NAIVET/INNOCENCE
I recently received this question:
– Most likely my question is from the mind, but I need to figure it out. What is naivety? Is it an escape from reality, protection from it, or something else? I have always been told that I am very naive. This is probably true, I believe in the bright, the good, the pure. I see the good in people, I easily forgive meanness, I am not interested in gossip or intrigue. My friend is surprised: “How did you live to be 38 years old?” But I don’t know, this is the norm for me, I can’t do it any other way...
And another example of naivety:
– I’m never aware of office gossip: who sleeps with whom, who did what, etc. It seems like I’m in the same team, but I don’t “get involved” in it. I always find out everything at the last moment and am so sincerely surprised every time that they even laugh at me. And then I just as sincerely forget... Everyone is already used to the fact that I’m not in the know. One woman told me that I have an amazing ability to sift out all the chaff - I just don’t see it.
An interesting twist: the same “naive” perception of the “ignorance of the sins” of others can be seen as vulnerability and some kind of inferiority, or as freedom from the tinsel of roles, the ability to see the essence of phenomena and interactions. After all, this essence is simple: in life there are no guilty people, only victims. And this inner knowledge allows us to see a living soul in every person. (And, by the way, it allows you to step aside without disgust or indignation when this very living soul cannot break through to the personal consciousness of the person who is playing too much.)
Compare the feeling of the words: “naivety” and “innocence”. It’s not for nothing that they say “childishly innocent.” Only when you are internally pure, do not remember evil, or rather do not evaluate anything, are you able to see the best.
From the position of a matrix person, naivety seems like some kind of defect: it seems that you can easily be deceived, set up, used, scammed... But this only happens when a person mentally tries to see the good, but inside he is still afraid of encountering the worst. Because for him this “worst” exists separately, without connection with the value of the lessons of Life.
There is a lot of such pseudo-acceptance in people: like I don’t want to see “bad” in people, and therefore it becomes a dangerous surprise for me! Since life is a mirror, this means only one thing: we do not want to recognize certain qualities in ourselves and therefore we also turn a blind eye to similar things in others . And, of course, Life will arrange it so that the Mirror ends up under our noses. For example, the dependence of self-esteem on the availability of money attracts scammers, and the fear of being “not like others” attracts those who reject...
If you believe from within: “everything that is done is for the better,” then nothing “bad” can simply happen to you, because you do not have a magnet inside that attracts it with your fears. So the baby will not be torn to pieces by wild animals: the tiger will bypass him, the bear will lick him and move on - because there is no fear in him. Those. naivety-innocence makes you absolutely protected.
In this sense, naivety is a wonderful quality, and I would call it differently - the ability to live with the soul.
The quality of innocence resonates greatly with the current placement of our “higher selves” within us. Each of us has lived many lives, gained unique experience of the journey of our unique soul, and exchanged it between incarnations with kindred souls and worlds. And now the time has come to ground these treasures - to remember our unity in the Spirit and kinship in the Soul and create a New World based on this foundation. Therefore, at the moments when our eternal components join our earthly consciousness, we experience unexpected states of expansion in the perception of ourselves in the surrounding reality.
The symptoms of this placement are different for everyone: someone, against the background of increased sensitivity to the beauty of this world, feels unfocused vision and attention, someone loses coordination (“doesn’t get the spoon into their mouth”), someone feels dizzy, ringing or other sounds... But the same thing is that we begin to feel our grandeur, to feel huge - much larger than our body.
We once knew how to do this - to be huge in small bodies - when we were just starting to live in the material world. Then we forgot it, carried away by the game of mortals (which was planned by us), but now we are bringing this feeling back again.
We don’t need to learn anything again or try - the memory of the fact that we have a different scale is in our hearts. You just need to be attentive to your resource and your feelings - it’s pointless to be in the body, studying how you feel when you are huge. Just breathe, just love, just admire the clouds, consciously accepting your true essence - eternal and renewed at the same time.
And the flip side of this divine presence in our body is precisely the return of original, divine innocence . Remember the phrase: “Be like children, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven!..”
It would seem that these are contradictory manifestations - on the one hand, you are a powerful demiurge, and on the other hand, a naive child... However, we are also familiar with this image - the image of angels: they are powerful and at the same time innocent, like children - it is not for nothing that they are portrayed with round cheeks and radiant eyes.
When we are on the frequency of the heavenly Child and, like children, we are amazed at the miracle of the world, energy flows through our hearts, transforming the world. This is very important - for someone to look at visible reality with childlike trust and admiration!
It is not for nothing that naivety is often confused with openness and purity, because this is purity - purity of the Soul . But at the same time, naivety is by no means a sign of weakness or helplessness, but, on the contrary, a sign of strength and courage. You need to be a very strong soul to choose defenselessness, to choose apparent fragility and vulnerability and enter the material world with this. Only brave souls are capable of this.
It is no coincidence that many of my cadets understand over time that their softness, their excessive trust in people and faith in the best, their apparent naivety is not a problem, but a GIFT that is given from above and from which it is a stone's throw to Unconditional love.
And the ability to love people unconditionally, as they are, reveals Strength. The power of co-creation of reality in every moment of Life.
Who is a naive person?
A naive person is, first of all, a weak individual exposed to risk from the outside world. There is no understanding in his head that he can be deceived. Therefore, after the lie is revealed, it will be really difficult for him. On the one hand, he may remain indifferent to the revealed untruth and continue communicating with the deceiver. On the other hand, he can remember this bad deed for the rest of his life, and over time he will attach even greater significance to what happened. It is these representatives of humanity who suffer the betrayal and betrayal of their loved ones more painfully than others.
