50 phrases and words that can be said to the relatives of a deceased person to support

We congratulate all guests of our site on a wonderful holiday - the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity and give beautiful and sincere congratulations in prose. Choose, send and congratulate your family and friends. We also have congratulations in verse for you, as well as beautiful and funny cards on the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity.

What do they tell the relatives of the deceased?

If a person is going to express his condolences, then he must take into account who he is related to the deceased:

Relative . In this case, even if the relationship is distant, you can focus on your emotions. A good phrase would be: “Please accept my condolences! When I found out about [Name]’s death, I couldn’t find a place for myself out of grief”;
Friend . Here it is suitable to designate your close and trusting relationship with the deceased, for example: “I sincerely sympathize with you! I knew [Name] for many years, he was like a brother to me”;
Colleague .
It is best to use neutral, formal phrases: “My condolences! My colleagues and I share the grief of your loss.” INTERESTING: How can you calm a person down with words from a distance? Words of support in difficult times

You can also express condolences to relatives using one of these phrases :

Everyone who knew him is grieving now, because such a tragedy cannot leave anyone indifferent. I understand how difficult it is for you right now. I will never be able to forget him and I assure you that I will support you in every possible way, should you contact me.
Our family mourns with you. The loss of such reliable support in life is irreparable. Always remember that we would be honored to help you any minute you need it.
Today everyone who knew him mourns with you. This tragedy does not leave anyone close to us indifferent. I will never forget him, and I consider it my duty to him to support you on any occasion, as soon as you turn to me.
It is difficult to express in words how much we sympathize with your loss! It hurts to even think about it, and it's so hard to talk about. He was a golden man, of which there are few! We will always remember him!
He/she meant a lot to me and to you, I mourn with you. Let it be a consolation to us that he gave so much love and warmth. Unfortunately, in this imperfect world we have to experience this. He was a bright man whom we loved. You can count on me at any moment.
I sincerely sympathize with you... What a man he was, he meant a lot to all of us... He deserves more words than can be said now. In my memories of the deceased, he is both our teacher of justice and a mentor in life. Eternal memory to him!
This is a real tragedy, I am very hurt at this hour. But it’s hardest for you! Love will not die, and the memory of him (her) will always illuminate our hearts! I know this is a hard blow for you and I mourn your loss. If I can help you with anything, please contact me!
I would like to find words to somehow ease your pain, but it is difficult to imagine whether such words exist on earth at all. Bright and eternal memory!
This tragedy has hurt all of us. But of course, it affected you the most. Please accept my sincere condolences. Always ready to help you in any difficult situation.
Your shock from the onset of grief is a severe shock. But you have the strength to overcome grief and continue what he did not manage to do. We are nearby and we will help with everything - contact us! This is our duty to remember the deceased!
I want to offer my sincere condolences to all of you. A wonderful man has passed away. My condolences at this sad and difficult moment. He meant a lot to me, I mourn with you...
I sympathize and sympathize with your loss - this loss is irreparable. Intelligence, iron will, honesty and justice... - these are not all his qualities. We would like to ask him for forgiveness for so many things, but it’s too late... Eternal memory to a great man!
I was simply overwhelmed by this terrible news. It's all like a bad dream. It is difficult to express our grief in words - it is too great. Let the kindest memories and bright memories of her be at least a small consolation!
I express my sincere sympathy to you and I can say that the only thing that can help you get over your loss is your memories. He/she will always be remembered as a hardworking, intelligent and loving person. I wish you to find solace in your family and friends. My deepest condolences.
The news of his departure came as a shock to us. We can only guess what a blow this was for you. At such moments we feel abandoned, but remember that you have relatives and friends who loved and appreciated him. Always count on our help...
I am truly sorry for your loss. This is a very sad and sad time for you. But good memories are what will help you survive this loss. He lived a long and colorful life and achieved success and respect in it. We also join in our friends’ words of grief and memories of him.
She/he was a model of delicacy and tact. Her/his memory will be as endless as her/his kindness to all of us. The passing of a loved one is an incomparable grief. Please accept my deepest condolences!
Sincere condolences to you, I share your grief. It is very difficult to lose your loved ones, family and friends, and it is doubly worse if the young, beautiful and talented leave us. May God rest his soul.
It is impossible to find such words of support to ease your pain even a little. One can only imagine how difficult it is for you right now. Please accept our sincere condolences on the death of your loved one.
My condolences, unfortunately, in this imperfect world you have to experience this. He was a bright man whom we all loved. I cannot find words to express my sorrow to you. It is very difficult to lose such a dear person. I share your grief. You can always count on me and my help.
Please accept my most sincere condolences. For all of us, he will remain an example of love of life. We mourn with you in this difficult moment and will remember him forever!
My condolences! The death of a loved one is the loss of a part of yourself. Hold on, these are the most difficult days, it will be easier later... We mourn together with your grief, we are close...
I mourn with you in this difficult moment. It’s scary to even imagine that half of you has left. But for the sake of the children, for the sake of loved ones, we need to get through these sorrowful days. Invisibly, he will always be there - in the soul and in our eternal memory of this bright man.
Words cannot heal a terrible wound in the heart.
But bright memories of her, how honestly and honorably she lived her life, will always be stronger than death. In the bright memory of her, we are with you forever! INTERESTING: What to say at the wake after the funeral? Examples of phrases, mourning statements, how to say a funeral speech?
There are such mournful words: “A loved one does not die, but simply ceases to be around.” In your memory, in your soul, your love will be eternal! We remember him with kind words. Bright and eternal memory!
There are no words to express how deeply we mourn his/her death. We cannot even imagine how much of a blow his/her passing was for you. She/he was a model of tact and mercy. We are happy that she was in our lives...
We are all deeply saddened. Our souls are bleeding from untimely loss. The deceased was a support to all of us. His kind heart and wide soul were always open. May the soul of this magnificent man rest in peace, we will always remember him with a feeling of bright sadness...
Please accept my sincere condolences! What a man he was! Just as she lived modestly and quietly, she left humbly, as if a candle had gone out. We will remember and honor forever...
We sympathize with your loss! The news of his/her death shocked our entire family. We remember and will remember him as a most worthy person. Please accept our sincere condolences!
We offer you and your entire family our deepest condolences on your tragic death. We share your grief and offer you words of support and consolation. We pray for the deceased. Please accept our deepest condolences...

