly, they lose their power over us, we become their masters and not slaves. 10
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Sometimes life hands you crap on a silver platter and you have to eat it. 10
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It doesn’t happen that a person exists and there are no problems; they don’t even write children’s fairy tales about this. 10
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Avoiding the problems you have to face is avoiding the life you have to live. 10
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Sorry, I'm not an artist. Good artists, they know how to make art out of their problems! 10
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Sometimes it all rolls like a derailed train, It would be nice to burst into tears, but there are no tears left, As long as there is fire in your soul, don’t you dare be afraid of the dark, All this is left-wing show-off, your problem and you!
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- You want to run away and away without looking back, It’s a sunny day, and there’s rain over your head, There’s good and evil in you, angels and demons, Whatever one may say, but mostly your problem is you!
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Sometimes it seems that you are completely alone, That the whole world has turned against you with war, And all your dreams are melting away like white smoke, All these are mirages, your problem and you!
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When a girl tells you about her problems, ah, they don’t need to be solved at all. You need to listen to them, and then be surprised how she even lives with them. 10
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A person can only save himself, and the wisdom of the great and the participation of loved ones can only support him, can only help him accept the challenge of fate. 10
“Everything is complicated” status, or 5 steps to make your life easier
How often do you say to yourself: “That’s enough. Tired. There are only problems all around!” How often do you look for someone to blame for your difficulties: “Fate is a villain, a sign under which you were unlucky to be born, a gypsy near the metro has the evil eye.” Problems multiply, and the “everything is complicated” status continues to haunt you, despite complaints and “explanations.”
For a long time I experienced similar feelings. I cursed fate when I had to submit the difference in subjects when transferring from one university to another. Following her mother, she repeated that “Capricorn, and therefore must climb mountains,” when she was preparing a complex sample for her master’s thesis.
And the other day I complained to my therapist that “everything is complicated” for me again. Difficult clients, complicated legal cases, well, everything is as usual. And she asked: “Why do you take on difficult clients? Why don’t you refuse?” My answer explained a lot: “Well, I can do it!”
This is how I create my problems, trying to “jump out of my pants” (
my mother’s expression
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So, the first step in a situation where “everything is complicated” is to find the reason. As a rule, this reason is not in the villainous fate, not in the zodiac sign under which we were unlucky to be born, but in ourselves.
We do it ourselves. But for what? Why do we need to embrace the immensity, jump above our heads, what motivates us? I was driven by achievement. A strong desire, no matter what, to achieve your goal.
The second step on the path to exploring “everything is complicated” is to find out what motivates us, to recognize our inner motivator. And here the correct question will not be “Why do I need this?”, but “For what” or “Why do I need this?”
Achievement helps me climb Everest while others stand in front of a small stone. Thanks to him, I have one half marathon, two honors diplomas and three published articles under my belt. I get an unreal dose of adrenaline when I achieve my goal. This is my thrill. My parents raised me this way: “Nothing is impossible, everything can be achieved!” Now I think so myself.
Everything would be fine if I weren’t a human. A person who is tired, exhausted, who sometimes wants to look down and just do nothing.
Step Three: Learn the pros and cons of your motivator. What does he give you? What does it take away? My achievement gives me an interesting, fulfilling life, the thrill of achievement, but it takes energy and strength.
How to be? Should I give up pleasure and live in peace or continue the mad race for achievements, getting a portion of the buzz every time? Living without goals is too boring for me, and chasing them is too tiring.
I started experimenting and lived without goals for a couple of months. I imagined that I lived on a paradise island where there was everything: fruits, water, sun, sea. I explored and appropriated the benefits that living in the moment provided:
- I became calmer, my sleep became stronger, and my mood became more positive;
- Communication with people when you are not in a hurry has become more interesting, deep and sincere;
- I began to enjoy simple things - a cup of coffee, the smile of a passerby and the bright sun;
- I wanted to be creative - write paintings, articles, master something I had never done before - pottery, photography;
- Miracles began to happen to me - problems that had been unsolvable for years were resolved by themselves.
