I am often asked why I equate dreams with goals? I never really thought about it, I was just surprised that the majority of people do not achieve the goals they would like.
When you just dream, a dream is something abstract, it carries nothing with it except a beautiful picture that you love, looking out the bus window on the way to work. Such a dream will remain a dream; it will not reach the path of reality.
If you still want to fulfill your dream, you need to make it a goal. By procrastinating or doubting your capabilities, you slow yourself down. The phrase “This is impossible” will also not bring you closer to your dream. This is just an excuse. Everything is possible, and you must believe it!
How to dream about the future correctly
So, if you want to make your dream come true, turn on your “dreamer” and take a pen and a piece of paper. You can open notepad on your computer.
Now write your dreams in a column - 10-20 pieces. Write everything that comes to mind. (A dog, a new car, a yacht, 2 million rubles or a family castle in London - it doesn’t matter). Any of your dreams deserves attention. Now, next to each dream, write down its cost. Find out online if you don't know how much a particular dream costs. Finally, look at what exactly you want.
Now add up all the numbers. How much did you get?
Once you know how much your dreams are worth, you need to take your monthly income and calculate how much time it will take to make those dreams come true. To do this, divide the above number by your salary. Just don’t forget to deduct from your salary the approximate amount that goes towards food, rent, etc. However, you can take an integer. The resulting number is the number of months that are needed to make your desires come true.
I think you are in quiet horror. There must have been a lot. And in the first case - when you have calculated the cost of your desires, and in the second - the time it takes to achieve them. You can rest easy on this. If the numbers depress you, if you have lost all enthusiasm for going towards something, and your dream suits you in the form of a picture on a bus, then this is your right.
To start.
Let me start by saying the following. I do not take this method from books or textbooks. I tested it on myself. And I checked it several times. However, I want to immediately make a reservation that everything did not always work out the way I wanted. Sometimes the dream was fulfilled, but in such a way that you then asked yourself the question, did you really need it? This happened most often when I made a wish, but did not think through in detail how to get it. Therefore, I’ll say right away, be extremely careful when making wishes. Think through your desires and dreams down to the smallest detail. The Universe (if you prefer to call it God) helps us fulfill our desires. Please note that if you do not clearly see in your thoughts the path to fulfilling your dream, you may be “offered” such an option that will simply take your breath away.
Your dreams will come true
But if you intend to change something in order to achieve your dream faster, take another piece of paper and write down what you would like to do that could help you achieve all your desires. Don't spare your imagination, write everything.
Now imagine what activities from the list you could do in 5 years - the rest of the items should be crossed out. Choose the most attractive field of activity from the remaining ones, in which you know more than others, which gives you joy, which you are always not too lazy to do, no matter what happens.
Now it's up to you. You know how much your dream costs, where you should go. The dream became a goal. When we outline a dream, we know exactly what we want, it becomes a goal, which is why I associate dreams with goals. You may want to undergo business training, or you may want to get a new job that you have long dreamed of. In any case, do not forget about the calculations that you just made, they will motivate you, and rest assured - the moment you saw the clear outlines of your dream, you are several steps closer to its fulfillment!
Make your own story.
To summarize this story, I want to say. Remember, you can create miracles yourself. The main thing is to want it. Of course, right now, in one minute, it will most often not be possible to fulfill your cherished dream, but if you make an effort and believe, then practically nothing is impossible for a person.
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Best regards, Anton Vlasov.
Well, this is for you, my friends, as a final point. Smile!
Materialization of desires
Have you ever noticed the following interesting phenomenon. You decide to buy a car of a certain make and model, and suddenly you start seeing it everywhere. Wherever you are, you always see it. As soon as we “bother” with some topic, immediately on TV, in conversations with friends, it begins to haunt us.
This is not a coincidence. Our thoughts truly create our reality. What we focus our attention on, whether it is positive or negative, is what we attract into our lives. Every thought in our head, every feeling we experience, everything we hear and read affects our reality.
My boss often tells managers who start whining that sales are unlikely to be successful this month, the following phrase. “If you think like that, then everything will be exactly like that.”
This principle also works in the area of relationships. Once you have a clear idea of what kind of relationship you want, you get it. It's important to understand exactly what physical traits, behaviors, values, beliefs and interests are important to you so that you can focus on those.
It happens that having failed in one relationship, we take note of the reason for the failure and move on to the next relationship, taking into account only this one reason. In this case, there is a risk of breaking up because of something else.
For example, having broken up with a partner because he abused alcohol, when choosing the next one, we first of all “break through” this issue. Having made sure that he is far from this vile hobby, we calmly develop our relationship. And then it turns out that he... is a terrible lazy person, sitting on your neck, not only does not want to lay a finger on your finger, but also cannot. And this turn of events doesn’t suit you either. That is, we need to take into account not only the problems of previous novels, but also, in principle, what we would not want to see in a relationship.
Decide on the need
A truly cherished dream requires strong motivation. Of course, you can want a third fur coat, like a friend’s, or a new car with a completely serviceable old one. But such a desire, imposed by consciousness, insincere and, in general, not very necessary, will not receive the energy push necessary for embodiment. Real needs arise precisely when the need arises. And understanding what exactly you need, and not someone else’s uncle, or because it is so customary, is the most important thing in making your dreams come true.
Momentary wishes caused by children's complexes or the desire to assert themselves rarely bring joy. Because they are not for themselves, but for someone. To meet someone’s expectations, or to adapt to the majority, or to grow in your own eyes with the help of material wealth. But is this what you need? When dreams come true, they should bring great joy and a sense of satisfaction. And you need to set yourself up positively. For example, if you want to change your job to a higher paying one, then first of all you need to imagine in your imagination how many good things you can do with this money. Thus, the subconscious will be sure that the chosen path is important and necessary, and will stop slowing down the process of achieving your dream.
How to visualize a desire correctly
The technology for fulfilling desires, that is, visualization, is simple to the point of impossibility. Find a quiet place, relax and begin to vividly imagine how your wish comes true. Look at the details, look into the details, begin to feel what you will experience when your wish comes true. Create your own parallel reality, where you already have what you dream of.
If during visualization thoughts come into your head like “this is impossible”, “what the hell am I doing now”, just ignore them and continue imagining.
So far, modern scientists have too little knowledge to logically explain how this happens, but as soon as you make your dream a reality in your head, everything in life will also begin to change. You will begin to be given chances, people will appear who can help you fulfill your dream, and various accidents will begin to happen. You may believe it, you may not, but it will happen.
Dream visualization
When visualizing a desire, remember that “specifics” are your friend. The more accurately and in detail you imagine what you want to get, the greater the chance that you will have it, and the sooner you will get it. That is, dreaming about an abstract “pile of money” is not the best option. Decide how much money you want? What will you do with them? How will you spend your time? How will you feel?
Sensations, emotions, feelings during visualization act as fuel - they move you towards what you want. The faceless “I want a big house” works worse than a picture of a wooden two-story chalet-style mansion, where you and your husband are sitting by the fireplace, drinking wine, getting ready to go to the jacuzzi on the terrace, which overlooks the forest.
And for those who do not believe in visualization, I will remind you that during an autopsy (that is, an autopsy), not a single pathologist will find a soul in a person. But that doesn't mean it doesn't exist, right?
