A touching message for Father's Day: “Every person needs a dad. Dad, not a word" (video)
Every dad deserves to receive such a congratulation on Father's Day
5 SPHERES Jun 19, 2020
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“Fatherhood greatly simplifies and makes sense of the life process, protects you from crazy and vulgar actions and steps, and keeps you in balance. Because it’s so simple: you need to work, be strong, decent, not completely proud and not be a complete egoist if you have children” - Evgeniy Grishkovets
My father often played with my brother and me in the backyard of our house. Mom scolded: “You will ruin the lawn!” “We don’t grow lawn,” my father answered. “We Raise Children” - Harmon Killebrew
“The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” - Howard W. Hunter
“Being a great father is like shaving. No matter how well you shave today, you'll have to do it again tomorrow . — Reed Markham
“There is nothing more courageous than being the father of a newborn child,” Matthew McConaughey .
“Fatherhood is a great honor for me. Children discover the most important thing in everyone - a sense of surprise and delight at life,” Boris Grebenshchikov .
“As soon as we had our baby, I immediately wanted to call my parents and apologize to them. Because before that, I didn’t understand how much they really love me” - Ashton Kutcher .
“Becoming a father means learning to look at things in a new way. Yesterday you had a million important things to do, and today suddenly your son becomes the most important thing” - Lionel Messi .
“Becoming a father takes courage. Being a man means going through many difficulties. Fatherhood is one of these difficulties in the development of a man’s personality. This is a test that provides enormous opportunities for spiritual growth.”
“Fatherhood is an attitude towards a child that combines strength and tenderness, love and demandingness.” - Archpriest Andrey, “Book of Fatherhood”
“When you turn 40, you to some extent reassess your values, reconsider your positions in life. Now I am beginning to notice that there is pleasure from communicating with loved ones, and there is tenderness and love. And I would have noticed this earlier if it weren’t for the need to close my eyes to everything that does not relate to work. This goes away with age. You become more emotionally available when you have children, and the rest fades into the background." - Will Smith.
“A good father is one of the most unsung and unsung, and at the same time one of the most valuable assets in our society.” - Billy Graham
Bazarov's quotes about nature
“Flying fish can stay in the air for a while, but soon they must splash into the water.”
“A maple leaf, when it falls to the ground, looks like a butterfly, and this is strange because the driest and deadest is similar to the most cheerful and lively.”
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“There must be something special, some kind of vanity, in the feeling of a person who knows and says that he is poor.”
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. And he looked around, as if wanting to understand how one could not sympathize with nature. "
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“Personality, dear sir, is the main thing; The human personality must be as strong as a rock, for everything is built on it.”
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“They [the Russian people] sacredly honor traditions, they are patriarchal, they cannot live without faith.”
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“Without self-esteem, without self-respect - and in an aristocrat these feelings are developed - there is no solid foundation. public building. "
Aphorisms about nihilism
“As for time, why will I depend on it? It’s better to let it depend on me.”
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“When I meet a person who would not give up in front of me, then I will change my opinion about myself.”
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“There was an empty space in the suitcase, and I put hay in it; It’s the same in our life’s suitcase: no matter what they fill it with, as long as there is no emptiness.”
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“A person is able to understand everything, how the ether trembles and what happens in the sun; but how a person can blow his nose differently than himself, he is not able to understand this.”
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“A real person is not one about whom there is nothing to think, but whom one must obey or hate.”
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". Our man is happy to rob himself just to get drunk on dope in a tavern. "
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“Every person hangs by a thread, an abyss can unfold beneath him every minute, and yet he invents all sorts of troubles for himself, ruining his life.”
What is the conflict between fathers and children, and where do its roots “grow”?
In psychology, there are two very similar concepts - generational conflict and conflict between fathers and children. Many of these terms are identified, although there is still a difference between them.
When we talk about generational conflict, we mean misunderstanding between people born in different eras (generations). The main reason for the conflict arising on this basis is a very large temporary “gap”, which greatly prevents people from different generations from understanding each other.
When it comes to the conflict between fathers and children, the difference in the time gap narrows somewhat, since the relationship between only two generations is assumed - fathers and their children. More precisely, not only fathers, but simply parents.
This raises the question: if the difference between generations is not too great - only 20-30 years, then where does the conflict arise from?
Despite the relatively small age difference, conflict between fathers and children is a common phenomenon that begins to manifest itself as soon as the child makes attempts to assert himself.
With the first child’s “I can do it myself,” a certain misunderstanding appears when parents try to be overprotective, and the child strives to independently solve the first problems, for example, putting on a jacket and hat.
And everything would be fine if the conflict was limited to one misunderstanding. As a rule, the conflict between fathers of children manifests itself in other ways:
- Frequent quarrels and squabbles between parents and children.
- The child's desire to leave his father's house as soon as possible.
- The reluctance of both parties to listen and listen to each other.
- Mistrust on the part of closest relatives.
How to teach a child to obey?
According to statistics, conflict between fathers and children occurs in 85% of families.
It is also said in the myths of the ancient world, which describe the difficult relationships of the gods with their children.
It turns out that difficulties in communication between parents and children are indeed a long-standing phenomenon. So what's stopping you from eradicating it?