I felt the value of life in the wake of the process. It turned out to be no less interesting and fulfilling for me than life in pursuit of goals.
Fourth step. Try “living in reverse.” For me it was a life without goals, with slowness and without haste. Imagine some bright picture (for example, life on a paradise island). Explore the benefits of “reverse living”, what does it give you?
But the reality is that, unfortunately, I lived not on a paradise island, but in a metropolis, with its frantic rhythm and multi-tasking. I had to set goals again. And honestly, I again wanted that drive that I experienced when achieving. I again felt like I was in a frantic race. The question arose again: what to do?
The solution, as usual, lay in the middle. And this middle, of course, is difficult to find, and even more so to stick to it. But it's worth it.
And I began to learn to balance between achieving something and not running after a goal, but living in the moment. I remember the words of one famous actress, when, when asked how to be a mother, an actress and a producer at the same time, she answered: “You need to learn the magic of switching. There’s no other way.”
Step five: learn to balance. To do this, listen to yourself, your body. When you feel the first signs of approaching fatigue, dissatisfaction, indifference, ask yourself:
- What do I really want now?
- Am I doing what I want?
- What prevents you from doing this?
- What can I do right now about this obstacle?
- Try it!
By listening to our body, we learn to find what we really want at a particular moment: achieving a goal, getting a buzz from it, or relaxing with a book in a hammock, watching the sun set
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Do this simple exercise right now. And let this be the first step towards making your life easier.
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Strength of spirit, self-confidence, overcoming difficulties. Best Quotes
There is a force of aspiration in the human will that turns the fog within us into the sun. Gibran Kahlil Gibran
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- A person is like a brick; when burned, it becomes hard. George Bernard Shaw
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A person only achieves something when he believes in his own strength. Andreas Feuerbach
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Avoid those who try to undermine your self-confidence. A great person, on the contrary, instills the feeling that you can become great. Mark Twain
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The greatest test of a person's courage is to suffer defeat and not lose heart. Ralph Ingersoll
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Only when a person’s spiritual strength leaps up is he truly alive for himself and for others; only when his soul is red-hot and blazing does it become a visible image. Stefan Zweig
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- Allow yourself to breathe deeply and don’t force yourself into limits. Strength belongs to those who believe in their own strength. Elchin Safarli
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I became strong because I was weak, I am fearless because I was afraid, I am wise because I was a fool.
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All our muscles are not a guarantee of strength, someday a day will come that will simply bring a person to his knees and the one who rises and continues to live and becomes even better - that’s the strong one!
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Even if it rains, tomorrow there will be sun. I will move forward as long as my heart beats. Max Lawrence
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A person is driven primarily by motivations that cannot be seen with the eyes. A person is guided by the spirit. Apuleius
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- What is in a person is undoubtedly more important than what a person has. Arthur Schopenhauer
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Without a shadow of a doubt, Without hiding your face, Go to your goal Dear fighter. Go till the end! To end!
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Human capabilities have not yet been measured. We cannot judge them by previous experience; people have not yet dared so much. Henry David Thoreau
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Man is created for happiness, like a bird is created for flight. Vladimir Galaktionovich Korolenko
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I'm not a lady. Everything that was taught flew over me like the wind. But adversity did not break me, Even if I seem tough at times.
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I'm not a lady. I am a fearless warrior, One who looks only forward, One who knows so well the value of war, But in the distance the sunrise is already flaring up.
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I fought for him and will fight, And I will never forget in my life: The South lost its war ingloriously, And I won my victory equally.
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Touching the cotton fields with my hand, I look with faith into future days - What helped you? They will ask in surprise, “Strength of spirit, just bring it back and preserve it!” gone With the Wind
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Difficulties give rise to the abilities necessary to overcome them. W. Phillips
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We are people with a strong spirit and resourceful mind; we can build help from any intrigues and obstacles! Juliana Wilson
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A purposeful person finds means, and when he cannot find them, he creates them. William Ellery Channing
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Fate brings strong people to their knees in order to prove to them that they can rise, but it does not touch the weak; they remain on their knees all their lives.