Congratulate your brother-in-law on his birthday in your own words

(Name)! On this brightest day, accept the words of wishes for happiness and warmth. Let only joy cross the threshold of your home, and let worries always remain outside the door!

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I want to wish you not just prosperity and a good life, but also a successful combination of circumstances. So that you can be proud of your achievements. Live brightly and smile every day!

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I wish you health and good mood, all the blessings and pleasures of life, prosperity and home comfort, love and human happiness!

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Let life become a long journey, full of adventures and discoveries, let every day promise a holiday, and the night a fairy tale!

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Today your eyes glow, there is a beautiful smile on your lips, and the air is saturated with the love of loved ones, let it always be like this, and not just on your birthday.

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I wish you, brother-in-law, to become a real gardener and builder in life. Build a wonderful family and plant a wonderful garden of cute kids. Happy birthday, work hard and drive away laziness.

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Happy birthday, aunt! Guests, noise, feast, Congratulations, toasts, bustle. Let your heart be filled to the brim with love, Let a bright dream live in it!

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Let the years pass without being showered with snow, And let your eyes glow with a smile! May the sky above you be clear, and dear voices sound around you!

What should you be prepared for?

Grief over the death of a loved one sometimes brings relatives to such a state that from the outside their behavior seems a little unnatural and even strange. Not everyone stands with a mournful look at the coffin and periodically allows themselves to cry.

Situations that require special attention:

The relative does not approach the coffin, does not speak to anyone and sits with an absent look. In this case, there is no need to talk to him. It is enough to say brief words of condolences;
The relative is drunk. To drown out grief, a person may drink alcohol for several days. This behavior also requires understanding. One should not give moralizing advice, and certainly not say that the deceased would not have approved of this;
The relative does not want to listen to condolences and reacts irritably to any requests for help. Another non-standard, but possible reaction to a stressful situation;
The relative tries to be active, talks a lot, and is sometimes unnaturally positive. In the bustle and conversations, he tries to distract himself at least a little from the sad event. This is especially true for women. Sometimes they diligently avoid the topic of the death of their husband or child, trying to ask the guest of the wake about his personal life, work, etc.

Most of these actions are a protective mechanism of the psyche under severe stress.

How to calm a person whose relative has died?

To ease the mental suffering of a grieving person, it is enough to follow simple tips:

Remember the good moments associated with the deceased. Of course, for this you need to be on close terms with the relatives of the deceased. For example, it’s worth remembering how you all went on vacation somewhere together, celebrated a holiday, etc. The more bright memories there are, the better;
Note the good qualities of the deceased that distinguished him during his lifetime. The main thing is to tell the truth and not attribute characteristics to the deceased that he did not have. For example, if a person was silent and gloomy during his lifetime, then it is not worth saying that he had a cheerful disposition and always remained positive. It will look like inappropriate flattery. Instead, it is better to say that you always liked the calm disposition of the deceased person or his ability to easily cope with difficulties;
Offer any help you can. It is important that these are not empty promises. For example, if a relative of the deceased has serious financial difficulties, and you are offered to help pay for the funeral, then you must definitely keep your word. After all, if he agrees, and in response receives an excuse like “I have some unforeseen difficulties,” then this will greatly offend him. It turns out that the promises to help were made insincerely. As a result, a person only becomes more upset and disappointed in people;
Listen . Often a grieving person wants to express his pain in words. But at the same time, not everyone is ready to immediately open up even to close people. Therefore, it is worth directly saying that you are ready to listen to him. But there is no need to insist if a relative refuses to talk;
Show empathy without words . Sometimes it’s enough just to be close to a grieving person, to hold their hand or to hug them unobtrusively. It all depends on how trusting the relationship is between you;
Share your experience of loss . You can tell how you survived the death of a loved one, how you were able to distract yourself, calm yourself down, and what gave you the strength to live on. It’s just important not to compare your grief with someone else’s, that is, to avoid phrases like: “I was able to get through this, and even more so you!” It was much harder for me, no one supported or helped me, but you have adults and caring children.” Let the story about personal experiences be, as it were, separate from the situation in which the grieving person finds himself.

Beautiful congratulations on the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity 2021 in prose

There is no stronger union than a close-knit family. After all, a family is a continuation of the family line and the beginning of a new life, this is the highest happiness that a person can create himself. On such a wonderful holiday, we wish you that children’s laughter will be heard everywhere, that your family will be a faithful support, that you will always be warmed by the warmth of love. We wish your family to be friendly and united!

On this wonderful Day of Family, Love and Fidelity, we send congratulations to those who managed to keep the hearth burning, to experience all the joys and misfortunes, to carry their love, devotion and tenderness through the years and stormy weather in the house. Appreciate every moment spent together, do crazy things, drink up your life - it’s so beautiful!

Let harmony reign in your family, let your thoughts float on the same wave, let your opinions not contradict each other. On this day of family, love and fidelity, always keep and protect your hearth. After all, a family is a small unit of the entire society. Let happiness, understanding and unearthly love reign in this little nest. May your children be the happiest and most successful, growing in love and joy, and may your family be the strongest and most friendly!