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A soul that has never suffered cannot comprehend happiness! Overcoming difficulties makes you happier. George Sand
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There is no need to be sad when fatigue controls the body, the spirit is always free. In the midst of the battle you are allowed to rest. Agni yoga
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True man is not an external man, but a soul communicating with the Divine Spirit. Paracelsus
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The quietest and most serene place a person can retire to is his soul. Allow yourself such solitude more often and draw new strength from it. Marcus Aurelius
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Your determination not to give up will allow you not to break even when everything collapses.
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The main thing is not the place where you are, but the state of mind in which you are. Anna Gavalda
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Don’t be afraid of your destiny, Because everything is extremely simple: Become stronger, Don’t let go of your dream, Just follow it. Black obelisk.
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Any business spores in my hands, Seethes, boils and sparkles with flame, My energy is resurrected again, And the bright spirit of a fighter in my eyes will become stronger from difficulties!
Quotes about life
No matter how hard it is now, everything will be fine.
Sometimes I wander the streets and remember the old times that will never return.
You can start life from scratch, but it is difficult to change your handwriting.
Life is like driving a bicycle. To maintain balance, you must move!
Live the way you want, not the way others expect you to live.
You only live once, only once. Make up your mind.
It's all about the moment. It defines life.
There must be pauses in life. Such pauses when nothing happens to you, when you just sit and look at the World, and the World looks at you.
Keep busy. This is the cheapest medicine on earth - and one of the most effective.
Starting from scratch is not crazy. Madness is leading a miserable life, wandering around in a dull stupor. day after day, day after day. madness - pretending to be happy, pretending that this is the burden you have to pull all your life.
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Always strive for the impossible.
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It's a shame when you have a chance to change everything, but you're afraid.
Never lose hope and faith in the best, because after the darkest night there is always a bright day and even after the heaviest rain the sun shines brightly.
There is nothing better than coming back to a place where nothing has changed to see how you have changed.
Don't be afraid of losing someone. You will not lose the one you need in life. Those who were sent to you for experience are lost. Those who are sent to you by fate remain
We draw our own world. Never say, “Everything is bad for me,” because these words, like caustic ink, eat into the pages of your life.
The art of living is more reminiscent of the art of fighting than of dancing. It requires preparedness and resilience in the face of the unexpected and unexpected.
The completeness of life, both short and long, is determined only by the purpose for which it is lived.
Life should and can be unceasing joy
Life is like a piano. White keys represent love and happiness. Black - grief and sadness. To hear the real music of life, we must touch both.
It only takes a moment to become a hero, but it takes a lifetime to become a worthy person.
Always expect the best - because you always get exactly what you expect.
Time is an amazing phenomenon. There is so little of it when you are late and so much when you are waiting...
Be yourself, listen to your heart, think with your head.©
Life is beautiful if you learn to live. Menander
The true mirror of our way of thinking is our life. Michel de Montaigne
The changes that occur in our lives are a consequence of our choices and our decisions. Wisdom of the Ancient East
Follow your Heart while you are on earth and try to make at least one day of your life perfect. Wisdom of Ancient Egypt
To live means to feel, to enjoy life, to constantly feel new things that would remind us that we are living. Nikolai Ivanovich Lobachevsky
The meaning of life is self-expression. To manifest our essence in its entirety is what we live for.
Life is not about the days that have passed, but about those that are remembered. Petr Andreevich Pavlenko
If you don't study life, it has no meaning. Plato
It only takes a moment to become a hero, but it takes a lifetime to become a worthy person. Paul Brulat
We find in life only what we ourselves put into it. Ralph Waldo Emerson
Don't waste your life on doubts and fears. Ralph Waldo Emerson
All the people and all the events in your life came into it because you attracted them. Now you have to choose what to do with them. Richard Bach
The only happiness in life is constant striving forward. Emile Zola
Every person is born for some kind of work. Everyone who walks the earth has responsibilities in life. Ernst Miller Hemingway
The art of living is more reminiscent of the art of fighting than of dancing. It requires preparedness and resilience in the face of the unexpected and unexpected. Marcus Aurelius
The task of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to live in accordance with the internal law that you create. Marcus Aurelius