The most important thing a person has is, of course, his family. No amount of wealth in the world, jewelry or diamonds can replace family. It is for the sake of family that people live, but this institution is extremely fragile and requires constant work on oneself, constant nourishment. What supports a family? Of course, love and loyalty. Therefore, on the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity, I want to wish that you live exclusively in a happy marriage and that you have a lot of appropriate nourishment.

Dear, I congratulate you on the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity. I wish that our family only gets stronger, that we do not know any hardships and sorrows. Let love, loyalty, tenderness, care, warmth and romance fill our family nest. Always remember that you have a strong back - your family!

A person feels the taste of life while he loves. Everyone, everywhere is talking about this. I'm so happy that we love and that we are together. I hope that there will always be love and loyalty in our family. Congratulations on a wonderful day and every time I never cease to be happy and amazed that we have finally found each other.

Congratulations on the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity! I wish that all three of these components will always be in your life! Let the family protect, support and warm with its warmth. Let love bring happiness, and let fidelity give confidence that it will always be this way!

Family is the most important thing in every person’s life. No value or wealth can replace the family for which everyone lives. But a family is a fragile creation that requires constant nourishment. And love and loyalty can provide nourishment. Love and respect each other, believe each other, and be happy. After all, there is only one life, and you need to live it in a happy marriage so that in old age you can remember how great it was for you.

Why is it so important to support a relative of the deceased?

The death of a loved one is one of the main causes of suicide. The first weeks after the funeral are especially dangerous, when the final realization of the loss occurs. Some people suddenly realize that their own life no longer seems so meaningful without a loved one.

This is why support for bereaved people is so important. We must carefully monitor their behavior. Warning signs are:

Sudden change of mood from bad to good;
Putting things in order;
Poor appetite;
Sleeping too much or prolonged insomnia.

Everyone recovers from loss differently. For some, a week is enough, for others, they may recover only after a month. If a person cannot return to normal life for more than a month and a half after the funeral, then it is worth thinking about taking the relative to a psychotherapist.

What should you say at a funeral to the relatives of the deceased?

There are a few more phrases that would be appropriate to say to the loved ones of the deceased:

“I'm sorry for your loss! He was a wonderful person, blessed memory!”;
“Let me express my condolences. My family and I mourn with you";
“It’s a pity that he is no longer with us. Accept my condolences";
“I can’t believe he left us! I share your grief and sincere condolences”;
“He meant a lot to all of us. It is difficult to cope with such a loss. If I can help you with anything, then contact me, I will never leave you alone in trouble!”

When the time comes to offer your condolences to the relatives of the deceased, there is no need to worry about the beauty of phrases. The main thing is that the words sound sincere, and the grieving person feels that there are caring and sympathetic people next to him, ready to listen and help.

The most beautiful kind words of wishes in prose

Accept from us wishes of peace and goodness, sun, warmth and light! Smiles of friends and care of relatives! Let good health become your companion, let your dreams and cherished desires come true! The children only delight with their successes, the husband cares and pampers! Women's happiness to you, family comfort and spiritual comfort!

I wish you a sea of goodness, an ocean of good luck, and a whole mountain of happiness! Let your money never run out, your health never decrease, and your mood always be festive. May fate sincerely love you, and may all the good things in your life grow day by day!

I wish that no wishes from your enemies will ever come true, no matter how big they may be, but that even the smallest wishes from your friends will come true!

I wish you a life without despondency, in love - madness and passion, in a career - profit and power.

Let every minute of life be bright, eventful, extraordinary, full of unforgettable impressions and pleasant surprises!

I wish you a sea of goodness, an ocean of good luck and a whole mountain of happiness! Let your money never run out, your health never decrease, and your mood always be festive. May fate sincerely love you, and may all the good things in your life grow day by day!

The whole world lies at your feet, all roads are only for you. I wish you to follow the right path and take everything you can from life. I wish you not to get lost, not to get lost, but to walk straight and with your head held high. And may reliable and faithful friends accompany you on this path!